Anal Sex Poll
 

I know there have probably been a million Anal Sex posts on this, but i've never seen this poll before. I've been told that most women who have men perform anal on them enjoy it. So this poll is to ask A)if you're a woman and have had anal performed on you, if you enjoyed it, and B) if you're a guy and you've performed anal on a woman if you enjoyed it. This is mainly out of curiosity, and because my gf and i have always naturally (to me) just kinda dismissed it as something we wouldn't like.... so what are all you experiences?

I loved it and she said she loved it. Was when she was visiting me, so we haven't had a chance to do it more than once, but we both want to. :)

You kind left a category out...

You don't ask if you've never tried it and DON'T wanna try it (male or female).

We've done it. I'm not much of a fan. If he's gentle, I can enjoy it because of what it does for him but it's difficult for him to do it gently and enticingly enough for me to enjoy it.

However, using a dildo in the back is another matter. That's fun because it can be nice and slow and last a long time.

You left out another four more options (in addition to one Yakimushi pointed out):

• I'm a man who has performed anal on a man and i loved it!
• I'm a man who has performed anal on a man, and was not a big fan.
• I'm a man who has had a man perform anal sex with me, and i loved it!
• I'm a man who has had a man perform anal sex on me, and i wasn't a big fan

Note: I do not fit any of these categories, I present them because there are a significant number of people who would fit one of them.

It's my wife's traditional birthday present to me, for seven years running. For about two days afterward, I feel like I did after the first time I had sex; just kinda out in La-La Land.

I've done it only once, and it was one of the most erotic experiences of my life.

Lisa and I were lying in bed, naked, reading Penhouse Forum. The story was about anal sex. We discussed it, and decided to try it. We went to the study, where there was a dressing table with a mirror attached. She stood in front of the mirror, put her hands on the table, and pushed her ass back and slightly upward. I stood behind her. I saw her body prefectly in the mirror. And believe me, she had a great body. I used wetness from her pussy to lube myself. I had every intension of taking it slow, but Lisa had something different in mind. She pushed herself backwards against me, hard. She stood on her tiptoes and grinded herself against me. She would have nothing to do with going slow. She was absolutely wild. This is an experience I've never forgotten.
I think anal is the kind of thing a girl either really really likes, or she has no use for. Not many women seem to take the middle opinion.

you're still leaving out girls with strap ons

Done anal. Both of us liked it

Funny, this reads like something out of Penthouse Forum....

"You'll never believe what happened to me while we were reading Penthouse one night...."

And I didn't even tell you everything! Like I said, it was incredible.

I intentionally left those other options out, not because i don't recognize them as anal options, but because they don't really pertain to me and my girlfriend. The feedback i was looking for was mostly based on hetero experiences of anal sex. I'm certainly not against the other forms, or uninterested in them, they simply don't give me any information pertaining to possible anal sex with my girlfriend.

I would like to try it, but my girlfriend is so against it that it will never happen in this relationship.

Where's the man to man option?

taken care of. ;)

oye, I should read the whole thread before I "fix" things next time. sincere apologies. I'd put things back the way they were, but, honestly, I'm not sure how. sorry!! I won't muck w/ it no more!

Technique matters a good deal I have been informed by some who have tried before me and not enjoyed it as much. I suppose good deal is psychological and of course physical. One must realize that a woman does not have a prostate gland to stimulate, thus any pleasure she gets out of the experience is based on other factors.

so. anal. getting there. juan has the patience of a saint in working towards it. we gave it a shot once, and I wasn't relaxed... oooh talk about a pain in the ass! I'm sure we'll take another swing at it, sooner or later.

i love it, she loves it too.

advice: if you're into anal, try it porno-style :-D have her sit on a couch and kneel in front of her, pull her legs up and enter her anally like that. this way you can have anal sex but also look into her eyes while you do it!

I've never really wanted to try it...

Done it a few times, and I've learned a few things too. Lick your finger (if you don't have any lube) and put it in her asshole slowly. Don't hurt her. Comfort is top priority here guys. Leave it in for 4 or 5 minutes while you kiss her or finger her pussy with your free hand. This will relax the muscles in her asshole. If you just try to stick it in without relaxing her muscles it will be very uncomfortable and painful for her. You don't want that. Remember RELAX THOSE MUSCLES!

I've had few experinces with this. While I didn't exactly love it at the time, it left me with good memories :)
Every once in a while i'll have a real desire for it, too.

Thanks Cheerios, it's alright! We need more female feedback here, that's what i was really after!

For a long time I had a bad taste in my mouth over a bad experience I had with it. It must not have been that bad because I've been wanting to try it again but with someone I know I can trust to be gentle and listen when I say stop.

I've even considered doing the strap-on and attacking a male. I just have to find a willing participant, heh

more female input here...

done it, love it....

(so long as all my parts are co-operating of course)

but yeah, it's kinda, with more or less frequency...a regular part of me and my bf's sex life.

good stuff. not for everyone or all the time, but yeah.

/me lieks

curious @ druptight - how does your gf feel about the idea?
you kinda mention it in your first post, but...obviously *you* have some sort of curiosity...
do you incorporate any kind of 'ass-play' into your sex life, or is it a 'no-touch' zone for you both?

My wife and I LOVE it. She doesn't like to do it too often. She feels having it every so often keeps it "special". We feel VERY connected and close after each experience. A good position is for her to be on top, cowgirl. This way she controls the entry and takes me in at her pace when she is ready and relaxed.

My wife is not open to the idea, but really enjoys pleasure in that area, so I'm hoping some day she'll say yes. She really likes it when I insert a finger while I'm going down, so I know she's okay with at least that much, then more will come in time.

tried it once, both of us were too nervous...

she has been asking for toys lately, in order to "get her ready" for another try...

<leaves for "toy store">

we tried it, and call me weird, but it was a little anticlimactic. (Well, not really, technically, anticlimactic I mean...just that it wasn't all I had built it up in my mind to be)
Why?
1. She didn't like it all that much. It really meant more to me that she was willing to do it then actually doing it.
2. I had visions of tearing her membrane and lots of medical problems, which did not turn me on.
3. it just didn't feel all that great- really tight at the base, but other than that, i like the interior of the vagina a whole lot more.

Using toys with lots of lube is tons of fun and really turns me on! I have never been able to take the penis anally -- but am open to trying. I think it takes a lot of trust and patience! I must not have had the right guy to date.

Loving it! And my (X)gf loved it too.

Is there anyone that does/did anal without there being some sort of dominance or sadistic-masochistic aspect to it?

I loved it, felt very nice! My girlfriend liked it just as much as i did, 2 thumbs up to anal.

It's been pretty much a completely no touch zone for both of us. I wouldn't be opposed to trying it though, to see what it's like. I certainly am not all gung-ho about doing it though. If at some point she decides she's interested we'll give it a whirl though. i supopse that since we make no contact in the area though, that it's not really probable that some day she'll just want to have anal. Probably will have to start small some day... we'll see.

done and loved by both parties. she intiated it one evening while we were in the spoon position. it was only the second time she had done it and she really enjoyed it. we've engaged in it maybe a dozen times total and the last few times she's actually orgasmed from it and one time she had multiples and made me stop cause.. get this.. 'it felt too good'. funny part is that i know she wasnt lying cause of the faces she was making and the noises coming out of her.

Had anal sex with my girlfriend about a year ago finally and she loved it while it lasted. We havn't been able to do it again since even though she seems to be open to it. I just bought her a small purple butt plug ; I think that'l be fun for the two of us.

I've done it at least twice and enjoyed both times. I just don't do it anymore because of a rather negative incident related to it (read: trust issues), so I'm a little hesitant to try it again. Buh.

I had a couple of girlfriends that liked it, but it didn't impress me much - I much prefer a tight pussy.

The biggest turn-off for me was the obvious - I didn't like the uncleanliness of it all. It kind of eliminates the romantic "afterwards" part of sex - the lying together, spooning . . . whatever (you all know what I mean) when you both have to get up and wipe shit off your body.

BTW - for all of you who read this and say "But I've seen it done in hundreds of videos and nobody gets dirty" I have a trade secret for you - enemas - one the night before a shoot and another before the cameras roll.

A possibility - but it surely lacks spontaneity

Anyway - Been there - done that - Thanks, but no.

Your results may vary.

been there
 

Been ther e, done that. While it was fun, if was also a let down. It isn't all it is cracked up to be.

don't wanna give my dick a shitty deal.

I tried it with a girl once.. It wasn't anything special at all.. just a bit tighter.. I don't really see the fun about it, sure if ther girl want's anal sex i give her anal sex but it's not something i really care for enough to want.

have you talked to her about it? i mean, I wasn't sure about the whole thing, but juan's been really gentle in easing me into the whole ass-portion of sex, and it DOES feel good, and it IS a lot of fun. I'm not saying full-blown anal right away. just brush a finger over it while your'e eatin' her out. I bet she hits the roof, if she's excited enough to start. ;) that's how we started. if she's not interested in that, I bet she'll let you know. ;)