well, i felt pretty great about losing my virginity.
she was a great, sexy, experienced older woman.
it was done in an interesting place.
although it was quite a brief affair, well, i still really enjoyed it.

RelaX, you're not alone here, I read a lot of posts that involved people feeling "awkward" the first time. That can only make it that much more special/memorable if you ask me. I agree with other posters, don't waste this with an escort or prostiture. Let me get to the real point....look, you're a guy, if you had a childhood like most of the rest of us you have a basic idea of the mechanics that are involved. I have no idea where you're at in your relationship....if you're still at 1st base then I don't suggest jumping from simple marathon make-out sessions to get-naked-and-have-sex time one night on a whim. Take things slow but steady over the course of several weeks/months so that you get to know your way around sexually. If you've ever masturbated or had your GF give you a hand job or blow job, hopefully you know what the eventual outcome is supposed to be (and feel like!) on your end. If your hands have ever wandered down her pants you have an idea what things feel like down there. If they haven't, then let your fingers do the walking and pave the way for bigger and better things. Maybe you've never put on a condom before? Get the GF involved in this...go out and get some and try a few practice runs, or do this alone if you're too uncomfortable. Once both of you get your bearings and feel more prepared, start planning the event....all I'm saying is it can be a real great time of your life and if you guys mean enough to each other to give up your virginity, then you should plan it out together. Or hell, just jump into the sack and get it over with. Regardless, for most people it's unforgettable.

did mine the right way, with my love. We lost it to each other, and we still love each other, and do it whenever we can.
As a guy, losing it isnt anything special, and I think its better to be more experienced than to be a rookie for life.

Im married to my first.:love: But i would have to say that I like the experienced sex a whole lot more. My first time was also his and so it was a little awkward but it got better, a WHOLE lot better. We've been together for 5 yrs. and married almost 4 and I have really in the last few years got open minded about sex. I think it just took time getting used to us, and getting used to what I really like. Now we'll try just about anything.

I agree. And it was just "awkward" for me because I didn't know if I would like it (you know supposed to hurt the first time and all), or if I would be good at it, there were just so many things going through my head, but I wouldn't change it for the world:) Like I said it was weird at first, but now the sex is great, and I know my husband would agree to that.:D

im still holding on to mine, waiting for that perfect moment

Mmm-hmm...
 

[QUOTE]Originally posted by Averett
[B] I wouldn't take it back. I loved my boyfriend, and I'm glad it happened the way it did.
I hear you, who would have thunken? :confused:

I lost it to my love, I had the opitunity when i was nearly 14 to a girl that was trying to get poluar the "quick" way I am still very happy I didn't My love and I enjoy it and alot.

One of the best things about having it with her was that I was already so close to her that we could laugh about it, the whole way threw and still go back for seconds before my parents got home!!!

still a virgin, dont think it is that big of a deal at all. i would want to lose it with another virgin, idealy the person of my dreams that i will love forever, blah blah, etc etc. because of the fact that people always say no one will ever forget it, such an experience/adventure would be funny to look back upon and laugh(as opposed to being laughed at). much better than losing it to some whore who just was thinking in their mind "oh this is sad" or "damn wheres the $$".. :D

sex itself doesnt mean much to me, but rather the experiences. so obviously that lends itself to the previous statements. it's supposedly one of those unforgettable experiences.. why not make it fun(ny)? then it doesnt really matter who i lose it to, as long as we still communicate later in life and reminisce.

all in all, with most things in life, in the end, i dont care.

- an inexperienced loser.

i don't think i'll be that concerned about losing the rest of it....but what part i did lose, i'd like back, just on the principle that it was with a woman i had no business being physically intimate with. garden variety regret, i guess.

Lost mine in my ex-girlfriends computer room, was quite an interesting night...especially considering her parents were downstairs.

I wish I had waited - I was a month shy of 15, and even though I was with the guy for a year, I wish he hadn't been the first.

It was only a couple weeks ago. Heh. In my dorm room on a Friday, with my girlfriend who came to see me for the weekend.

And no, I don't/won't regret it. It was enjoyable, and we're still together. Yeah, I was drunk, but I kinda needed it to get past the anxiety of it all. Fond memory already.

I'm still carting mine around at age 22 with no real future prospects for losing (or misplacing) it. Looks like its going to be here for the long haul -- or at least, the foreseeable future.

It felt good, but it was a bit awkward. I probably wouldn't go back and do it again if I could, though. I like it more now that I'm a bit more experienced.

I wouldnt take it back it was one of the best things i have ever done, she was a good friend and neither of us regret it!!!!!!

Being a virgin was highly overrated. The first few times weren't that great as I basically had no idea what I was doing, how to move, how to keep from coming too quickly, etc. I much prefer knowing what I am doing now.

I try not to regret anything... but when I lost it it wasn't really a big deal... and I regret that.