Tragic Cocksucking Incidents
 

I need to know if I'm the only one who has ever experienced this. Guys or Girls: let me know if I'm just really inept.

The situation. I have my tongue pierced. Really makes blow jobs intense (or so Mr.S tells me). So I find myself giving him blow jobs on a regular basis. Well... one night, I was doing the deed, and his penis slid under my tongue instead of on top of it. Get the picture? I really ripped my frenulum (the webbing at the base of the underside of the tongue). Lots of blood. Lots of pain. Mr.S was so traumatized, he felt super guilty. It took about two weeks to completely heal, and I still have scar tissue there.

In highschool, there was the usual braces-catching-on-skin incidents, but this frenulum tearing thing is a bit more... odd.

What do you think? Am I just really bad at blow jobs?

Thanks.

Ah, you just got carried away. Gotta be careful!

I often end up with a rather sore frenulum after a round of strenuous cunilingus with The Missus. It scrapes on my bottom teeth and gets pretty raw. Not too bad though--and I usually don't mind the reminder of the fun we had later.. ;)

And I thought it was just me! I view as kind of a badge of honor when my tongue is hanging by a flap, so to speak. :)

Ha ha, me too. And I even had my dentist smooth down my bottom teeth in the front just so I wouldn't tear up my tongue so much. Was kind of difficult telling him how/why it was rough......:)

hmm...my tongue must be structured differently becuase i honestly can't see (or feel) how it would be possible for that to happen to me.

what kind of jewelry you got in there?
(me - 6g 3/4" straight barbell)
my piercing is a couple mm in front of my frenulum btw.

My piercing isn't very crazy. I've been getting smaller and smaller over the past several months. I'm at 14g, 1/2". Can't even feel it in there anymore. It's harder to click it against my teeth.

Exactly how the incident happened: I think I was getting too creative. Doing the regular up-and-down "o" motion. Started swirling my tongue around at the same time. Upon reentry, my tongue was positioned on the upward swirl (near the roof of my mouth). I slammed my face down.

I've only had my piercing since March. My piercer said I was the first one to ever kick her in the shins while she did the piercing. The result? The piercing is kind of slanted. Can't notice it unless I mention it.

for me, is impossible to say "tragic" and "cocksucking" in the same time!

ratbastid: if your frenulum actually scrapes your teeth, you might want to have it loosened a bit, frenulectomy or whatever. Could save you from future discomfort, and I don't think there are any side-effects too it.

cheryl: nah, just overzealous maybe :) Not like it's gonna be lasting damage as far as I can tell from your story. Just be a bit more cautious next time.

ouch! sounds like just got a wee bit out of hand. But, there really is something to say about enthusiasm in a blowjob. A woman can have incredible technique but if I know she's 'not into it' it doesn't do nearly as much for me. I've been with girls who had poor to average skill but really loved what they were doing and it made an incredible difference to me.

I too have had a sore frenulum but that's because she wanted me to give her oral 7 times in one day. oof... hehe

:D

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I give my girl a severe tongue-lashing all the time, and the teeth never rub unless i mean them too.... lol

cheryl: you can't feel bad till you've shot cum out your nose... now THERE'S an odd feeling! :eek:

Be conscious of where your tongue is, I've banged that area before, but not to the extent you have. Just be careful next time(s) :)

Thanks for all the great advice. Mr.S and I only see each other on the weekends, so our weekends together tend to be wild and crazy. When we first got together, we took a sexual compatibility quiz... the results said that we better be up to date on our health insurance! heee heee. We've both sustained several injuries over the last few months. Majorly bruised wrists, skin tears in the oddest places, strained wrist/arm muscles, odd-shaped bruises, etc.

It's just par for the course, though. Getting injured definitely helps us remember the other person during the week when we're not together. :)

Sounds to me like you guys have some rough weekends...

Jesus... the frenulum... farking hate that thing... it always get's really sore for me when I perform oral sex... I just changed my routine... I use my hands as much as possible, the tounge is just for the softer external fondling... the real work and pressure I do with my hands...

(Heh... I am a guy ;-) but the problem exists for both sexes)

I thought you were gonna say you ripped up his penis with your piercing or something, but then I saw you were the one who got hurt.

I had a slight feeling of relief, because I just can't take pain or imagine pain on my genitals...

:eek:

"Tragic Cocksucking Incidents"

Sounds like an album of Dead Kennedys outtakes...

One time with my ex, she wasn't quite ready for my load and I hit the back of her throat, causing her to gag and cough for the next few minutes. We (mostly me) both got a laugh out of it though, although she could have sworn it was stuck back there for a few days.

Man, I just had one of the worst blowjobs ever the other night. You see, my girl just got her tounge pierced so I keep telling he how much better it feels now (even though it's the same) so that she will give me lots of head. Well the other night she was blowing me and I ripped open her frenelum. There was blood everywhere

I think that if it feels differently/better for a girl to get eaten by somebody with a tongue piercing (i know this from personal experience), then it should feel differently, possibly better, for guys to get head like that too. There's lots of ways to change it up... like getting a tickler head, a vibrating ball, etc.

It takes a while to get used to moving your tongue once you have a piece of metal in it.

PHEW! i thought you were gonna say it hurt him also.

i've had some marathon sessions down under and i've never had any tongue soreness. i also use a technique where my tongue doesnt get extended all that much as i gently suck the clit into my mouth and do my flicking/swirling/licking there.

Sorry, I'd just be too...worried...if someone with ANYTHING mettallic in their mouth gave me head. Tounge rings look really hot, but scare me. This is why I never went out with anyone in high school with braces...