is it okay for a man to not come? - Page 2 - Tilted Forum Project Discussion Community

Uuudar · 08-14-2003, 05:33 PM

It has happened to me twice. But, to be fair, I was drunk off my ass both times. I had to beat one out of me after the chick left to avoid blue balls. I didn't get it the other time though. Heh

frankx · 08-18-2003, 04:14 PM

Sure it's OK. Every once in a great while she feels like having sex but I don't. I don't have a problem at all with making her come several times without doing so myself. I get a lot of personal pleasure just from her satisfaction.

virus · 08-18-2003, 07:40 PM

it happened to me one time because i had to pee. sex is mental, isn't it? i mean there's nothing about the pumping that actually causes you to start hosing your partner. i guess.

alcohol may be the answer. the good news is that even if you don't blow your load at least you'll be drunk.

em1014 · 08-19-2003, 06:51 AM

I always feel bad when my bf doesn't come. He says don't worry about it but I don't feel it's fair... but that's life I guess.

etla · 08-19-2003, 05:24 PM

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Originally posted by baudot
I did have a girl very dear to me be hurt because she couldn't get me to come via oral sex. She wouldn't accept that it wasn't her fault, and took it as a blow to her pride in her fellatic abilities.

So did you let her get lots of practice in?

08-18-2003, 04:14 PM	#42 (permalink)
frankx Psycho Location: The Tip of the Boot	Sure it's OK. Every once in a great while she feels like having sex but I don't. I don't have a problem at all with making her come several times without doing so myself. I get a lot of personal pleasure just from her satisfaction. __________________ Louisiana: We're Not ALL Drunken Cajun Wackos, But That's Our Tourism Campaign

08-14-2003, 05:33 PM	#41 (permalink)
Uuudar Insane	It has happened to me twice. But, to be fair, I was drunk off my ass both times. I had to beat one out of me after the chick left to avoid blue balls. I didn't get it the other time though. Heh

08-18-2003, 07:40 PM	#43 (permalink)
virus Tilted Location: NYC	it happened to me one time because i had to pee. sex is mental, isn't it? i mean there's nothing about the pumping that actually causes you to start hosing your partner. i guess. alcohol may be the answer. the good news is that even if you don't blow your load at least you'll be drunk.

08-19-2003, 06:51 AM	#44 (permalink)
em1014 Crazy	I always feel bad when my bf doesn't come. He says don't worry about it but I don't feel it's fair... but that's life I guess.