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Nocturnal · 08-05-2003, 02:30 AM

What are the pros & cons? I am considering approaching the subject with my girl but I need a to know what the pitfalls are and/or benefits.

Thoughts on those who have tried it.

Mephisto2 · 08-05-2003, 03:48 AM

Doing it standing up...

Pitfall...

heh heh

But seriously... I'm surprised at this question. It's mostly common sense and (believe it or not) experience.

Somethings to consider.

There are many different "standing up" positions. Just like "lying down" positions.

Up against a wall.
Up against a wall, from behind (ie her face to the wall).
Her legs wrapped around you.
Standing up, and her bent over...

This list goes on and on.

If you're face to face, against a wall for example, your different heights may have to be considered. You might have to bow your knees slightly.

If she's wrapped her legs around you and "lowers" herself on to you, you can get very deep penetration. Some girls love this. Some girls find it painful.

All in all, the more positions you try the better.

just don't do what most young guys do when they get too excited and try too many positions one after the other in one session...

Mr Mephisto

Peetster · 08-05-2003, 04:00 AM

It takes some practice, but it can be great.

The most common for us is the "standing doggy". It's the easiest to make work.

Best when used in a shower with pulsating hot water. ;-)

yakimushi · 08-05-2003, 10:25 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Peetster
The most common for us is the "standing doggy". It's the easiest to make work.

Best when used in a shower with pulsating hot water. ;-)

I strongly second that!

Hrothgar · 08-05-2003, 10:50 AM

Face to face standing up always scares me. I've heard horror stories of penises getting injured when the women slips and falls onto the penis. Ouch!! My penis hurts now. Safe bet is standing doggy style.

starbum · 08-05-2003, 11:35 AM

I did the standup last night, oddly enough. Its great. I didnt even feel her weight. She got tired pretty fast though, so I dont recommend it for the only position, but like a transitional one like between the couch and floor.

Slims · 08-05-2003, 03:29 PM

Edited.

cheerios · 08-05-2003, 03:39 PM

we used a big school book, but yeah, height is a big problem. even w/ doggy style, i have tobe up on my tiptoes... calves start to give out. :/

08-07-2003, 09:29 PM

I can, for one reason or another, never get the standing up think to work with my wife.

Must be a mental block.

skysooner · 08-07-2003, 09:50 PM

It uses quite a few muscles that you may not be used to working. My wife and I enjoy the standing doggie position that was mentioned earlier. We do it with her using the bed to put her head and hands on.

daoist · 08-07-2003, 09:57 PM

my legs get noodle-y after I come while standing, and i have the opposite problem as most of the guys here: my girlfriend and I are the same height, but naturally her legs are longer so I would have to end up standing on books or pillows or something. it's even worse if she's wearing platform shoes which are all the rage these days :-/

rl33 · 08-07-2003, 11:01 PM

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Originally posted by daoist
my legs get noodle-y after I come while standing, and i have

LOL I once collapsed after a a really lenghtly session. After I came my left leg just gave out and I found myself on the floor getting a weird look from the SO

daoist · 08-07-2003, 11:35 PM

i've never collapsed, but after a particularly good session in the bathroom of a convienence store :-D I had to grab the handicapped hand rail. hehe

angela146 · 08-07-2003, 11:39 PM

This may seem obvious, but you could stand on the floor in front of a couch or bed while she is kneeling, doggy style, in front of you. You would be standing up, but she wouldn't. It would be *really easy* for her and give her lots of penetration.

Hubby's only problem is that his legs get weak when he's climaxing.

Suggest that she tuck her knees under as far as possible. That gives a lot of good Gspot contact and good depth.

daoist · 08-07-2003, 11:52 PM

good tips, thanks! (and some pillows on the floor in case I fall over hehe)

mrquackers · 08-08-2003, 03:04 AM

Up against a wall is a favorite of ours. I pin her and slowly begin thrusting. Drives us both crazy.

iceman2032 · 08-08-2003, 09:44 AM

I strongly recommend aganist the wall. With her facing you and then try it with her facing away. I always get the best orgasms when she's standing up.

yankeefatboy · 08-08-2003, 09:47 AM

In the shower is the best. Facing each other or doggie style works. And being shorter than my wife makes it a perfect fit. Legs/calves do get tired, though.

analog · 08-09-2003, 08:52 AM

if you can't get her to do the "standing" sex by asking, it's much easier to approach it differently. start when you are stripping each other and just turn her around and start bending her over. once she starts getting it, she'll love it. it provides some really great sensation for most ladies.

air45 · 08-11-2003, 10:26 AM

i can relate to the noodle legs, my friends!

this is the pitfalling of standing up for sex, which is why i am liking the chair or the sofa or the bed for premium stroking of cock inside.

im just a girl · 08-14-2003, 06:39 PM

i think if the guy is strong enough to hold you up, go for it. it always turns me on as a warm-up of sorts...

motdakasha · 08-14-2003, 06:46 PM

personally, i haven't been able to come standing up. there's too much going on elsewhere for me to concentrate on coming. especially since i'm short because even on my tiptoes, the guy usually has to half squat to be the correct height.

well anyways, if you can get down the standing business, one of the upsides is it opens up your possibilities for location. i was at a (POISON & WINGER hahaha) concert and one of my drunk friends went in the back area to piss and there were two people doing it against the wall standing up. of course, then, all of my other guy friends took turns to see what was going on. apparently the couple didn't mind or care because they were either too into it to notice or because they enjoyed the attention.

JStrider · 08-14-2003, 07:25 PM

arie and i have done it against a door... and the standing doggy... its pretty good... dont do em too much... should do em more often...

cheerios · 08-14-2003, 07:25 PM

solution to the height issue: a couple text books. seriously makes life a million times easier. keeps the guy from having to squat down so much.

motdakasha · 08-14-2003, 07:37 PM

It's pretty tough to find books to stand on when you're doing it in a public park at night behind a shed....

philthy · 08-14-2003, 08:05 PM

My wife and I had an encounter in our bathroom recently. I had her sit on the edge of the vanity, and I positioned myself in front of her. Really good penetration, stimulated her in new ways. Great orgasms were had by all. We did that one again and again. Since then things have gotten very, very interesting (which is a good thing, especially since we've been together for 9 yrs!)

mjollnir · 08-15-2003, 01:10 PM

every which way you can. my wife even squirts while standing occasionally, usually in the shower, more usual for her to squirt in other postiions, but occasionally standing too to be clear.

ariekitten · 08-15-2003, 06:05 PM

JS already said he and i did it against his door. i really liked that position. he had one of my legs slightly raised and it's one of the better ones we've tried. still haven't figured out the vaginal orgasms though. sigh...lol. it's ok, we always have TONS of fun

meff · 09-15-2003, 09:26 AM

A tip I got on #tfp :
Don't worry about falling down. That'll ruin your chances of cumming.

NatureBoy · 09-15-2003, 09:37 AM

Mrs. NatureBoy surprised me once after watching some ... *ahem* adult cinema. She got up, closed the shades, and bent over the kitchen table. That was hot, and we both enjoyed it a whole lot.

meff · 09-15-2003, 11:03 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by angela146
This may seem obvious, but you could stand on the floor in front of a couch or bed while she is kneeling, doggy style, in front of you. You would be standing up, but she wouldn't. It would be *really easy* for her and give her lots of penetration.

Hubby's only problem is that his legs get weak when he's climaxing.

Suggest that she tuck her knees under as far as possible. That gives a lot of good Gspot contact and good depth.

Laying on our couch and wrapping my legs around Shyla really works well here, but for some reason I can't orgasm in that position..

Hard8s · 09-16-2003, 05:38 PM

The wife and I have done the standing doggy but seeing as how she is shorter than me we had to find the correct shoes for her! Instead of books or something else find a nice pair of heels for her. Also having her stand on one leg with her other knee on the counter really got her going, and got me in rather deep too!

Testtester · 09-16-2003, 06:27 PM

I can relate to the taller issue - she 5'6" me 6'5". I'm not about to pile up that many textbooks!

Honestly, have never had problems w/ the wobbly legs (commuting 20 kms a day by bicycle helps that). However she did get nervous when still coupled and standing I walked us to a different room to get to the bed (lesson - don't do things that make her nervous during sex)

Doing doggy works with her kneeling on a tall bed/chair (but then I'm the only one standing)

08-05-2003, 02:30 AM	#1 (permalink)
Nocturnal Tilted Location: Melbourne, Australia	Doing it Standing Up What are the pros & cons? I am considering approaching the subject with my girl but I need a to know what the pitfalls are and/or benefits. Thoughts on those who have tried it.

08-05-2003, 10:50 AM	#5 (permalink)
Hrothgar He's My Girl Location: The Champagne Douche	Face to face standing up always scares me. I've heard horror stories of penises getting injured when the women slips and falls onto the penis. Ouch!! My penis hurts now. Safe bet is standing doggy style. __________________ The fortunes of war favored Hrothgar.

08-05-2003, 03:29 PM	#7 (permalink)
Slims Eccentric insomniac Location: North Carolina	Edited. __________________ "Socialism is a philosophy of failure, the creed of ignorance, and the gospel of envy, its inherent virtue is the equal sharing of misery." - Winston Churchill "All men dream: but not equally. Those who dream by night in the dusty recesses of their minds wake in the day to find that it was vanity: but the dreamers of the day are dangerous men, for they may act out their dream with open eyes, to make it possible." Seven Pillars of Wisdom, T.E. Lawrence Last edited by Slims; 12-20-2010 at 07:04 PM..

08-07-2003, 09:57 PM	#11 (permalink)
daoist Crazy	my legs get noodle-y after I come while standing, and i have the opposite problem as most of the guys here: my girlfriend and I are the same height, but naturally her legs are longer so I would have to end up standing on books or pillows or something. it's even worse if she's wearing platform shoes which are all the rage these days :-/ __________________ I:IV:XV

08-07-2003, 11:35 PM	#13 (permalink)
daoist Crazy	i've never collapsed, but after a particularly good session in the bathroom of a convienence store :-D I had to grab the handicapped hand rail. hehe __________________ I:IV:XV

08-05-2003, 03:48 AM	#2 (permalink)
Mephisto2 Junkie	Doing it standing up... Pitfall... heh heh But seriously... I'm surprised at this question. It's mostly common sense and (believe it or not) experience. Somethings to consider. There are many different "standing up" positions. Just like "lying down" positions. Up against a wall. Up against a wall, from behind (ie her face to the wall). Her legs wrapped around you. Standing up, and her bent over... This list goes on and on. If you're face to face, against a wall for example, your different heights may have to be considered. You might have to bow your knees slightly. If she's wrapped her legs around you and "lowers" herself on to you, you can get very deep penetration. Some girls love this. Some girls find it painful. All in all, the more positions you try the better. just don't do what most young guys do when they get too excited and try too many positions one after the other in one session... Mr Mephisto

08-05-2003, 04:00 AM	#3 (permalink)
Peetster Right Now Location: Home	It takes some practice, but it can be great. The most common for us is the "standing doggy". It's the easiest to make work. Best when used in a shower with pulsating hot water. ;-)

08-05-2003, 11:35 AM	#6 (permalink)
starbum Tilted	I did the standup last night, oddly enough. Its great. I didnt even feel her weight. She got tired pretty fast though, so I dont recommend it for the only position, but like a transitional one like between the couch and floor.

08-05-2003, 03:39 PM	#8 (permalink)
cheerios Banned Location: 'bout 2 feet from my iMac	we used a big school book, but yeah, height is a big problem. even w/ doggy style, i have tobe up on my tiptoes... calves start to give out. :/

08-07-2003, 09:29 PM	#9 (permalink)
Achernar Guest	I can, for one reason or another, never get the standing up think to work with my wife. Must be a mental block.

08-07-2003, 09:50 PM	#10 (permalink)
skysooner Registered User Location: Oklahoma	It uses quite a few muscles that you may not be used to working. My wife and I enjoy the standing doggie position that was mentioned earlier. We do it with her using the bed to put her head and hands on.

08-07-2003, 11:39 PM	#14 (permalink)
angela146 Loser Location: Somewhere near Hubby	This may seem obvious, but you could stand on the floor in front of a couch or bed while she is kneeling, doggy style, in front of you. You would be standing up, but she wouldn't. It would be really easy for her and give her lots of penetration. Hubby's only problem is that his legs get weak when he's climaxing. Suggest that she tuck her knees under as far as possible. That gives a lot of good Gspot contact and good depth.

08-07-2003, 11:52 PM	#15 (permalink)
daoist Crazy	good tips, thanks! (and some pillows on the floor in case I fall over hehe) __________________ I:IV:XV

08-08-2003, 03:04 AM	#16 (permalink)
mrquackers Exhausted Location: Northeastern US - please send help!	Up against a wall is a favorite of ours. I pin her and slowly begin thrusting. Drives us both crazy. __________________ "If you're walking on thin ice, you may as well go ahead and dance."

08-08-2003, 09:44 AM	#17 (permalink)
iceman2032 Crazy	I strongly recommend aganist the wall. With her facing you and then try it with her facing away. I always get the best orgasms when she's standing up.

08-14-2003, 07:37 PM	#25 (permalink)
motdakasha Hiya Puddin'! Miss me? Location: Silicon Valley, CA	It's pretty tough to find books to stand on when you're doing it in a public park at night behind a shed.... __________________ =^-^= motdakasha =^-^= Just Google It. BA Psychology & Photography (I'm not going psychoanalyze you nor will I let you cry on my shoulder. Have a nice day.)

08-08-2003, 09:47 AM	#18 (permalink)
yankeefatboy Addict Location: northern california	In the shower is the best. Facing each other or doggie style works. And being shorter than my wife makes it a perfect fit. Legs/calves do get tired, though.

08-09-2003, 08:52 AM	#19 (permalink)
analog Banned	if you can't get her to do the "standing" sex by asking, it's much easier to approach it differently. start when you are stripping each other and just turn her around and start bending her over. once she starts getting it, she'll love it. it provides some really great sensation for most ladies.

08-11-2003, 10:26 AM	#20 (permalink)
air45 Loser Location: Midwest	i can relate to the noodle legs, my friends! this is the pitfalling of standing up for sex, which is why i am liking the chair or the sofa or the bed for premium stroking of cock inside.

08-14-2003, 06:39 PM	#21 (permalink)
im just a girl Upright	i think if the guy is strong enough to hold you up, go for it. it always turns me on as a warm-up of sorts...

08-14-2003, 06:46 PM	#22 (permalink)
motdakasha Hiya Puddin'! Miss me? Location: Silicon Valley, CA	personally, i haven't been able to come standing up. there's too much going on elsewhere for me to concentrate on coming. especially since i'm short because even on my tiptoes, the guy usually has to half squat to be the correct height. well anyways, if you can get down the standing business, one of the upsides is it opens up your possibilities for location. i was at a (POISON & WINGER hahaha) concert and one of my drunk friends went in the back area to piss and there were two people doing it against the wall standing up. of course, then, all of my other guy friends took turns to see what was going on. apparently the couple didn't mind or care because they were either too into it to notice or because they enjoyed the attention. __________________ =^-^= motdakasha =^-^= Just Google It. BA Psychology & Photography (I'm not going psychoanalyze you nor will I let you cry on my shoulder. Have a nice day.)

08-14-2003, 07:25 PM	#23 (permalink)
JStrider Poo-tee-weet? Location: The Woodlands, TX	arie and i have done it against a door... and the standing doggy... its pretty good... dont do em too much... should do em more often... __________________ -=JStrider=- ~Clatto Verata Nicto

08-14-2003, 07:25 PM	#24 (permalink)
cheerios Banned Location: 'bout 2 feet from my iMac	solution to the height issue: a couple text books. seriously makes life a million times easier. keeps the guy from having to squat down so much.

08-14-2003, 08:05 PM	#26 (permalink)
philthy Upright	My wife and I had an encounter in our bathroom recently. I had her sit on the edge of the vanity, and I positioned myself in front of her. Really good penetration, stimulated her in new ways. Great orgasms were had by all. We did that one again and again. Since then things have gotten very, very interesting (which is a good thing, especially since we've been together for 9 yrs!) __________________ Lez be friends.

08-15-2003, 01:10 PM	#27 (permalink)
mjollnir Tilted Location: Near Gainesville, FL	every which way you can. my wife even squirts while standing occasionally, usually in the shower, more usual for her to squirt in other postiions, but occasionally standing too to be clear. __________________ Yes I am a Pirate 200 years too late, Cannons don't thunder theres nuthin to plunder I'm an over 30 victim of fate... Last edited by mjollnir; 08-15-2003 at 01:13 PM..

08-15-2003, 06:05 PM	#28 (permalink)
ariekitten bAck iN aCtiOn! Location: in my imagination	JS already said he and i did it against his door. i really liked that position. he had one of my legs slightly raised and it's one of the better ones we've tried. still haven't figured out the vaginal orgasms though. sigh...lol. it's ok, we always have TONS of fun __________________ I am known as Valentinez Alkalinella Xifax Sicidabohertz Gombigobilla Blue Stradivari Talentrent Pierre Andri Charton-Haymoss Ivanovici Baldeus George Doitzel Kaiser III. Don't hesitate to call. ~Vash, Trigun >'.'< kitty kitty, meow ^..^~ Last edited by ariekitten; 08-15-2003 at 06:07 PM..

09-15-2003, 09:26 AM	#29 (permalink)
meff Vanishing, like I do.. Location: Austin, TX	A tip I got on #tfp : Don't worry about falling down. That'll ruin your chances of cumming. __________________ Toy-like people make me boy-like.

09-15-2003, 09:37 AM	#30 (permalink)
NatureBoy Crazy	Mrs. NatureBoy surprised me once after watching some ... ahem adult cinema. She got up, closed the shades, and bent over the kitchen table. That was hot, and we both enjoyed it a whole lot.

09-16-2003, 05:38 PM	#32 (permalink)
Hard8s Addict Location: Wherever I am!	The wife and I have done the standing doggy but seeing as how she is shorter than me we had to find the correct shoes for her! Instead of books or something else find a nice pair of heels for her. Also having her stand on one leg with her other knee on the counter really got her going, and got me in rather deep too! __________________ If ignorance is bliss, then wipe this smile off my face!

09-16-2003, 06:27 PM	#33 (permalink)
Testtester Upright	I can relate to the taller issue - she 5'6" me 6'5". I'm not about to pile up that many textbooks! Honestly, have never had problems w/ the wobbly legs (commuting 20 kms a day by bicycle helps that). However she did get nervous when still coupled and standing I walked us to a different room to get to the bed (lesson - don't do things that make her nervous during sex) Doing doggy works with her kneeling on a tall bed/chair (but then I'm the only one standing)