Have you had 3some?
 

Have you had 3some, and if so, what was it like? Everything you hoped for, or weird and uncomfortable? Share your experiences with those of us who might be missing out.

No, I haven't, and personally, I would want to try it. I'd rather keep certain things between my g/f and myself. Seems like it would be wierd afterwards.

Yes I have and it was great.

It depends on your attitude towards sexuality really.

I have no hang-ups and enjoyed it immensely.

Mr Mephisto

No, I haven't tried it either (sorry ;) )
And I agree with the poster above that I'm not sure I'd want to share...
That however does not remove "anonymous" fanatsies from my mind... :D

So you could say I'd want to try it sometime but not while I'm in a relationship.

When I had a 3-some with two men, it was fun and not weird or uncomfortable. In fact, I've never even worried about it being or getting weird. I think the weird-factor is greatly influenced by the maturity levels of those who are involved. These things aren't usually planned, so you just have to go with the flow. If things gather momentum, make sure everyone agrees on a safeword (like "ARMADILLO!") to stop. I'd have to say, though, that it's more fun FMF than it is with MFM. Doing it with both genders makes it unfamiliar and exciting territory for me.

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in response to a comment below this one, threesomes do not equal the end of a relationship. after my first threesome with boyfriend#1, the relationship lasted for another year and ended for other reasons (translation: he was an asshole).

Yep. I've done it, and loved it. MFM, FMF and MFMF. I thought it would be uncomfortable, but once it started, it was pretty natural. I will tell you that it is very important to have everyone on the same page, and have boundaries set up. It is not for everyone. Thise who would never do it, more power to them, those who would, have at it, but please be safe.

omg. MFMF is so not a threesome!

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funbob, what a strange way to abbreviate my nick. Modk...
it's interesting a lot of people seem to think motdakasha is one word. MOTD happens to be an acronym (not for message of the day) and akasha is a word.

I've been in several group encounters. Most of them were threesomes. With a threesome, the most important thing to remember (after protection) is to make sure that EVERYONE in the group is 100% comfortable with the situation. The only bad experience I have ever had was coming home after a night of drinking with two of my best friends. They were both single, we were all drunk, and we all regretted it in the morning. My friend Michelle felt horribly embarrassed the next day and now I hardly see her. NEVER get into a threesome with drunks, especially if they are your close friends.

Yeah, twice. Once with two women. They did me, not each other. It was beyond what I hoped for. Just incredible.

The other was my friend and his girl, who was very much into threesomes. All straight stuff. Was OK, but I prefer two women.

Never, and I don't really have the urge to do it. But know this - 3somes = end of a relationship. So if you're other wants to do it, it'll be over! If you don't believe me, think about it. After that experience it will turn very wierd, jealous etc.

Modk, I realize that MFMF is not a threesome, but if you think about it, sure the 4 of us were ther, but most of the time it was a threesome, some had to take the pictures!!!!!

No but unbelieveably I have had 2 opportunities and chickened out!! :(

However my fuck buddy at the moment has hinted a few times lately that she would like to try it but only if it's me and 2 girls. She's not interested in me and another guy. :) This time I'm not backing out if presented with the chance. What the fuck you only live once, right??

I have received oral from two girls at once but never the sex.
Could have (should have) once, but I didn't cuz one of the broads was a friend of mine's ex.

I was offered to join my good friend and his girl. I chickened out, she was hot, but when my friend said "Let's explore our bi-sexuality together" I decided against it. Other times his girl said that she wanted to "party" but I again chickened out because I didn't want to kill the mood by setting boundaries.

hoo boy! i have had both the man-man-woman and the man-woman-woman and this sexing was superior!

i recommend this premium experience for this weekend to you!

I've done 2 threesomes back in college. It wasn't as good as I think it would be now as we were all new to it, and there was definitely a bias for two partners over the third.

it is a nice fantasy, but it would be really scary with all of the risks involved, physically and mentally. i think it may be less risky with another secure couple

never....
 

haven't done it yet, but would be up to MFF or MFM.

Yep, and it was with an older couple. I was 19 and they were 43 and 45. It was great and I would do it again if they were still around

Seems that everyone is "Active", keep it up!!!

How in the world do you find people to do this kind of stuff??? All the women I know are prudes and claim they would never want to be naked with another woman. I guess girls in washington (state) are just tight asses.

Again, no I haven't, nor do I have any desire to.

You're probably not looking in the right places.

no i haven't ever had one, but JS and i were thinking about having one.....dunno....
:-p

I've been in a MFM threesome and a FMF threesome. Both were quite exciting and enjoyable. Communication about expectations really helped with the MFM one since there were some emotional issues that could have erupted there. Thankfully, everyone involved was very mature so it worked out wonderfully.

The FMF experience made some great memories that will keep putting a smile on my face till the day I die. ;)

I haven't, but I'd love to be! This would be totally dependant upon my husbands feelings, of course.

i was lucky enough to spend some time wiht 2 beautiful girls from Pennsylvania just last week, i was showing them around Santa Cruz and generally having a good time with them, so i invited them to come to a hot tub/sauna place here with a group of friends, they were a little reluctant but i could tell they were curious, i reassured them that it was totally safe and if they felt uncomfortable i could take them home anytime. they were a little too shy to go nude but ended up taking their tops off after a bit we were there pretty late into the night, i gave them a ride back to the place tehy were staying(secluded place in the mountains) we hung out in their room for a bit things were going pretty well everyone having fun and laughing, i suggested that we go outside to check out the stars, i layed out some blankets on the grass and i ended up laying with one girl in each arm under the stars. nicole was resting her hand om my stomach, and caitlin had her hand om my chest. we were jsut lying there enjoying the evening and almost simulataniously they begin moving their hands rubbing my body. nicole slowly moving her hand farther down and caitlin rubbing my nipple and chest. then things picked up pretty quickly i kissed caitlin and we made out for a bit then i leaned the other way and kissed nicole all the while touching both girls and being touched. i spent roughly equal time with each girl and we just kissed for a long time, then nicole put her hand in my pants . the pants came off very quickly as did their shirts and bras but they didnt feel comfortable getting totally naked in front of each other so there was a lot of touching and kissing i got off and we all had fun. i think it would have been wholey different if we had been in a serious relationship i mean there was no worry of jealousy or any consequences at all the whole thing was just about having fun and feeling good and id say it worked pretty well i. it turned out that nicole and i actually had a lot of chemistry and we ended up having many more good times before they left for home(thursday the 7th)

My wife is Bi and I am straight. We have threesomes from time to time, but only with the rules understood and that stop means stop or it's over. We only do it with people we don't know so there is no chance of a weird relationship getting started. That being said...
We enjoy it very much and it has never hurt our relationship. It puts that "first time with a new sex partner" excitement back into your life that you don't get anymore after being married for several years. You must have a solid relationship with your significant other before doing something like this. It can breakup a relationship if it is weak.
Set your groundrules, stick to them and have a wonderful experience. Every experience is different and makes for good fun.

I know you asked for details. One of my groundrules is not to tell anyone details about the actual sex after it is over. Just keeping the secrets is fun, too.

I haven't personally. But I would love to!
Of course I wouldn't do anything without my bf.
We were offered a great chance of a foursome with a great American couple who I chat to on the net quite a bit, and I do find them attractive, but they live in the US and we live in the UK! :(
We just got back from the US not long back and cant afford to go again, also we have no hols left!

I have not, but i would like to. My ex-girlfriend is interested in having a 3 some whenever we find some other gal, but the only hitch is that she is my EX-girlfriend heh.

I would love to have a threesome.
My husband and I have talked about it and there are so many unknowns with doing it that we are not sure that it is for us.
First you have to find someone. Do you go with someone you know and have the akwardness afterwards or do you go with a stranger that you don't know what kind of diseases they might have. Or that goes even with a friend you never know.
So we have decided the solution to this problem is that I get cloned. Sounds good to me.

Yes, and it was the most intense sexual experience I've ever had....but don't tell my wife that.

I've done a few mfm with a girl i go out with and a buddy of mine.

Because the girl and I talk about sex all the time we have an understanding that it is just a sex thing and no feelings are involved.

Plus, I know she isn't physically attracted to the guy so that helps me not get jealous of him.

It's a pretty fun experience and didn't ruin our relationship at all.

She still owes me a mff though as part of our deal.

oh man, I have enough problems with one girl, let alone two. I think that it would be all over before it even started. if you know what I mean. I dont think that I could handle the whole me and another guy and a girl. but thats just me....

I have. Mff, and that's my preference for threesomes. I was a little disappointed though, because I don't think the girl was all that comfortable with it. Given the chance, I would go for it, but all individuals involved would have to be a-ok with the situation for it to be truly wonderful.

Re: Have you had 3some?
 

All depends on the situation. My few encounters in this realm have varied with the people involved. My first one was completely satisfactory for all parties. Put simply, we had a great time and nothing about our relationship changed. This was mostly because all the people involved were mature enough to seperate physical lust from actual emotional involvement. Most of the enounters have devolved into a great morass of jealousy that really degrade a relationship.

My advice: Make sure everything is discussed beforehand and that all concerns are resolvable. If there is any doubt, call it off. Its not worth the hassle.

Veritas en Lux!
Jimmy The Hutt

once with two girls, and lemme tell you, it was sweet..... and OH the tactic I used..... even though I didnt realize it was a tactic... check this, two girls I met earlier that day, we went out to all see a movie after learning we all had planned to see something that night, we spend the whole night up. Now I figure the better looking one I didnt have a chance with so I put the moves on the good looking one but not quite as good looking, well little bit by little bit the better looking one got jealous and looking for attension, hand holding and arms around eachother turned into pinching and tickling....then.....whoosa! heh, best night of my life

A mff remains one of my unrequited fantasies, at the ripe old age of 52. Maybe it will happen some day. If there are two ladies that want to volunteer in central Florida, I would seriously consider. Who am I kiddin, I would jump at it..

For a long time, Mr. Cedar and I figured we would just agree to disagree on this topic. My idea of a threesome didn't involve another woman, and his didn't involve another man. Lately, though, I've been more of the "what the hell" mindset as far as another woman is concerned. I'd be willing to try one, but half the trick of course is finding someone who'd go along with it. Problem is, I'm one of those people who can separate sex from the rest of a relationship, and Mr. Cedar isn't.

Guess I'll be answering the "no" option for a while.

I was always joking with the mrs about this but recently we have evolved to thinking it over seriously.

her only demand is, it has to be a blond, not too skinny woman.
to be continued ...