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Echo on laying out the ground rules first. If you aren't interested in guys, you probably aren't going to want your neighbour thinking that this means you want to suck him off!

as someone who is married & 39, i'm telling you if you don't do it now, you'll always wonder what it would've been like.

just be prepared for some awkward situations later on.

maybe discuss it with them.........,"hey, swingers, i'm in as long as i don't have to put up with ANY mindfuck fallout from this later. ok? let's get naked."

I've done the two guys and one girl thing with my best friend a few times. It's hard to get hard at first but if you can put the male thing behind you, it's very fun.

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I would never let my wife have sex w/o me, but if your bud is already that care free then a 3sum with him seems like a step down from what you have already done.

I would normally say do it, but man weird situation. Happened to me, wife only been with him, he asked if i would be the second man. I did, she tried to come over for more all the time. Weird situation.

Any news from this situation?

When you start, call out "I get the butt", and see what happens!

Seriously, you might as well, if you are good friends, then your friendship could over come any problems later, but there shouldn't be. If you don't, then you will always wonder..

Im doing it this weekend i will let you know how it goes:crazy:

if they're both ok with it... then there's no harm to you (except wear proper protection)...

it's not everyday you get a chance to do that...

and they both willingly want to try it too.

I say go for it...damn, what a turn on. It may kill your relationship but what the fuck...it will be a great time.

Well, how did it go?

Yea, how did it go. Don't leave us hanging.

Friends and sex don't mesh. It is the dream, but a dream better lived with anonymous people.

It can mesh, but it is very fraught with danger. Most people can't get past the emotions that are generated. It is just sex. Enjoy it as much as possible.

It went good did it friday night and again on saturday. And they want me to come over again this weekend. Thing havent changed at all i see him at work every day and nothing different at all. He said thanks for helping him she was starting to over sex him LOL

That is fantastic. The only time it could become awkward is if you get a girlfriend who isn't into it, but if you added a 4th, it could get even more interesting. At least it is working well now.

Your buddy said he's over sexed? She must be wearing him out then, or she has a sex drive like no other I've been with! Looks like it's working out for both of you, way to go!

(Chinese) Fingercuffs and tag teaming are totally different! Fingercuffs = 1 guy fucks, 1 guy is fellated. Tag Team = 2 guys taking turns fucking her. SO different!



Anyways, you sound like you could cope with any strange aftermath. It sounds like they won't be weirded out since they're experienced. If you are comfortable with the idea of both genders being present, then I say go for it. And yes, ground rules, perhaps even a safe word in case if it gets really weird or something.

I'm in agreement with most of these other people....GO FOR IT DUDE

That is a piss poor way of making the rest of us pigs feel poorly. Of course you should. We all (or most) have had that fantacy before.

This is not as rare an occurance as you all may think :thumbsup:

Been there and done that and had fun everytime. As long as you dont let feelings get involved and just do it as a sex thing