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Tack · 08-02-2003, 07:57 AM

Have you ever participated in a threesome?

I was in a M/M/F threesome with me exroomate and his girlfriend. Me and the roomate never touched each other as we are both strictly heterosexual. The experience wasn't all the memorable.

Still waiting on the M/F/F threesome. Maybe one day...

oushi · 08-02-2003, 08:22 AM

No and not willing...

I'd prefer to keep my girlfriend to myself... and I'm sure she'd like the same. It just seems all the more intimate when only two people are involved. *shrug*

Fagabeefe · 08-02-2003, 08:25 AM

Love to try one with my wife and another woman...

But wait...

Isn't that how Ross lost his wife on "Friends"?

8^P

MrFlux · 08-02-2003, 09:40 AM

No and..... no.

I don't like to share my gf, and I don't like to share myself either. I am for her and only her

tenchi069 · 08-02-2003, 09:56 AM

my fiance and I talked about it just to see where the other one stood. neither of us wants one. much more fun 1 on 1

Cynthetiq · 08-02-2003, 10:01 AM

been there.... need to get into a M/F/F opportunity... probably not going to happen but ... one could hope.

Dr-X · 08-02-2003, 10:06 AM

nah my GF is mine and mine alone

ninety09 · 08-02-2003, 10:18 AM

I wouldn't sleep with someone that I don't love. I love only 1 person. So, no and no.

zipper · 08-02-2003, 10:21 AM

Yup..........MFM and FMF......MFMF..........all of the above.

angela146 · 08-02-2003, 10:57 AM

Read this book: "Threesome: How to Fulfill Your Favorite Fantasy
by Lori Gammon, Bill Strong" http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0965071669/

angela146 · 08-02-2003, 10:57 AM

Um, I need to be able to vote more than once...

dellamag6 · 08-02-2003, 12:41 PM

What do you call it when you and your buddies wife get together but you're only allowed to touch your own spouse?

aintyoboyfriend · 08-02-2003, 12:53 PM

Threesomes never work if there is a relationship involved. Unfortuanately someone is bound to get there feelings hurt. It is much safer with friends or flings, friends being dangerous as well.

platypus · 08-02-2003, 01:16 PM

Been covered already in the <b>threesome</b> thread. But since I could only select one choice in this poll, and I need two to fully answer, here's my post from that thread...

I have participated in both flavors: FMF, and MFM (note the spelling - not MMF).

MFM was interesting. It was one of her fantasies, so it was great to see her get to fulfill it.
I had no problems with it, emotionally or otherwise.

FMF was my fantasy. It was the most exciting and intense sexual experience I've ever had.
Over 15 years later, it still provides inspiration.

platypus · 08-02-2003, 01:21 PM

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Originally posted by dellamag6
What do you call it when you and your buddies wife get together but you're only allowed to touch your own spouse?

Did that with a girlfriend and my best friend and his girl. All in the same room but couples in opposite corners.

Guess I'd call it 'voyeuristic group sex'.

08-02-2003, 06:31 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by platypus
Guess I'd call it 'voyeuristic group sex'.

Yup - been there too. I don't think my GF could handle any other other options tho.

tweekman · 08-02-2003, 06:40 PM

Nope never done it and i never want to do it. i doubt my gf would do it either because she would probally get jealous ( if it was another girl)

Mephisto2 · 08-02-2003, 07:11 PM

Yes I have, but not with my wife.

And it's not true to say "they never work and someone's feelings always get hurt"...

Different people handle things in different ways...

Mr Mephisto

Buzz · 08-02-2003, 07:12 PM

Yea did it once with a friend and his girlfriend. was a great once in life time thing. WOW.

jibs · 08-02-2003, 08:13 PM

this would be my luck:

WHOA.. TWO CHICKS! <fumble with zipper> uNF! well. .I'm done..

dtheriault · 08-02-2003, 10:50 PM

i've had two good friends lose long term relationships (1 a marriage) over the inability to deal with the psychological aspects of a three-way fling.

can be done, but handle with care.

rockbehemoth · 08-02-2003, 11:04 PM

I had a threesome with my then-girlfiend and another girl we met at a party.
I have to say it was great! And the best part was the three-way kissing, really! I never thought I'd say that, but it's true. Very erotic. Something that I masturbate to, sometimes.

But...the experience was tough on my then-girlfriend, though. She got a little jealous afterwards and wondered if I had feelings for the other girl and also wondered if I had contacted her (the girl tried to give me her email address as we were leaving).
So... I agree with the consensus here. If you're not in a relationship, or if it's just a superficial relationship.. .then by all mean, have some fun!
Otherwise... if you love the one you're with... don't do it. It's just not worth losing them.

hobo · 08-02-2003, 11:19 PM

I wouldn't mind trying if I wasn't about to propose to either of the girls. I am pretty sure such experiences would cause jelousy and risking a serious relationship on it wouldn't be worth it.

Hrothgar · 08-03-2003, 12:27 AM

I would do this with 2 chicks I didn't give a shit about. Not with a wife or girlfriend because when emotions are involved in sex someone is going to get hurt. 2 chicks I don't care about no problem. Wham bam thank you ladies.

SiN · 08-03-2003, 12:43 AM

never done it but willing to try...

me and my bf have that on our 'list of things to do' sometime....

(it would be mff. i've no interest in other guys...)

World's King · 08-03-2003, 12:49 AM

If I could find two girls that found me attractive enough to fuck me at the same time then I'm down... Bullocks.

vveronica · 08-03-2003, 04:27 AM

Well, I can tell you there is nothing better than a veronica sandwich... I love it. There are made with beef on both sides and ME in the middle. heheheheh yummmmy

raeanna74 · 08-03-2003, 08:36 AM

Um, I voted but the record doesn't record my full answer. I have participated in M/M/F, M/F/F/, and F/F/F. I can't vote for all three. So just to set the record straigth I voted for the M/F/F. But the true results should show the other too as well for me. All of the above I have participated in with my hubby present. Either observing or in another room doing something else fun.

sbscout · 08-03-2003, 12:43 PM

nice to talk about...
nice to think about...
nice to fantasize about..

BUT

not worth losing a marriage for

air45 · 08-03-2003, 01:57 PM

i have been on all sides of the fence!

that is true, both the MMF and MFF for me and both experiences were superior for my swollen member!

the MFF was a lot of sweating work for me, and it took premium stanima to do my work, which i did for it was sexy!

Reikes · 08-03-2003, 04:42 PM

I had a M/F/F (me being male) and I must say that it really is not worth it. Just too much trouble really. What was the biggest issue during it... who i "finished" in. (They were both ex-girlfriends.)

The best part was just watching them together. I think if it was to happen again I would just watch and masterbate or something...

hotzot · 08-03-2003, 11:13 PM

I'm looking for a 5 star hypnotist who can convince my wife that a threesome is beneficial to our marriage.

pangavan · 08-04-2003, 12:10 AM

I was in a one time MMF with two very good friends,(a couple), and it was ok,nothing special. I think the other guy and I were both to worried about who we were touching,and where we were touching them.
I have had a few MFF experiences and all I can say about them is any limits or rules should be agreed to before you get naked,Obey these rules and limits, and check your ego at the door,at some point those two women will make you feel unnecessary

MikeyChalupa · 08-04-2003, 03:34 AM

Got the stamp in my passport, but won't be doing it again. I recommend it to everyone, but NOT with anyone you're in a relationship with unless you have the very rare type of relationship that can surive the potential jealousy that can occur from this. I knew both of the girls as friends, had just broken up with my first wife, we all got drunk one night and one thing led to another. I've since lost touch with both of them, and that's probably for the best. My wife would prefer that it stays that way. She had an M/M/F back in her "slut phase" that I don't like hearing about so the subject just never comes up. It's still a nice memory to re-visit from time to time...

-Mikey

Fallon · 08-04-2003, 05:19 AM

I've done MFM once, didn't like it. I know that I don't want to have another one and I'm pretty positive that my fiancee won't want one because she wouldn't want to share, and I'm ok with that.

Peryn · 08-04-2003, 10:53 AM

As a great song once put it ... "It's menage a trois -- you and me and heineken."

Somehow, i dont think that counts though

iceman2032 · 08-04-2003, 10:54 AM

I've done the MFM once. It was cause my roommates girlfriend at the time wanted to do double penetration. Though extra caution was made so that I wouldn't touch my friend

08-04-2003, 10:06 PM

No and No.

cheerios · 08-04-2003, 10:22 PM

I'm kinda on the fence on this one. never done anything, love my boyfriend fiercely and not sure if I'd like to share, but... curious, ya know?

RoadRage · 08-05-2003, 08:30 AM

I'd consider obliging you Cheerios, except I don't feel like losing a ten-year relationship over it.

A co-worker of mine has stated that she is often in MFF trois. She lives with an unmarried couple that have a 1 year old, and says she wouldn't trade it for anything. The baby seems really happy, so I suspect there isn't a lot of emotional turbulence in the home.

Of course this is the exception and not the rule. I doubt most people could withstand the demands of a polyamorous relationship for more than a weekend, and the repercussions of an attempt would destroy a lot of currently stable relationships.

In other words, don't try this at home and don't try this with someone you can't afford (monetarily or emotionally) to lose.

View Poll Results: Have you ever participated in a threesome?
Yes - M/M/F	34	14.23%
Yes - M/F/F	59	24.69%
Yes - M/M/M	1	0.42%
Yes - F/F/F	0	0%
No but willing to try	121	50.63%
No and not willing to try	24	10.04%
Voters: 239. You may not vote on this poll

08-02-2003, 07:57 AM	#1 (permalink)
Tack Upright	Ménage à trois Have you ever participated in a threesome? I was in a M/M/F threesome with me exroomate and his girlfriend. Me and the roomate never touched each other as we are both strictly heterosexual. The experience wasn't all the memorable. Still waiting on the M/F/F threesome. Maybe one day... Last edited by Tack; 08-02-2003 at 08:02 AM..

08-02-2003, 08:25 AM	#3 (permalink)
Fagabeefe What? WHAT?! Location: Over here	Love to try one with my wife and another woman... But wait... Isn't that how Ross lost his wife on "Friends"? 8^P __________________ If you can't make fun of yourself... Well at least there's always the French! Those chese-eating surrender monkeys!

08-02-2003, 09:40 AM	#4 (permalink)
MrFlux Fluxing wildly... Location: Auckland, New Zealand	No and..... no. I don't like to share my gf, and I don't like to share myself either. I am for her and only her __________________ flux (n.) Medicine. The discharge of large quantities of fluid material from the body, especially the discharge of watery feces from the intestines.

08-02-2003, 09:56 AM	#5 (permalink)
tenchi069 Lost Location: One step closer to the padded cell...	my fiance and I talked about it just to see where the other one stood. neither of us wants one. much more fun 1 on 1 __________________ ERROR- PLBSAK Problem Lies Between Seat and Keyboard.

08-02-2003, 08:22 AM	#2 (permalink)
oushi Upright	No and not willing... I'd prefer to keep my girlfriend to myself... and I'm sure she'd like the same. It just seems all the more intimate when only two people are involved. shrug

08-02-2003, 10:01 AM	#6 (permalink)
Cynthetiq Tilted Cat Head Administrator Location: Manhattan, NY	been there.... need to get into a M/F/F opportunity... probably not going to happen but ... one could hope. __________________ I don't care if you are black, white, purple, green, Chinese, Japanese, Korean, hippie, cop, bum, admin, user, English, Irish, French, Catholic, Protestant, Jewish, Buddhist, Muslim, indian, cowboy, tall, short, fat, skinny, emo, punk, mod, rocker, straight, gay, lesbian, jock, nerd, geek, Democrat, Republican, Libertarian, Independent, driver, pedestrian, or bicyclist, either you're an asshole or you're not. What's the best nation in the world? DO-NATION!

08-02-2003, 10:06 AM	#7 (permalink)
Dr-X Upright	nah my GF is mine and mine alone

08-02-2003, 10:18 AM	#8 (permalink)
ninety09 Flavour of the Weak Location: Canada	I wouldn't sleep with someone that I don't love. I love only 1 person. So, no and no.

08-02-2003, 10:21 AM	#9 (permalink)
zipper Crazy Location: Georgia, USA	Yup..........MFM and FMF......MFMF..........all of the above. __________________ "If you wait 'til the last minute, it will only take you a minute!" Visit my home page http://zhphotography.zenfolio.com/

08-02-2003, 10:57 AM	#10 (permalink)
angela146 Loser Location: Somewhere near Hubby	Read this book: "Threesome: How to Fulfill Your Favorite Fantasy by Lori Gammon, Bill Strong" http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0965071669/

08-02-2003, 10:57 AM	#11 (permalink)
angela146 Loser Location: Somewhere near Hubby	Um, I need to be able to vote more than once...

08-02-2003, 12:41 PM	#12 (permalink)
dellamag6 Upright	What do you call it when you and your buddies wife get together but you're only allowed to touch your own spouse?

08-02-2003, 12:53 PM	#13 (permalink)
aintyoboyfriend Insane Location: Arlington, VA	Threesomes never work if there is a relationship involved. Unfortuanately someone is bound to get there feelings hurt. It is much safer with friends or flings, friends being dangerous as well.

08-02-2003, 01:16 PM	#14 (permalink)
platypus Essen meine kurze Hosen Location: NY Burbs	Been covered already in the <b>threesome</b> thread. But since I could only select one choice in this poll, and I need two to fully answer, here's my post from that thread... I have participated in both flavors: FMF, and MFM (note the spelling - not MMF). MFM was interesting. It was one of her fantasies, so it was great to see her get to fulfill it. I had no problems with it, emotionally or otherwise. FMF was my fantasy. It was the most exciting and intense sexual experience I've ever had. Over 15 years later, it still provides inspiration. __________________ Out the 10Base-T, through the router, down the T1, over the leased line, off the bridge, past the firewall...nothing but Net. Last edited by platypus; 08-02-2003 at 01:18 PM..

08-02-2003, 06:40 PM	#17 (permalink)
tweekman Banned	Nope never done it and i never want to do it. i doubt my gf would do it either because she would probally get jealous ( if it was another girl)

08-02-2003, 07:11 PM	#18 (permalink)
Mephisto2 Junkie	Yes I have, but not with my wife. And it's not true to say "they never work and someone's feelings always get hurt"... Different people handle things in different ways... Mr Mephisto

08-02-2003, 07:12 PM	#19 (permalink)
Buzz Addict Location: Earth	Yea did it once with a friend and his girlfriend. was a great once in life time thing. WOW. __________________ The Only BEER is a Cold BEER. And a Single Malt will get ya every time.

08-02-2003, 08:13 PM	#20 (permalink)
jibs Tilted	this would be my luck: WHOA.. TWO CHICKS! <fumble with zipper> uNF! well. .I'm done..

08-02-2003, 10:50 PM	#21 (permalink)
dtheriault Psycho Location: maybe utah	i've had two good friends lose long term relationships (1 a marriage) over the inability to deal with the psychological aspects of a three-way fling. can be done, but handle with care. __________________ "Remember, it takes two to lie. One to lie and one to listen." -Homer Unless you are the freakin Highlander, what is the point in learning how to fight with a sword?

08-02-2003, 11:04 PM	#22 (permalink)
rockbehemoth Junkie	I had a threesome with my then-girlfiend and another girl we met at a party. I have to say it was great! And the best part was the three-way kissing, really! I never thought I'd say that, but it's true. Very erotic. Something that I masturbate to, sometimes. But...the experience was tough on my then-girlfriend, though. She got a little jealous afterwards and wondered if I had feelings for the other girl and also wondered if I had contacted her (the girl tried to give me her email address as we were leaving). So... I agree with the consensus here. If you're not in a relationship, or if it's just a superficial relationship.. .then by all mean, have some fun! Otherwise... if you love the one you're with... don't do it. It's just not worth losing them.

08-02-2003, 11:19 PM	#23 (permalink)
hobo Archangel of Change	I wouldn't mind trying if I wasn't about to propose to either of the girls. I am pretty sure such experiences would cause jelousy and risking a serious relationship on it wouldn't be worth it.

08-03-2003, 12:27 AM	#24 (permalink)
Hrothgar He's My Girl Location: The Champagne Douche	I would do this with 2 chicks I didn't give a shit about. Not with a wife or girlfriend because when emotions are involved in sex someone is going to get hurt. 2 chicks I don't care about no problem. Wham bam thank you ladies. __________________ The fortunes of war favored Hrothgar.

08-03-2003, 12:43 AM	#25 (permalink)
SiN strangelove Location: ...more here than there...	never done it but willing to try... me and my bf have that on our 'list of things to do' sometime.... (it would be mff. i've no interest in other guys...) __________________ - + - ° GiRLie GeeK ° - + - ° 01110010011011110110111101110100001000000110110101100101 Therell be days/When Ill stray/I may appear to be/Constantly out of reach/I give in to sin/Because I like to practise what I preach

08-03-2003, 12:49 AM	#26 (permalink)
World's King Here Location: Denver City Denver	If I could find two girls that found me attractive enough to fuck me at the same time then I'm down... Bullocks. __________________ heavy is the head that wears the crown

08-03-2003, 04:27 AM	#27 (permalink)
vveronica Psycho Location: northern california	Well, I can tell you there is nothing better than a veronica sandwich... I love it. There are made with beef on both sides and ME in the middle. heheheheh yummmmy __________________ ...We find ourselves in a struggle for our very right to exsist... We will not go quietly into the night... We will not give up without a fight...

08-03-2003, 08:36 AM	#28 (permalink)
raeanna74 I'm not a blonde! I'm knot! I'm knot! I'm knot! Location: Upper Michigan	Um, I voted but the record doesn't record my full answer. I have participated in M/M/F, M/F/F/, and F/F/F. I can't vote for all three. So just to set the record straigth I voted for the M/F/F. But the true results should show the other too as well for me. All of the above I have participated in with my hubby present. Either observing or in another room doing something else fun. __________________ "Always learn the rules so that you can break them properly." Dalai Lama My Karma just ran over your Dogma.

08-03-2003, 12:43 PM	#29 (permalink)
sbscout Disorganized Location: back home again...	nice to talk about... nice to think about... nice to fantasize about.. BUT not worth losing a marriage for __________________ Always question authority... it'll keep the bastards on their toes!

08-03-2003, 01:57 PM	#30 (permalink)
air45 Loser Location: Midwest	i have been on all sides of the fence! that is true, both the MMF and MFF for me and both experiences were superior for my swollen member! the MFF was a lot of sweating work for me, and it took premium stanima to do my work, which i did for it was sexy!

08-03-2003, 04:42 PM	#31 (permalink)
Reikes Upright	I had a M/F/F (me being male) and I must say that it really is not worth it. Just too much trouble really. What was the biggest issue during it... who i "finished" in. (They were both ex-girlfriends.) The best part was just watching them together. I think if it was to happen again I would just watch and masterbate or something...

08-03-2003, 11:13 PM	#32 (permalink)
hotzot We're having potato pancakes! Location: stalag 13	I'm looking for a 5 star hypnotist who can convince my wife that a threesome is beneficial to our marriage. __________________ The Bully Boys are here!

08-04-2003, 12:10 AM	#33 (permalink)
pangavan Insane Location: cleveland, OH	I was in a one time MMF with two very good friends,(a couple), and it was ok,nothing special. I think the other guy and I were both to worried about who we were touching,and where we were touching them. I have had a few MFF experiences and all I can say about them is any limits or rules should be agreed to before you get naked,Obey these rules and limits, and check your ego at the door,at some point those two women will make you feel unnecessary __________________ He is, moreover, a frequent drunkard, a glutton, and a patron of ladies who are no better than they should be.

08-04-2003, 03:34 AM	#34 (permalink)
MikeyChalupa Squid Location: USS George Washington	Got the stamp in my passport, but won't be doing it again. I recommend it to everyone, but NOT with anyone you're in a relationship with unless you have the very rare type of relationship that can surive the potential jealousy that can occur from this. I knew both of the girls as friends, had just broken up with my first wife, we all got drunk one night and one thing led to another. I've since lost touch with both of them, and that's probably for the best. My wife would prefer that it stays that way. She had an M/M/F back in her "slut phase" that I don't like hearing about so the subject just never comes up. It's still a nice memory to re-visit from time to time... -Mikey

08-04-2003, 05:19 AM	#35 (permalink)
Fallon Junkie Location: RI	I've done MFM once, didn't like it. I know that I don't want to have another one and I'm pretty positive that my fiancee won't want one because she wouldn't want to share, and I'm ok with that.

08-04-2003, 10:53 AM	#36 (permalink)
Peryn Junkie Location: San Diego, CA.	As a great song once put it ... "It's menage a trois -- you and me and heineken." Somehow, i dont think that counts though __________________ Dont cry kid, It's not your fault you suck.