Ménage à trois
 

Have you ever participated in a threesome?

I was in a M/M/F threesome with me exroomate and his girlfriend. Me and the roomate never touched each other as we are both strictly heterosexual. The experience wasn't all the memorable.

Still waiting on the M/F/F threesome. Maybe one day...

No and not willing...

I'd prefer to keep my girlfriend to myself... and I'm sure she'd like the same. It just seems all the more intimate when only two people are involved. *shrug*

Love to try one with my wife and another woman...

But wait...

Isn't that how Ross lost his wife on "Friends"?

8^P

No and..... no.

I don't like to share my gf, and I don't like to share myself either. I am for her and only her :p

my fiance and I talked about it just to see where the other one stood. neither of us wants one. much more fun 1 on 1 ;)

been there.... need to get into a M/F/F opportunity... probably not going to happen but ... one could hope.

nah my GF is mine and mine alone :)

I wouldn't sleep with someone that I don't love. I love only 1 person. So, no and no.

Yup..........MFM and FMF......MFMF..........all of the above.

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Um, I need to be able to vote more than once...

What do you call it when you and your buddies wife get together but you're only allowed to touch your own spouse?

Threesomes never work if there is a relationship involved. Unfortuanately someone is bound to get there feelings hurt. It is much safer with friends or flings, friends being dangerous as well.

Been covered already in the <b>threesome</b> thread. But since I could only select one choice in this poll, and I need two to fully answer, here's my post from that thread...

I have participated in both flavors: FMF, and MFM (note the spelling - not MMF).

MFM was interesting. It was one of her fantasies, so it was great to see her get to fulfill it.
I had no problems with it, emotionally or otherwise.

FMF was my fantasy. It was the most exciting and intense sexual experience I've ever had.
Over 15 years later, it still provides inspiration. ;)

Did that with a girlfriend and my best friend and his girl. All in the same room but couples in opposite corners.

Guess I'd call it 'voyeuristic group sex'.

Yup - been there too. I don't think my GF could handle any other other options tho.

Nope never done it and i never want to do it. i doubt my gf would do it either because she would probally get jealous ( if it was another girl)

Yes I have, but not with my wife.

And it's not true to say "they never work and someone's feelings always get hurt"...

Different people handle things in different ways...

Mr Mephisto

Yea did it once with a friend and his girlfriend. was a great once in life time thing. WOW.

this would be my luck:

WHOA.. TWO CHICKS! <fumble with zipper> uNF! well. .I'm done..

i've had two good friends lose long term relationships (1 a marriage) over the inability to deal with the psychological aspects of a three-way fling.

can be done, but handle with care.

I had a threesome with my then-girlfiend and another girl we met at a party.
I have to say it was great! And the best part was the three-way kissing, really! I never thought I'd say that, but it's true. Very erotic. Something that I masturbate to, sometimes.

But...the experience was tough on my then-girlfriend, though. She got a little jealous afterwards and wondered if I had feelings for the other girl and also wondered if I had contacted her (the girl tried to give me her email address as we were leaving).
So... I agree with the consensus here. If you're not in a relationship, or if it's just a superficial relationship.. .then by all mean, have some fun!
Otherwise... if you love the one you're with... don't do it. It's just not worth losing them.

I wouldn't mind trying if I wasn't about to propose to either of the girls. I am pretty sure such experiences would cause jelousy and risking a serious relationship on it wouldn't be worth it.

I would do this with 2 chicks I didn't give a shit about. Not with a wife or girlfriend because when emotions are involved in sex someone is going to get hurt. 2 chicks I don't care about no problem. Wham bam thank you ladies.:suave:

never done it but willing to try...

me and my bf have that on our 'list of things to do' sometime....

(it would be mff. i've no interest in other guys...)

If I could find two girls that found me attractive enough to fuck me at the same time then I'm down... Bullocks.

Well, I can tell you there is nothing better than a veronica sandwich... I love it. There are made with beef on both sides and ME in the middle. heheheheh yummmmy

Um, I voted but the record doesn't record my full answer. I have participated in M/M/F, M/F/F/, and F/F/F. I can't vote for all three. So just to set the record straigth I voted for the M/F/F. But the true results should show the other too as well for me. All of the above I have participated in with my hubby present. Either observing or in another room doing something else fun. ;)

nice to talk about...
nice to think about...
nice to fantasize about..

BUT

not worth losing a marriage for

i have been on all sides of the fence!

that is true, both the MMF and MFF for me and both experiences were superior for my swollen member!

the MFF was a lot of sweating work for me, and it took premium stanima to do my work, which i did for it was sexy!

I had a M/F/F (me being male) and I must say that it really is not worth it. Just too much trouble really. What was the biggest issue during it... who i "finished" in. (They were both ex-girlfriends.)

The best part was just watching them together. I think if it was to happen again I would just watch and masterbate or something...

I'm looking for a 5 star hypnotist who can convince my wife that a threesome is beneficial to our marriage.

I was in a one time MMF with two very good friends,(a couple), and it was ok,nothing special. I think the other guy and I were both to worried about who we were touching,and where we were touching them.
I have had a few MFF experiences and all I can say about them is any limits or rules should be agreed to before you get naked,Obey these rules and limits, and check your ego at the door,at some point those two women will make you feel unnecessary

Got the stamp in my passport, but won't be doing it again. I recommend it to everyone, but NOT with anyone you're in a relationship with unless you have the very rare type of relationship that can surive the potential jealousy that can occur from this. I knew both of the girls as friends, had just broken up with my first wife, we all got drunk one night and one thing led to another. I've since lost touch with both of them, and that's probably for the best. My wife would prefer that it stays that way. She had an M/M/F back in her "slut phase" that I don't like hearing about so the subject just never comes up. It's still a nice memory to re-visit from time to time...

-Mikey

I've done MFM once, didn't like it. I know that I don't want to have another one and I'm pretty positive that my fiancee won't want one because she wouldn't want to share, and I'm ok with that.

As a great song once put it ... "It's menage a trois -- you and me and heineken."

:D Somehow, i dont think that counts though :(

I've done the MFM once. It was cause my roommates girlfriend at the time wanted to do double penetration. Though extra caution was made so that I wouldn't touch my friend

No and No.

I'm kinda on the fence on this one. never done anything, love my boyfriend fiercely and not sure if I'd like to share, but... curious, ya know?

I'd consider obliging you Cheerios, except I don't feel like losing a ten-year relationship over it. :cool:

A co-worker of mine has stated that she is often in MFF trois. She lives with an unmarried couple that have a 1 year old, and says she wouldn't trade it for anything. The baby seems really happy, so I suspect there isn't a lot of emotional turbulence in the home.

Of course this is the exception and not the rule. I doubt most people could withstand the demands of a polyamorous relationship for more than a weekend, and the repercussions of an attempt would destroy a lot of currently stable relationships.

In other words, don't try this at home and don't try this with someone you can't afford (monetarily or emotionally) to lose.

I had one of those things one time, but I was the only one who took his clothes off - I kind of felt foolish
I would like to do one when we all get nekid

I've never tried but would be willing to go either MFM OR FMF.

I used to think it would be the ultimate thrill, but I'm having such a good time in the sack with my wife that it is not even on my mind. Unless she brings it up... FMF!

"What would I do if I had a million dollars? I'd do two chicks at the same time." - Office Space

I have always thought it would be fun with another chick in the bed, but 1 on 1 sex with my girlfriend has never lacked anything, and I don't think she'd be keen with the idea. Plus, I don't know any other girls that would be good possibilities even if there was a chance of it happening.
I guess the solution to the riddle of whom to cum in is to not cum in either - just spray it all over both of them. If the three way is just going to be in my imagination, I can get away with that I guess.

I've seen quite a few people say this in this thread and it makes me happy that I'm not the only guy who thinks this way.

I don't think I could every do a threesome with my wife, but there was this time back in high school when I had some fun one evening with two best friends. The best part of it was that it was completley unexpected.

I once had the chance, FMF. I had to refuse, due to my ex was psycho (Norman Bates ring a bell?) and I broke it off. She tried suicide and various other ways to get me back. And one was trying to tempt me back to the relationship with a FMF. I was so tempted. But, I had to get her out of my life so at any cost! It was the hardest thing I had to say "NO!" to in my life! I still think about it to this day, and wonder what would have it been like, and who(I live in a small town!) But, you get to a point in your life you just can't do the "What if's?"

Always a fantasy of mine but when I actually got to do it it wasn't all that. Kind of akward and mechanicl but maybe I just had a bad experience. Part of the fantasy is being able to move about but I had to change condoms each time and that kind of slows the momentum. And that's just from a physical perspective. Emotionally its a big can of worms that isn't worth opening.

? for all of those who responded with tried it once.. wasn't a good idea. Why did it not work out? Was it because it was not fully discussed beforehand? Did you really want it or were you just trying to satisfy a partner's fantasy? I've been thinking about this for a while now (MFF... don't think I'd be interested in another guy other than my b/f) and I've heard many neg. comments about it. My b/f has done it before but not with a g/f. I've never done anything in this field but am very curious...

Yes if it was two chicks that i wasn't emotionally attached to. But NEVER with a gf or wife, too much to lose with little gain other than bragging rights and a couple hours of pleasure.

I would do a FMF or a FFF, but I really don't think I would enjoy a MFM. This is for 2 reasons: 1) I'm not turned on by two guys doing stuff to each other 2) I'm too fucking lazy to put out double the effort for guys :)

Almost had a FMF in college, but we all sort of chickened out. I have to say I am glad, because I married one of the girls and I just don't know how things would have worked out if we had. The other girl and I had dated briefly, and while my wife and she were really good friends and still are, it has always bothered my wife that the other girl and I dated. Imagine if we had gone through with the tois. I agree with most of ya, you have to be careful if you do it.

I've done it a few times and it's pretty cool..nothing like the two women on one guy..whom I was married to...seeing him be pleased, the look on his face and vice versa is pretty erotic!