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Astrocloud · 08-05-2005, 05:16 AM

I am having issues with condoms. I can't find a decent brand. I HATE fumbling with the package in the dark and I CAN'T FEEL ANYTHING when I get them on.

What brand do you use?

TexanAvenger · 08-05-2005, 05:36 AM

I use Trojan Her Pleasure condoms. I don't know if they actually do anything for Her, but it doesn't hurt to try.

As for not feeling as much during sex, I've kind of just taken that condoms're going to do that. I know I've never felt as much with one on, but it's always been the contact and bonding that happened during sex that's more important to me anyway. That, and I'm not going to not wear a condom at this point. And it's not like I don't feel anything...

Maybe you could try out one of those brands made specifically to be thin yet durable. Offhand I think Durex is supposed to be better for that than, say, Trojan... but I have a monster pack to use before I go out and try other kinds.

djflish · 08-05-2005, 05:46 AM

Try Durex Avanti. They're non-latex and extra thin so you get more sensation.
You can get a free sample from www.durex.com

Redlemon · 08-05-2005, 06:00 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by djflish

Try Durex Avanti. They're non-latex and extra thin so you get more sensation.
You can get a free sample from www.durex.com

That's our brand as well. My wife likes them much better than others. Comparatively expensive, but sex is worth it, and Amazon has some decent deals on them.

BigBen · 08-05-2005, 07:03 AM

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Originally Posted by djflish

Try Durex Avanti. They're non-latex and extra thin so you get more sensation.

And us poor bastards that are allergic to latex. They are non-latex, and cost about 16 bucks for 5. Quite expensive, yes, but cheaper than a newborn baby.

astrahl · 08-05-2005, 07:10 AM

I am so pleased to hear so many men are wearing them.

I had to go on the pill at 16 or 17 and finally wanted to get off of them when I was 28 or 29. My sex drive returned - I feel healthier, and I am so happy that my husband is willing to share the burden of contraception.

You have to fumble with them, yes...the pleasure of bareback is gone, yes...but when I show up with a condom package in my teeth...he knows exactly what I want.

Turbotom · 08-05-2005, 07:42 AM

Lifestyles are pretty good for the price.
...Trojans are the worst things I've ever used. Might as well wrap a towel around your penis.

abaya · 08-05-2005, 08:04 AM

Have you tried the Kimono ones? They're super thin and still effective. I guess they're latex, but as I recall ktspktsp did like them better than the ones we usually use (I forget which those are, but I'm sure he'll join in this thread later).

I must say, we use the Ring and condoms every time... yes, not having a baby is THAT important to us! We both miss going without condoms (not to mention going without birth control), but we haven't made it a huge issue. We are both making sacrifices to be sure we don't end up getting pregnant before we are ready.

I think it may be a mental thing almost as much as it is a physical thing (the loss of sensation). Attitude.

Suave · 08-05-2005, 10:09 AM

If you hate the package, have you considered those Lifestyles condoms with the crazy pop-top deal?

Lasereth · 08-05-2005, 07:43 PM

Condoms suck. I'd almost rather not have sex period than use a condom. When we do have sex, we use the thinnest possible. I always wondered why everyone said sex was sooo great...well, it turns out that all of those people that bragged about how awesome it was aren't using condoms at all (pill). Well of course sex would be great without having a rubber glove on your penis!

-Lasereth

Gamer90 · 08-05-2005, 09:12 PM

I heard the thinner condoms like Durex Avanti and Kimonos are less durable. Is that true? I just use Trojan Supra not much feeling but I guess as long as she feels something it's all that matters.

eMOTIONal20 · 08-05-2005, 09:20 PM

Hmmm I suppose Trojan. The Twisted Pleasure ones are decent.... pretty thin too. Condoms are just all around a pain in the ass. The pill is fabulous.

Gamer90 · 08-05-2005, 10:41 PM

Not for women it isn't.

CityOfAngels · 08-05-2005, 10:43 PM

I've had this problem in the past, but I've found that most condoms that say "Ultra thin" or "Super thin" are the way to go. Funny thing is, in my three years of being sexually active, I've broken about 8 condoms, NONE of which were Ultra Thin. I think the thin ones have more elasticity and can stretch a bit more. But anyways, the ultra thin condoms are almost like having sex without a condom...ALMOST. But hey, almost is better than having a "towel" or a "rubber glove" wrapped around your penis.

Astrocloud · 08-06-2005, 07:29 AM

One thing I really don't need at this point is a broken condom and "Little Astroclouds" running around. Thanks for the suggestions folks and keep them cumming.

Sugarmouse · 08-06-2005, 07:34 AM

condoms suck...i found mates ones the lesser of all the evils though...does using lube help?or ribbed ones?

eMOTIONal20 · 08-06-2005, 03:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Gamer90

Not for women it isn't.

Worked wonders for me. Some women do experience some nasty side effects, but I didn't. I had a few but once my body got used to it, I was fine.

ShaniFaye · 08-06-2005, 03:22 PM

Im allergic to latex...we use Trojan Supra's....of course with any condom it cuts the sensation..but Dave says with these he can feel more than with most.

here's a review

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The Trojan Supra is the first polyurethane non latex condom with a spermicidal lubricant. Made from a Medical-grade advanced material called Microsheer. Supra condoms are ultra thin, strong and clear (almost invisible). Compatible with both water-based and oil-based lubricants Supra polyurethane condoms have no latex allergens, and they transmit body heat unlike latex! The Supra is quite a bit larger in length=200mm (7.88 Inches) and width=57mm (2.25 Inches) than average condoms and has no taste or smell

http://www.ripnroll.com/supra.htm

Lasereth · 08-06-2005, 03:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Gamer90

Not for women it isn't.

My female friend is on the pill. Her acne disappeared and she hasn't had her period for like 4 or 5 years. For some women it's excellent.

-Lasereth

Sage · 08-06-2005, 04:00 PM

Kimono Ultra Thins were what Martel and I used... we both liked them a lot. head on over to condoms.com or goodvibes.com and pick up a sampler pack of condoms. Martel and I did it when we had to use condoms and not only was it fun trying them all out, we got to find one that worked well for both of us!

snowy · 08-06-2005, 04:24 PM

We don't really use condoms any more, but when we did he preferred Durex Ultra Sensitive. He says they were better than most for transferring sensation.

Hardknock · 08-06-2005, 05:14 PM

I'm so glad I don't use condoms anymore. I could never feel anything while wearing one.

Skin to skin kicks ass.

abaya · 08-07-2005, 06:48 AM

I find it interesting how some of the posters talk about giving up condoms like they gave up on something bad for you, and that they're proud of it. It's not like an addiction to smoking or something. Most of us don't enjoy using a condom, and I think just about everyone would stop using them if we could.

Yeah, I don't like condoms, neither does my SO, but they're just damn necessary for us right now. If we go "off" them, why would I post here and "brag" about how great it is to not use them... some people really prefer to use them, for where they are at in their lives or because birth control is harmful to the woman.

I'm also freshly back from Zambia, where "condom" is a filthy word and men in the rural areas refuse to use them. As a result, over half of Zambia seems to be infected with HIV/AIDS, and most men have 2-3 wives who each have 8-10 children. So I'm not gonna trash talk condoms just because we Westerners are lucky enough to have women's lib and also be able to afford birth control.

/end surprise rant, sorry.

Martel · 08-07-2005, 09:33 PM

Kimono Microthins and Pleasure Plus were my favorites. Trojan twisted pleasure and inspiral had a good idea but felt to me like I was wearing a trash bag with all of that extra material sliding around.

HoneyPot · 08-07-2005, 10:23 PM

Condoms are great, but not so great. I would rather have it on than have little ones running around. I did the patch method and my hormones went crazy, so I ditched that detail. So far sooooo gooooood!

Jinn · 08-08-2005, 07:50 AM

Man, it is so great to not use condoms...

That said, Trojan Her Pleasures were always my favorite.. even if they were a bit expensive.. One tip I read once was to have a little tub of lube sitting by the bed with the condom dropped in it pre-coitus. That way, you reach in and grab it and its super-easy to put on and put in..

Daoust · 08-08-2005, 08:04 AM

^ Wow Jinn. That's great. Like the boyscouts say: Be prepared!

I don't love the glove myself, but I do use it, because my wife isn't on the pill anymore ( and I"m glad because I'm convinced the pill messes up a womans body) and I still want to have sex. My wife also loves the dome because there's no clean up for her. Personally, I've forgotten how sex feels au naturel, so when the time comes when we're trying to have another child, I'm probably going to cum on thrust number 1 or 2.

Gamer90 · 08-08-2005, 04:31 PM

I want to try Kimono super thin condoms and Durex Avanti but do they offer the same durability and protection?

djflish · 08-08-2005, 04:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Gamer90

I want to try Kimono super thin condoms and Durex Avanti but do they offer the same durability and protection?

If anything, they seem to be better than ordinary latex condoms. But if protection is your main worry, Durex Extra Safe are good. And surprisingly thin.

Astrocloud · 08-09-2005, 06:59 AM

Okay everyone. I got a box of Kimono ultra thins (large sized). Haven't had any alone time with the girlfriend -perhaps on weds -I'll see how they go.

bobillydylan · 08-09-2005, 07:06 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Astrocloud

Okay everyone. I got a box of Kimono ultra thins (large sized). Haven't had any alone time with the girlfriend -perhaps on weds -I'll see how they go.

Goodluck Astrocloud lets just hope they dont burst with your size lol

ophelia783 · 08-09-2005, 07:29 AM

We use Twisted Pleasures by Trojan....I find most of the other brands have too much lube on them, and that makes it really hard to feel anything in itself. Plus, the twists do help you to feel your partner cum, which I'd never been able to feel before.

qweds · 08-09-2005, 05:09 PM

well i don't know if they are available in the us in stores, but i'm sure you can find them online. It's a british company 'Contex'. I only actually used them in Russia but that a different story. Anyways the one you want is called 'Black Rose' Now unless the color turns you off (they are actually black) these are the best condoms I have ever found. Like you i despise my rubber companions (as muchas I do love them at times) and have lost one or two erections over the fuss.

Not so with the black rose, i'm not sure if it's a different latex or what, but these just always slide on much easier and stay put. Having used well over 150 I've never had a break or other problem with them. Hope you can find them, actually maybe I'll go look myself as my girl gets back in coutry end of the month...

good luck man

Astrocloud · 08-11-2005, 12:27 PM

Okay Kimono wasn't great but a little better than the michelan ones I was using. I had one break and the "extra large" didn't seem so large. Nevertheless it was still better than normal.

Charlatan · 08-11-2005, 01:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Astrocloud

I had one break and the "extra large" didn't seem so large.

You are so modest...

...or the Japanese are so small...

Leviathan[NCV] · 08-11-2005, 04:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Charlatan

You are so modest...

...or the Japanese are so small...

Hahahahahahahahahahahahahaha.
ha ha ha .. okay I'm done.

james t kirk · 08-13-2005, 03:51 PM

I hate condoms.

Just the thought of having to fumble around and put one on is an erection destroyer for me.

I'd rather just engage in oral / mutal masturbation if a condom is a requirement.

At least I will feel something, anything.

Rynomiami · 08-13-2005, 09:59 PM

visotech · 08-15-2005, 12:45 AM

Check out this site:

http://www.condomsdelivered.com/

You can order singles of a large variety of condoms at a decent price. And shipping is free for orders over $10. I used this site once and ordered a whole mess of condoms and I was able to find the ones I liked the most from there.

viejo gringo · 08-15-2005, 07:58 PM

WE JUST PUT IT IN DOUBLE AND LET THE SQIRTY END HANG OUT
:d

08-05-2005, 05:16 AM	#1 (permalink)
Astrocloud Apocalypse Nerd	Condom Blues I am having issues with condoms. I can't find a decent brand. I HATE fumbling with the package in the dark and I CAN'T FEEL ANYTHING when I get them on. What brand do you use?

08-05-2005, 05:46 AM	#3 (permalink)
djflish The Mighty Boosh Location: I mostly come out at night, mostly...	Try Durex Avanti. They're non-latex and extra thin so you get more sensation. You can get a free sample from www.durex.com __________________ Europes two great narcotics, Alcohol and Christianity. I know which one I prefer.

08-05-2005, 07:10 AM	#6 (permalink)
astrahl Insane Location: You don't want to live here	I am so pleased to hear so many men are wearing them. I had to go on the pill at 16 or 17 and finally wanted to get off of them when I was 28 or 29. My sex drive returned - I feel healthier, and I am so happy that my husband is willing to share the burden of contraception. You have to fumble with them, yes...the pleasure of bareback is gone, yes...but when I show up with a condom package in my teeth...he knows exactly what I want. __________________ Maybe it was over when she chucked me out the Rover at full speed. Maybe Maybe... ~a-Ha

08-05-2005, 08:04 AM	#8 (permalink)
abaya Location: Iceland	Have you tried the Kimono ones? They're super thin and still effective. I guess they're latex, but as I recall ktspktsp did like them better than the ones we usually use (I forget which those are, but I'm sure he'll join in this thread later). I must say, we use the Ring and condoms every time... yes, not having a baby is THAT important to us! We both miss going without condoms (not to mention going without birth control), but we haven't made it a huge issue. We are both making sacrifices to be sure we don't end up getting pregnant before we are ready. I think it may be a mental thing almost as much as it is a physical thing (the loss of sensation). Attitude. __________________ And think not you can direct the course of Love; for Love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course. --Khalil Gibran

08-05-2005, 10:09 AM	#9 (permalink)
Suave Twitterpated Location: My own little world (also Canada)	If you hate the package, have you considered those Lifestyles condoms with the crazy pop-top deal? __________________ "Few people are capable of expressing with equanimity opinions which differ from the prejudices of their social environment. Most people are even incapable of forming such opinions." - Albert Einstein "Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something." - Plato

08-05-2005, 05:36 AM	#2 (permalink)
TexanAvenger Born-Again New Guy Location: Unfound.	I use Trojan Her Pleasure condoms. I don't know if they actually do anything for Her, but it doesn't hurt to try. As for not feeling as much during sex, I've kind of just taken that condoms're going to do that. I know I've never felt as much with one on, but it's always been the contact and bonding that happened during sex that's more important to me anyway. That, and I'm not going to not wear a condom at this point. And it's not like I don't feel anything... Maybe you could try out one of those brands made specifically to be thin yet durable. Offhand I think Durex is supposed to be better for that than, say, Trojan... but I have a monster pack to use before I go out and try other kinds.

08-05-2005, 07:42 AM	#7 (permalink)
Turbotom Tilted	Lifestyles are pretty good for the price. ...Trojans are the worst things I've ever used. Might as well wrap a towel around your penis.

08-05-2005, 07:43 PM	#10 (permalink)
Lasereth Knight of the Old Republic Location: Winston-Salem, NC	Condoms suck. I'd almost rather not have sex period than use a condom. When we do have sex, we use the thinnest possible. I always wondered why everyone said sex was sooo great...well, it turns out that all of those people that bragged about how awesome it was aren't using condoms at all (pill). Well of course sex would be great without having a rubber glove on your penis! -Lasereth __________________ "A Darwinian attacks his theory, seeking to find flaws. An ID believer defends his theory, seeking to conceal flaws." -Roger Ebert

08-05-2005, 09:12 PM	#11 (permalink)
Gamer90 Tilted	I heard the thinner condoms like Durex Avanti and Kimonos are less durable. Is that true? I just use Trojan Supra not much feeling but I guess as long as she feels something it's all that matters. __________________ *This posting is provided "as is" with no warranties, and confers no rights*

08-05-2005, 09:20 PM	#12 (permalink)
eMOTIONal20 Crazy Location: Colorado Springs, Colorado	Hmmm I suppose Trojan. The Twisted Pleasure ones are decent.... pretty thin too. Condoms are just all around a pain in the ass. The pill is fabulous. __________________ "You must be the change you wish to see in the world." - Gandhi

08-05-2005, 10:41 PM	#13 (permalink)
Gamer90 Tilted	Not for women it isn't. __________________ *This posting is provided "as is" with no warranties, and confers no rights*

08-05-2005, 10:43 PM	#14 (permalink)
CityOfAngels Oh shit it's Wayne Brady! Location: Passenger seat of Wayne Brady's car.	I've had this problem in the past, but I've found that most condoms that say "Ultra thin" or "Super thin" are the way to go. Funny thing is, in my three years of being sexually active, I've broken about 8 condoms, NONE of which were Ultra Thin. I think the thin ones have more elasticity and can stretch a bit more. But anyways, the ultra thin condoms are almost like having sex without a condom...ALMOST. But hey, almost is better than having a "towel" or a "rubber glove" wrapped around your penis.

08-06-2005, 07:29 AM	#15 (permalink)
Astrocloud Apocalypse Nerd	One thing I really don't need at this point is a broken condom and "Little Astroclouds" running around. Thanks for the suggestions folks and keep them cumming.

08-06-2005, 07:34 AM	#16 (permalink)
Sugarmouse Insane Location: Preston lancs(i know i know)	condoms suck...i found mates ones the lesser of all the evils though...does using lube help?or ribbed ones? __________________ Sugarmouse=Festered

08-06-2005, 04:00 PM	#20 (permalink)
Sage hoarding all the big girl panties since 2005 Location: North side	Kimono Ultra Thins were what Martel and I used... we both liked them a lot. head on over to condoms.com or goodvibes.com and pick up a sampler pack of condoms. Martel and I did it when we had to use condoms and not only was it fun trying them all out, we got to find one that worked well for both of us! __________________ Sage knows our mythic history, King Arthur's and Sir Caradoc's She answers hard acrostics, has a pretty taste for paradox She quotes in elegiacs all the crimes of Heliogabalus In conics she can floor peculiarities parabolous -C'hi

08-06-2005, 04:24 PM	#21 (permalink)
snowy Kick Ass Kunoichi Location: Oregon	We don't really use condoms any more, but when we did he preferred Durex Ultra Sensitive. He says they were better than most for transferring sensation. __________________ If I am not better, at least I am different. --Jean-Jacques Rousseau

08-06-2005, 05:14 PM	#22 (permalink)
Hardknock Republican slayer Location: WA	I'm so glad I don't use condoms anymore. I could never feel anything while wearing one. Skin to skin kicks ass.

08-07-2005, 06:48 AM	#23 (permalink)
abaya Location: Iceland	I find it interesting how some of the posters talk about giving up condoms like they gave up on something bad for you, and that they're proud of it. It's not like an addiction to smoking or something. Most of us don't enjoy using a condom, and I think just about everyone would stop using them if we could. Yeah, I don't like condoms, neither does my SO, but they're just damn necessary for us right now. If we go "off" them, why would I post here and "brag" about how great it is to not use them... some people really prefer to use them, for where they are at in their lives or because birth control is harmful to the woman. I'm also freshly back from Zambia, where "condom" is a filthy word and men in the rural areas refuse to use them. As a result, over half of Zambia seems to be infected with HIV/AIDS, and most men have 2-3 wives who each have 8-10 children. So I'm not gonna trash talk condoms just because we Westerners are lucky enough to have women's lib and also be able to afford birth control. /end surprise rant, sorry. __________________ And think not you can direct the course of Love; for Love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course. --Khalil Gibran

08-07-2005, 09:33 PM	#24 (permalink)
Martel Insane Location: Sage's bed	Kimono Microthins and Pleasure Plus were my favorites. Trojan twisted pleasure and inspiral had a good idea but felt to me like I was wearing a trash bag with all of that extra material sliding around. __________________ Anamnesis

08-07-2005, 10:23 PM	#25 (permalink)
HoneyPot Crazy Location: Nunya	Condoms are great, but not so great. I would rather have it on than have little ones running around. I did the patch method and my hormones went crazy, so I ditched that detail. So far sooooo gooooood! __________________ Beauty is in the Eye of the Beholder.

08-08-2005, 07:50 AM	#26 (permalink)
Jinn Lover - Protector - Teacher Location: Seattle, WA	Man, it is so great to not use condoms... That said, Trojan Her Pleasures were always my favorite.. even if they were a bit expensive.. One tip I read once was to have a little tub of lube sitting by the bed with the condom dropped in it pre-coitus. That way, you reach in and grab it and its super-easy to put on and put in.. __________________ "I'm typing on a computer of science, which is being sent by science wires to a little science server where you can access it. I'm not typing on a computer of philosophy or religion or whatever other thing you think can be used to understand the universe because they're a poor substitute in the role of understanding the universe which exists independent from ourselves." - Willravel

08-08-2005, 08:04 AM	#27 (permalink)
Daoust "I'm sorry. What was the question?" Location: Paradise Regained	^ Wow Jinn. That's great. Like the boyscouts say: Be prepared! I don't love the glove myself, but I do use it, because my wife isn't on the pill anymore ( and I"m glad because I'm convinced the pill messes up a womans body) and I still want to have sex. My wife also loves the dome because there's no clean up for her. Personally, I've forgotten how sex feels au naturel, so when the time comes when we're trying to have another child, I'm probably going to cum on thrust number 1 or 2. __________________ I have faith in a few things - divinity and grace But even when I'm on my knees I know the devil preys

08-08-2005, 04:31 PM	#28 (permalink)
Gamer90 Tilted	I want to try Kimono super thin condoms and Durex Avanti but do they offer the same durability and protection? __________________ *This posting is provided "as is" with no warranties, and confers no rights*

08-09-2005, 06:59 AM	#30 (permalink)
Astrocloud Apocalypse Nerd	Okay everyone. I got a box of Kimono ultra thins (large sized). Haven't had any alone time with the girlfriend -perhaps on weds -I'll see how they go.

08-09-2005, 07:29 AM	#32 (permalink)
ophelia783 Insane Location: West Virginia	We use Twisted Pleasures by Trojan....I find most of the other brands have too much lube on them, and that makes it really hard to feel anything in itself. Plus, the twists do help you to feel your partner cum, which I'd never been able to feel before. __________________ ~~ He with a sharp tongue slits his own throat ~~

08-09-2005, 05:09 PM	#33 (permalink)
qweds has been Location: Chicago	well i don't know if they are available in the us in stores, but i'm sure you can find them online. It's a british company 'Contex'. I only actually used them in Russia but that a different story. Anyways the one you want is called 'Black Rose' Now unless the color turns you off (they are actually black) these are the best condoms I have ever found. Like you i despise my rubber companions (as muchas I do love them at times) and have lost one or two erections over the fuss. Not so with the black rose, i'm not sure if it's a different latex or what, but these just always slide on much easier and stay put. Having used well over 150 I've never had a break or other problem with them. Hope you can find them, actually maybe I'll go look myself as my girl gets back in coutry end of the month... good luck man __________________ tim(mah)

08-11-2005, 12:27 PM	#34 (permalink)
Astrocloud Apocalypse Nerd	Okay Kimono wasn't great but a little better than the michelan ones I was using. I had one break and the "extra large" didn't seem so large. Nevertheless it was still better than normal.

08-13-2005, 03:51 PM	#37 (permalink)
james t kirk Junkie Location: Toronto	I hate condoms. Just the thought of having to fumble around and put one on is an erection destroyer for me. I'd rather just engage in oral / mutal masturbation if a condom is a requirement. At least I will feel something, anything.

08-13-2005, 09:59 PM	#38 (permalink)
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08-15-2005, 12:45 AM	#39 (permalink)
visotech Insane Location: San Diego, CA	Check out this site: http://www.condomsdelivered.com/ You can order singles of a large variety of condoms at a decent price. And shipping is free for orders over $10. I used this site once and ordered a whole mess of condoms and I was able to find the ones I liked the most from there.

08-15-2005, 07:58 PM	#40 (permalink)
viejo gringo Registered User Location: Deep South Texas	WE JUST PUT IT IN DOUBLE AND LET THE SQIRTY END HANG OUT :d