tight muscles and sex
 

I was curous if I’m the only person out there who has to have their legs/ass muscles tightened to climax. If its masturbation or sex, regardless of the style I’ve found that its very hard if not impossible for me to get off if I don’t tighten those muscles. Needless to say more than once I’ve gotten the wicked charlie horse and had to stop having sex until my wife could massage it out. Is this something thats common with alot of guys, or am I alone on this one?

Same here, you're not the only one.

For the most part, yeah, I do have to tense up. But I take it as a blessing. I can last longer in bed just by not flexing when it gets too close.

I've never had to do this, but I'm the type of person who has to flex their abdominal muscles to have a really good orgasm. Takes all kinds I guess.

it depends, when I am on top and all my muscles are tense my orgasms are not nearly as intense as when I relax totally (like laying on my back for a blowjob) and let it happen...for me softer always makes me cum harder...

OK, guys, you're getting me horny (not that it takes much). Flexing your thigh muscles as you come is a good thing. Just keep right on flexing, in and out and let your favorite woman feel them right up against her thighs...

Have you tried just flexing your PC muscle to see if it has the same effect? It works for a lot of women it might work for men too.

Yeah i have to flex pretty hard aswell during sex/masturbation, I dunno what it is, and frankly i dont care as long as I blow!

been there, done that
man, I hate those charlie horses.

phew.... i'm not the only one after all then.... seems that this is pretty common eh..

the ecstacy followed by the agony!!!

Oh the pain....

My wife has managed to get leg cramps from sex, and I've had them as well, so you're not the only one.

Yeah, i get the same thing from wankin, not from sex though...The Charlie horses certainly are painful though, wasn't able to walk a few times lol

yep......foot & calf cramps seem to be most common for me.

same issue. i dont tense up to the point of pain or charlie horses tho. just a little muscle flexing.

what on earth is a charlie horse? and yes, tensing up here as well.

a charlie horse is when your leg muscle ( primarily thigh ) seizes up on you. This is usually very painful and renders that leg useless for a few moments. I think it is caused by a nerve getting pinched.

I don't have to but I think I sometimes do automatically. It's hard to tell, I don't really pay much attention to my leg muscles when it happens.

Well im glad to know im not alone here. Nice to know some girls like it (angela146);)

I do that myself, but don't have to.

But if I don't it takes FOREVER...

And when you're pleasuring yourself, you just wanna get it done.

And yes, the Charlie Horses SUCK.

I still love this thread. The thought of all you men with flexing thigh muscles makes me tingle.

Man I don't know how you guys do this when I am about to come like right before Its almost like my legs go limp. BUt just for a sec not long enough for me to fall or anything but wierd. And it always happens

I'm in the same boat. I take a long time to orgasm if I'm unable to flex. Happens when I'm getting oral, which makes it take forever if I'm not lying down. Just need to find a girl who doesn't mind doing that for long periods of time and I'll be set. :)

similar here, too. sometimes i need to, sometimes I don't. If i've had sex/masturbated often I need to flex my thighs but otherwise I don't have to. When i get done though my legs get really rubbery and I have to sit down (if I'm standing)

This might help a bit (which both my girlfriend and I love): instead of just flexing your legs while keeping them in place which can quickly lead to cramping, have her wrap her legs back around yours (assuming your legs are in between hers...for other positions you might have to try something else). You both flex your legs but counter the other person, so you put a lot less stress. Plus, the added tightness is amazing.
If doing this in the first place caused the problem, then who knows...otherwise, give it a try

I agree, it seems to be easier to cum when you flex all the muscles in your pelvis, ass and thighs (think about it angela146;). But one I time I was trying to hold onto it and by complete accident right before I was about to cum I relaxed. The orgasm paused right before it crested for about 5 or 10 minutes. I can't even explain how fucking amazing it felt!! As the orgasm tried to get out I would just relax every muscle down there and breathe deeply from my diaphragm and it would hold right at the top. I don't know anything more about doing this (I've never seen anything similiar in an article or anything) but I suggest giving it a shot. It takes some concentration but the payoff is awesome. Plus chicks love watching you lose your mind! If you have any questions, just ask...

Oh, trust me, I think about it!! You guys just go right on on posting plenty of detailed descriptions of exactly which muscles you're flexing and in what order and in what position.

I love closing my eyes and imagining how each of your individual butts and thighs would look and feel, including that part about the woman wrapping her legs around the guy's waist.

Maybe we need get y'all in front of a web cam so I can see...

YUM!

HAHA this is great, im not the only one! I usually get feet cramps.
I've been laying low on the masturbation lately because of a sprained ankle (not from masturbating)