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cherylcannady · 08-19-2003, 06:17 AM

I need to know if I'm the only one who has ever experienced this. Guys or Girls: let me know if I'm just really inept.

The situation. I have my tongue pierced. Really makes blow jobs intense (or so Mr.S tells me). So I find myself giving him blow jobs on a regular basis. Well... one night, I was doing the deed, and his penis slid under my tongue instead of on top of it. Get the picture? I really ripped my frenulum (the webbing at the base of the underside of the tongue). Lots of blood. Lots of pain. Mr.S was so traumatized, he felt super guilty. It took about two weeks to completely heal, and I still have scar tissue there.

In highschool, there was the usual braces-catching-on-skin incidents, but this frenulum tearing thing is a bit more... odd.

What do you think? Am I just really bad at blow jobs?

Thanks.

ratbastid · 08-19-2003, 06:31 AM

Ah, you just got carried away. Gotta be careful!

I often end up with a rather sore frenulum after a round of strenuous cunilingus with The Missus. It scrapes on my bottom teeth and gets pretty raw. Not too bad though--and I usually don't mind the reminder of the fun we had later..

Kadath · 08-19-2003, 06:58 AM

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Originally posted by ratbastid
I often end up with a rather sore frenulum after a round of strenuous cunilingus with The Missus. It scrapes on my bottom teeth and gets pretty raw. Not too bad though--and I usually don't mind the reminder of the fun we had later..

And I thought it was just me! I view as kind of a badge of honor when my tongue is hanging by a flap, so to speak.

Craven Morehead · 08-19-2003, 12:37 PM

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Originally posted by ratbastid
I often end up with a rather sore frenulum after a round of strenuous cunilingus with The Missus. It scrapes on my bottom teeth and gets pretty raw. Not too bad though--and I usually don't mind the reminder of the fun we had later..

Ha ha, me too. And I even had my dentist smooth down my bottom teeth in the front just so I wouldn't tear up my tongue so much. Was kind of difficult telling him how/why it was rough......

SiN · 08-19-2003, 12:42 PM

hmm...my tongue must be structured differently becuase i honestly can't see (or feel) how it would be possible for that to happen to me.

what kind of jewelry you got in there?
(me - 6g 3/4" straight barbell)
my piercing is a couple mm in front of my frenulum btw.

cherylcannady · 08-19-2003, 01:18 PM

My piercing isn't very crazy. I've been getting smaller and smaller over the past several months. I'm at 14g, 1/2". Can't even feel it in there anymore. It's harder to click it against my teeth.

Exactly how the incident happened: I think I was getting too creative. Doing the regular up-and-down "o" motion. Started swirling my tongue around at the same time. Upon reentry, my tongue was positioned on the upward swirl (near the roof of my mouth). I slammed my face down.

I've only had my piercing since March. My piercer said I was the first one to ever kick her in the shins while she did the piercing. The result? The piercing is kind of slanted. Can't notice it unless I mention it.

air45 · 08-19-2003, 01:19 PM

for me, is impossible to say "tragic" and "cocksucking" in the same time!

Nisses · 08-19-2003, 02:27 PM

ratbastid: if your frenulum actually scrapes your teeth, you might want to have it loosened a bit, frenulectomy or whatever. Could save you from future discomfort, and I don't think there are any side-effects too it.

cheryl: nah, just overzealous maybe

Not like it's gonna be lasting damage as far as I can tell from your story. Just be a bit more cautious next time.

Vyk · 08-19-2003, 05:00 PM

ouch! sounds like just got a wee bit out of hand. But, there really is something to say about enthusiasm in a blowjob. A woman can have incredible technique but if I know she's 'not into it' it doesn't do nearly as much for me. I've been with girls who had poor to average skill but really loved what they were doing and it made an incredible difference to me.

I too have had a sore frenulum but that's because she wanted me to give her oral 7 times in one day. oof... hehe

Slims · 08-19-2003, 05:42 PM

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analog · 08-19-2003, 11:29 PM

I give my girl a severe tongue-lashing all the time, and the teeth never rub unless i mean them too.... lol

cheerios · 08-19-2003, 11:34 PM

cheryl: you can't feel bad till you've shot cum out your nose... now THERE'S an odd feeling!

motdakasha · 08-19-2003, 11:55 PM

Be conscious of where your tongue is, I've banged that area before, but not to the extent you have. Just be careful next time(s)

cherylcannady · 08-20-2003, 06:12 AM

Thanks for all the great advice. Mr.S and I only see each other on the weekends, so our weekends together tend to be wild and crazy. When we first got together, we took a sexual compatibility quiz... the results said that we better be up to date on our health insurance! heee heee. We've both sustained several injuries over the last few months. Majorly bruised wrists, skin tears in the oddest places, strained wrist/arm muscles, odd-shaped bruises, etc.

It's just par for the course, though. Getting injured definitely helps us remember the other person during the week when we're not together.

quantumburnz · 08-20-2003, 04:51 PM

Sounds to me like you guys have some rough weekends...

kel · 08-20-2003, 05:16 PM

Jesus... the frenulum... farking hate that thing... it always get's really sore for me when I perform oral sex... I just changed my routine... I use my hands as much as possible, the tounge is just for the softer external fondling... the real work and pressure I do with my hands...

(Heh... I am a guy ;-) but the problem exists for both sexes)

WinterScar · 08-20-2003, 05:41 PM

I thought you were gonna say you ripped up his penis with your piercing or something, but then I saw you were the one who got hurt.

I had a slight feeling of relief, because I just can't take pain or imagine pain on my genitals...

Tophat665 · 08-20-2003, 07:30 PM

"Tragic Cocksucking Incidents"

Sounds like an album of Dead Kennedys outtakes...

Uuudar · 08-20-2003, 09:07 PM

One time with my ex, she wasn't quite ready for my load and I hit the back of her throat, causing her to gag and cough for the next few minutes. We (mostly me) both got a laugh out of it though, although she could have sworn it was stuck back there for a few days.

baaa · 08-21-2003, 09:58 AM

Man, I just had one of the worst blowjobs ever the other night. You see, my girl just got her tounge pierced so I keep telling he how much better it feels now (even though it's the same) so that she will give me lots of head. Well the other night she was blowing me and I ripped open her frenelum. There was blood everywhere

cherylcannady · 08-21-2003, 10:46 AM

I think that if it feels differently/better for a girl to get eaten by somebody with a tongue piercing (i know this from personal experience), then it should feel differently, possibly better, for guys to get head like that too. There's lots of ways to change it up... like getting a tickler head, a vibrating ball, etc.

It takes a while to get used to moving your tongue once you have a piece of metal in it.

oscar0308 · 08-21-2003, 11:17 AM

PHEW! i thought you were gonna say it hurt him also.

i've had some marathon sessions down under and i've never had any tongue soreness. i also use a technique where my tongue doesnt get extended all that much as i gently suck the clit into my mouth and do my flicking/swirling/licking there.

TM875 · 08-21-2003, 03:14 PM

Sorry, I'd just be too...worried...if someone with ANYTHING mettallic in their mouth gave me head. Tounge rings look really hot, but scare me. This is why I never went out with anyone in high school with braces...

08-19-2003, 06:17 AM	#1 (permalink)
cherylcannady Upright Location: Central Wis.	Tragic Cocksucking Incidents I need to know if I'm the only one who has ever experienced this. Guys or Girls: let me know if I'm just really inept. The situation. I have my tongue pierced. Really makes blow jobs intense (or so Mr.S tells me). So I find myself giving him blow jobs on a regular basis. Well... one night, I was doing the deed, and his penis slid under my tongue instead of on top of it. Get the picture? I really ripped my frenulum (the webbing at the base of the underside of the tongue). Lots of blood. Lots of pain. Mr.S was so traumatized, he felt super guilty. It took about two weeks to completely heal, and I still have scar tissue there. In highschool, there was the usual braces-catching-on-skin incidents, but this frenulum tearing thing is a bit more... odd. What do you think? Am I just really bad at blow jobs? Thanks. __________________ ~I wonder who I am today. Any ideas?

08-19-2003, 12:42 PM	#5 (permalink)
SiN strangelove Location: ...more here than there...	hmm...my tongue must be structured differently becuase i honestly can't see (or feel) how it would be possible for that to happen to me. what kind of jewelry you got in there? (me - 6g 3/4" straight barbell) my piercing is a couple mm in front of my frenulum btw. __________________ - + - ° GiRLie GeeK ° - + - ° 01110010011011110110111101110100001000000110110101100101 Therell be days/When Ill stray/I may appear to be/Constantly out of reach/I give in to sin/Because I like to practise what I preach

08-19-2003, 01:18 PM	#6 (permalink)
cherylcannady Upright Location: Central Wis.	My piercing isn't very crazy. I've been getting smaller and smaller over the past several months. I'm at 14g, 1/2". Can't even feel it in there anymore. It's harder to click it against my teeth. Exactly how the incident happened: I think I was getting too creative. Doing the regular up-and-down "o" motion. Started swirling my tongue around at the same time. Upon reentry, my tongue was positioned on the upward swirl (near the roof of my mouth). I slammed my face down. I've only had my piercing since March. My piercer said I was the first one to ever kick her in the shins while she did the piercing. The result? The piercing is kind of slanted. Can't notice it unless I mention it. __________________ ~I wonder who I am today. Any ideas?

08-19-2003, 02:27 PM	#8 (permalink)
Nisses Shade Location: Belgium	ratbastid: if your frenulum actually scrapes your teeth, you might want to have it loosened a bit, frenulectomy or whatever. Could save you from future discomfort, and I don't think there are any side-effects too it. cheryl: nah, just overzealous maybe Not like it's gonna be lasting damage as far as I can tell from your story. Just be a bit more cautious next time. __________________ Moderation should be moderately moderated.

08-19-2003, 05:00 PM	#9 (permalink)
Vyk Insane Location: Dayton, Ohio	ouch! sounds like just got a wee bit out of hand. But, there really is something to say about enthusiasm in a blowjob. A woman can have incredible technique but if I know she's 'not into it' it doesn't do nearly as much for me. I've been with girls who had poor to average skill but really loved what they were doing and it made an incredible difference to me. I too have had a sore frenulum but that's because she wanted me to give her oral 7 times in one day. oof... hehe __________________ "Courage of the heart is very rare"

08-19-2003, 06:31 AM	#2 (permalink)
ratbastid Darth Papa Location: Yonder	Ah, you just got carried away. Gotta be careful! I often end up with a rather sore frenulum after a round of strenuous cunilingus with The Missus. It scrapes on my bottom teeth and gets pretty raw. Not too bad though--and I usually don't mind the reminder of the fun we had later..

08-19-2003, 01:19 PM	#7 (permalink)
air45 Loser Location: Midwest	for me, is impossible to say "tragic" and "cocksucking" in the same time!

08-19-2003, 05:42 PM	#10 (permalink)
Slims Eccentric insomniac Location: North Carolina	Edited __________________ "Socialism is a philosophy of failure, the creed of ignorance, and the gospel of envy, its inherent virtue is the equal sharing of misery." - Winston Churchill "All men dream: but not equally. Those who dream by night in the dusty recesses of their minds wake in the day to find that it was vanity: but the dreamers of the day are dangerous men, for they may act out their dream with open eyes, to make it possible." Seven Pillars of Wisdom, T.E. Lawrence Last edited by Slims; 12-20-2010 at 07:02 PM..

08-19-2003, 11:29 PM	#11 (permalink)
analog Banned	I give my girl a severe tongue-lashing all the time, and the teeth never rub unless i mean them too.... lol

08-19-2003, 11:34 PM	#12 (permalink)
cheerios Banned Location: 'bout 2 feet from my iMac	cheryl: you can't feel bad till you've shot cum out your nose... now THERE'S an odd feeling!

08-19-2003, 11:55 PM	#13 (permalink)
motdakasha Hiya Puddin'! Miss me? Location: Silicon Valley, CA	Be conscious of where your tongue is, I've banged that area before, but not to the extent you have. Just be careful next time(s) __________________ =^-^= motdakasha =^-^= Just Google It. BA Psychology & Photography (I'm not going psychoanalyze you nor will I let you cry on my shoulder. Have a nice day.)

08-20-2003, 06:12 AM	#14 (permalink)
cherylcannady Upright Location: Central Wis.	Thanks for all the great advice. Mr.S and I only see each other on the weekends, so our weekends together tend to be wild and crazy. When we first got together, we took a sexual compatibility quiz... the results said that we better be up to date on our health insurance! heee heee. We've both sustained several injuries over the last few months. Majorly bruised wrists, skin tears in the oddest places, strained wrist/arm muscles, odd-shaped bruises, etc. It's just par for the course, though. Getting injured definitely helps us remember the other person during the week when we're not together. __________________ ~I wonder who I am today. Any ideas?

08-20-2003, 04:51 PM	#15 (permalink)
quantumburnz Tilted Location: Tucson, AZ	Sounds to me like you guys have some rough weekends... __________________ University of Arizona Tucson, AZ Computer Engineering

08-20-2003, 05:16 PM	#16 (permalink)
kel WARNING: FLAMMABLE Location: Ask Acetylene	Jesus... the frenulum... farking hate that thing... it always get's really sore for me when I perform oral sex... I just changed my routine... I use my hands as much as possible, the tounge is just for the softer external fondling... the real work and pressure I do with my hands... (Heh... I am a guy ;-) but the problem exists for both sexes) __________________ "It better be funny"

08-20-2003, 05:41 PM	#17 (permalink)
WinterScar Upright	I thought you were gonna say you ripped up his penis with your piercing or something, but then I saw you were the one who got hurt. I had a slight feeling of relief, because I just can't take pain or imagine pain on my genitals... __________________ How many licks does it take till you get to the center?

08-20-2003, 07:30 PM	#18 (permalink)
Tophat665 Minion of the scaléd ones Location: Northeast Jesusland	"Tragic Cocksucking Incidents" Sounds like an album of Dead Kennedys outtakes... __________________ Light a man a fire, and he will be warm while it burns. Set a man on fire, and he will be warm for the rest of his life.

08-20-2003, 09:07 PM	#19 (permalink)
Uuudar Insane	One time with my ex, she wasn't quite ready for my load and I hit the back of her throat, causing her to gag and cough for the next few minutes. We (mostly me) both got a laugh out of it though, although she could have sworn it was stuck back there for a few days.

08-21-2003, 09:58 AM	#20 (permalink)
baaa Banned Location: ville	Man, I just had one of the worst blowjobs ever the other night. You see, my girl just got her tounge pierced so I keep telling he how much better it feels now (even though it's the same) so that she will give me lots of head. Well the other night she was blowing me and I ripped open her frenelum. There was blood everywhere

08-21-2003, 10:46 AM	#21 (permalink)
cherylcannady Upright Location: Central Wis.	I think that if it feels differently/better for a girl to get eaten by somebody with a tongue piercing (i know this from personal experience), then it should feel differently, possibly better, for guys to get head like that too. There's lots of ways to change it up... like getting a tickler head, a vibrating ball, etc. It takes a while to get used to moving your tongue once you have a piece of metal in it. __________________ ~I wonder who I am today. Any ideas?

08-21-2003, 11:17 AM	#22 (permalink)
oscar0308 Crazy Location: New England	PHEW! i thought you were gonna say it hurt him also. i've had some marathon sessions down under and i've never had any tongue soreness. i also use a technique where my tongue doesnt get extended all that much as i gently suck the clit into my mouth and do my flicking/swirling/licking there.

08-21-2003, 03:14 PM	#23 (permalink)
TM875 Addict Location: Amish-land, PA	Sorry, I'd just be too...worried...if someone with ANYTHING mettallic in their mouth gave me head. Tounge rings look really hot, but scare me. This is why I never went out with anyone in high school with braces... __________________ "I've made only one mistake in my life. But I made it over and over and over. That was saying 'yes' when I meant 'no'. Forgive me."