baaa

My girlfriend wakes me up all hours of the night to have sex. Turning it down is not an option, but I would like to get some sleep when I have to work in the morning. Any suggestions on changing her "horny time"?

erion

Umm. How about actually having sex at times other than when she wakes up with what my wife calls "a woman's woody"?

Don't get me wrong, a wake-up BJ is a wonderful thing, but we've had sex at all hours of the day and night if we're both home at the same time. Variety is the spice of life.

Slims

It is probably cuddle-induced horniness. Try spending more time during the day holding or at least being close with her. It might be the closeness rather than the 'night' that is making her horny.

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Redlemon

Perhaps sex just before bedtime would set the "snooze alarm" with enough time to reach the morning?

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skysooner

Someone said it best when they said "I can sleep when I'm dead". This is a gift and won't happen forever. Enjoy it. However if you REALLY want to sleep, do it late at night or wake her up some mornings to do it. This should knock her appetite down for at least a bit. I agree with Greg in that it is the cuddle syndrome. That same thing happens to me with my wife.

Harshaw

You're lucky, I can count the number of times on my fingers that my g/f has woken me up for sex. They are the only times I really enjoy waking up.

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angela146

How about a compramise: On those night when you really need uninterrupted sleep, give it to her *really good* when you get in bed. Make sure she gets satiated beyond what she things she needs. Drain every bit of labido.

On other nights, when you can sleep in or when you aren't really tired, let her get away with waking you up.

Also, you could take afternoon/evening naps together. That would give her a chance to get wakeup-sex at a time when you didn't need much sleep in the first place.

We do that sometimes: one of us says, "nap-time" and we go to bed at 4pm just so we can have sleepy-sex or wake-up sex.

skysooner has a really good point: find a way to enjoy it. Life's too short to miss out on good stuff.

oblar

man.. how i wish i could get wake-up sex.. I am so incredibly horny during the mornings, but my girlfriend is completely out of the mood. She doesn't want to touch, cuddle, nothing in the mornings.

the times I have actually had a girlfriend that enjoyed the morning play we were both in a situation where we couldnt be around each other too often in the mornings (good ol' dorms and the 2am curfew for opposite sex guests ;p )

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rmarshall

I've been woken up twice this year in the middle of the night for sex. I love it. One time, my girlfriend was masterbating while half-asleep. Is it possible to masterbate in your sleep? Anyway, after she accidently kicked me awake, I felt obliged to help her out. It was an unexpected pleasure.

I wonder if she kicked me on purpose?

dragon2fire

god i would love to have that problem

Jedbeck

I once woke up to my fiancee stroking me to wake me up. The sex after that was incredible. It only happened that one time and I would just about give anything to have stuff like that happen more often.

clifclav

you will be able to sleep your entire life.

the next day at work, everytime you yawn, realize that it is because you were making the beast with two backs. who cares if you are sleepy for that.

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erion

My wife has been woken up by orgasms brought about by "sleep masturbating" at least twice in the last year. She's usually very horny the next morning.

motdakasha

I sleep-masturbate. It's really quite annoying because I always seem to do it when I'm sleeping somewhere that I shouldn't masturbate. Also, I am apparently an unskilled sleep-masturbater because I've never orgasmed from it.

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Tirian

<<<--- also another TFPer who would wish for this problem. Happens to me about once every 5 years :-)

There are plenty of other sleep interupters to annoy me, but this one would be welcome.

sublime

yeah at least its not the alarm waking you up

baaa

OK
My schedual for sex is when I wake up, and any time during the day.
We usually have sex either first thing in the morning or right before bed. But she is still waking me up at 2, 3, or 4 in the morning.
Yes, at first I was in heavon. But know I am just tired.
And I don't want to turn her down, because she always lets me do it in the morning (when she's not all that into it)
I just want some routine wide awake afternoon right off of work sex