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Patrenka · 07-26-2003, 03:11 PM

My hubby and i had a 3some. it was great. we had talked about it beforehand just in case the opportunity ever presented itself. she and i got things started while he watched. when he joined in, i wasn't as jealous as i thought i might be. i even motioned for him to join me eating. he did. i still stuck to my rule of him penetrating me, not her and he didn't have a problem with it.

i sure had to do some sweet talking and coaxing to get her pants off, though. Now, i know what you guys go through.

shannon · 07-26-2003, 03:54 PM

firstly, congrats for sure.
secondly, have you seen chasing amy? the speech that alyssa gives near the end of the movie brings up some of the possible issues after a threesome. it made me think. i don't know if you'd even want to think about it if it could make you think twice about things, but if you were looking for something to give you like the warnings side of things.... plus it's a damn good movie. kevin smith is an amazing guy.

PartyN · 07-26-2003, 06:20 PM

Anybody who would agree to a threesome, would probably agree to taping it too. Set up the video cam and you can relive the moment after the 3rd party is long gone.

07-26-2003, 07:31 PM

your a lucky man.

gozlanfrog · 07-26-2003, 08:42 PM

I hate you. :-D

07-26-2003, 09:34 PM

All i can say is good luck and be absolutely sure you've discussed EVERYTHING beforehand. Obey your rules and everything should be fine.

wario · 08-09-2003, 01:10 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Ace_O_Spades
the lucky day is "sometime" between the 2nd and the 10th of august when we go down to vancouver to "visit"

Do we get to hear now?

skysooner · 08-09-2003, 07:35 AM

Hopefully this turned out okay for you. Sometimes the reality is less than the anticipation you have built up in your head, but other times it can lead to some really fun times.

lusipher · 08-09-2003, 08:00 AM

ive never figured out if its better to have the other woman a close friend of one of you, or for her to almost be a stranger. i think it would be better if she was more of a stranger or aquaintence,then if things get messed up, there can be some distance between the couple and the problem. not to mention having it the other way your gambling with something precious... a frienship!

jadedgrin · 08-10-2003, 04:21 PM

alright well this advice comes late but you should know that even if you cant penetrate the other woman (because you set up a rule with your gilrfriend) id be carefull with not lending enough attension to each, and be asolutly sure they are comfortable with oneanother because if they arent then they are just going to look at you for pleasure and remain indifferent of oneanother (althoug they might not say it out load) anyway, wish i was you whenever it happens

have fun!!

MacGnG · 08-10-2003, 07:22 PM

wow! have fun, be safe

JStrider · 08-10-2003, 11:49 PM

arie and i are lookin into this a lil... letting the 2 girls do it by themselves a couple times... just to get them past the awkwardness of a new activity... but i dunno if i would be comfortable with them completely alone... i could watch tho

macmanmike6100 · 08-11-2003, 12:02 AM

good luck, I'm sure you'll have fun. details would be excellent for those of us who have not been so blessed :-)

(and so I could convince my girl to try?)

air45 · 08-11-2003, 10:23 AM

this is premium for you! i am wishing for two vaginas for you today, with your swollen member needing to satisfy!

perhaps you make bring them both orgasm? they would like this for sure!

Ace_O_Spades · 08-11-2003, 12:22 PM

I have returned

i came, i saw, i had a threesome

it was definitely awesome!

We agreed beforehand that I wouldnt penetrate the other girl, but during the act, the other girl wanted to watch me and my girlfriend having sex... so i wasnt gonna complain about it!

Everything turned out great, taking everything out before hand was definitely a major bonus.

The girl lives on the other side of the province from us... so its not like things are even gonna be weird

we all agreed we wanted to try it again sometime.. perhaps even videotaped!

i love my life

^dude · 08-11-2003, 01:03 PM

Lucky you, and at least its with another girl, instead of another guy.

Splice · 08-16-2003, 01:56 AM

Yeah, lucky man!

Bamrak · 08-16-2003, 07:33 AM

Nice work Ace, Glad everything went well!

Gooddoggy62 · 08-16-2003, 11:23 AM

Beware of how it will effect your relationship with your gf in the long run. Ok, that's from the old guy in me. Go for it! Don't look back and never regret it, it will be awesome!

rockbehemoth · 08-17-2003, 07:17 AM

Ace, my best advice (coming from someone who's had that fantasy fulfilled) is this:
If you love your girlfriend and think you might take things to the next step... then really reconsider doing it.
Chicks get jealous REAL easy. During the threesome they size themselves up against the other chick (breast size, waistline, hair, etc.) and that can make them feel really insecure.
After I had one (which was a lot of fun, mind you), my then-girlfriend got really jealous and kept asking me if I was interested in the other girl.

Although the act was a lot of fun, I don't look back and feel that my life is any better because I did it. So, losing your girlfriend over something that won't mean anything later on might not be worth it to you.

I now firmly believe in "love the one you're with."
Go carefully, and weigh all your options.

sonikeko · 08-17-2003, 09:43 AM

You have gone where few men have gone before...and where most have only dreamed of. Congrats

raeanna74 · 08-17-2003, 07:18 PM

Personally I would prefer not being alone with the other girl my first time. I've done this numerous times before and it was/is easier to enjoy with a man/men around to play too. It's gets you past the same gender thing that you've been programmed to think is wierd. It's more fun with a guy around because you can show off for him/them - I enjoy that part almost as much as being with the woman. I wouldn't say it's necessary to give the girls a chance alone. I would suggest that you make sure you let the girls lead and tell them they are in the lead. It will make them just a little more confident about doing things new to them and all of you.

Good luck. I know your in for a treat.

water_boy1999 · 08-17-2003, 09:09 PM

Congrats....I am still waiting for a threesome.....I would prefer two girls I don't know very well as I don't have a GF....by choice....

I think the reprocussions of doing it with someone I am with would be too much in the long run.

joesmith · 08-17-2003, 10:54 PM

I'm not sure if its every mans dream - at least not forever - i had one, when i was about 20 - it was really incredible, and both the grls stayed as roomies for a few weeks... But now, given the choice, i'd much rather go one on one with someone i really know - the intensity can't be matched - a threesome for me, though grat, now feels too much like juggling, for what i like in the bedroom

Ithaca_5Lb. · 08-18-2003, 03:37 AM

Yeah my girl encourages Threesomes, if she's comfortable with it it's totaly healthy and something cool to talk about when you're hung over the next day.

snicka · 08-18-2003, 10:00 PM

All I can say is DAAAAMNNNNNN YOOUUUUUUUU!!!!!!

(i am jealous)

cherylcannady · 08-19-2003, 01:11 PM

Mr.S and I have talked at length about having threesomes. Before he and I started dating, I considered myself a lesbian. And I'll admit, there are days when I really want my face between a girl's legs. Lucky me, Mr.S gets really turned on by this idea (go figure). His fantasy, and I share it, is to have me eatin' at the Y and him behind me, watching and fucking. I have no problems watching him fuck another girl. I'd like to help him pleasure her.

We're going to wait awhile before setting this up. Maybe in a year or two. We're having way too much fun on our own right now.

jojoojeyjojo · 08-19-2003, 01:24 PM

Lol, that is a good question to switch when switching girls, I know most guys wouldnt care, and would say no, some guys, would say uhhh hell yah cause the third "newer" girl if a stranger could be well, not as clean as one said "steady" girl, but then again you might know the "new one" quite well.... jeez, I guess if you were going by the "book" you would have to switch

viveleroi0 · 08-19-2003, 05:57 PM

oh man... hard on growing just thinking how lucky you are

Lizziethedragon · 08-20-2003, 10:16 AM

It is a mine field to say the least. First one I was involved with, the other girl started coming on to me afterwards and my girl friend didn't dig that too much, to say the least. End result, end of relationship. The second one was with a casual friend (read fuck buddy) and her roommate. Of course it helped that the two of them were already sleeping together. That one was fun and I look back on it with teary eyes of loss

virus · 08-20-2003, 12:23 PM

yeah, i think i like the second example. i think if i were going to do it, i'd prefer to do it NOT with my girlfriend.

sltkr2000 · 08-20-2003, 01:17 PM

come one every one it is just a threesome, i had a relationship for 3 1/2 yrs with 2 bi-girls..

i ejaculated 3-4 times every night we sleep together... the view of a woman taking you rod, out of the other so dhe would give you a BJ and put back in is unforgetable..

they even made thier own collection of videos of us doing it around the house, on ehting forshure, if you are going to have threesome with you gf and another woman, keep in mind that she is the center of attention.. as long as she feels that she is in the center of your attention, looking in her eyes more the other girl as you haveing sex, even keep your hand on her while haveing sex with the other, would make her know that no matter how many women is your bed, she will always be your favorite..

luky me, they where already living together as lovers before i become thier bf.. however, because they very sexually active. when there is aday go by that we do not have sex or oral at all. I call it a ejaculation day off..lol

quantumburnz · 08-20-2003, 03:18 PM

sltkr2000,
sounds like you had it pretty good. nice find.

As for Ace, I'm glad ya had fun, hope your relationship still works out with that girl, and I'm off to find me 2 bi girls!

krd913 · 08-21-2003, 07:20 PM

we do want details
we do want details

macmanmike6100 · 08-23-2003, 08:46 AM

sltkr2000, you rock, I need a couple bi-girls.

ace, great work man! Glad you had a good time, and that's great to hear that it went well. Lucky you.

goobster · 08-24-2003, 07:34 AM

Good luck. Make sure you post how it turned out......

Begora21 · 08-24-2003, 10:55 AM

good luck ... hope you discussed all the ramifications of it, like some of the things Alyssa mentioned at the end of Chasing Amy...

koolaid · 08-25-2003, 02:44 PM

I would love that however I would have to think of what would happen with all the relationships. Could really F things up.

Xirax · 08-25-2003, 08:29 PM

Man, I can only dream of having a 3some...

My girlfriend and I don't have many friends, except the casual acquaintences and on top of that, she watches too many Kevin Smith movies.

*sigh*. I'll just have to live through others sexually gratifying lives here on the forum...

07-26-2003, 03:11 PM	#41 (permalink)
Patrenka Upright Location: Florida	My hubby and i had a 3some. it was great. we had talked about it beforehand just in case the opportunity ever presented itself. she and i got things started while he watched. when he joined in, i wasn't as jealous as i thought i might be. i even motioned for him to join me eating. he did. i still stuck to my rule of him penetrating me, not her and he didn't have a problem with it. i sure had to do some sweet talking and coaxing to get her pants off, though. Now, i know what you guys go through. __________________ "Whatever, I can do what I want!

08-10-2003, 04:21 PM	#50 (permalink)
jadedgrin Psycho Location: eh	alright well this advice comes late but you should know that even if you cant penetrate the other woman (because you set up a rule with your gilrfriend) id be carefull with not lending enough attension to each, and be asolutly sure they are comfortable with oneanother because if they arent then they are just going to look at you for pleasure and remain indifferent of oneanother (althoug they might not say it out load) anyway, wish i was you whenever it happens have fun!! __________________ what puts a smile on your face??

08-10-2003, 11:49 PM	#52 (permalink)
JStrider Poo-tee-weet? Location: The Woodlands, TX	arie and i are lookin into this a lil... letting the 2 girls do it by themselves a couple times... just to get them past the awkwardness of a new activity... but i dunno if i would be comfortable with them completely alone... i could watch tho __________________ -=JStrider=- ~Clatto Verata Nicto

08-17-2003, 09:43 AM	#61 (permalink)
sonikeko What the HELL? Location: Bowling Green, OH	You have gone where few men have gone before...and where most have only dreamed of. Congrats __________________ "Adolescence is short, maturity is forever"

08-17-2003, 07:18 PM	#62 (permalink)
raeanna74 I'm not a blonde! I'm knot! I'm knot! I'm knot! Location: Upper Michigan	Personally I would prefer not being alone with the other girl my first time. I've done this numerous times before and it was/is easier to enjoy with a man/men around to play too. It's gets you past the same gender thing that you've been programmed to think is wierd. It's more fun with a guy around because you can show off for him/them - I enjoy that part almost as much as being with the woman. I wouldn't say it's necessary to give the girls a chance alone. I would suggest that you make sure you let the girls lead and tell them they are in the lead. It will make them just a little more confident about doing things new to them and all of you. Good luck. I know your in for a treat. __________________ "Always learn the rules so that you can break them properly." Dalai Lama My Karma just ran over your Dogma.

07-26-2003, 03:54 PM	#42 (permalink)
shannon Psycho Location: Canada	firstly, congrats for sure. secondly, have you seen chasing amy? the speech that alyssa gives near the end of the movie brings up some of the possible issues after a threesome. it made me think. i don't know if you'd even want to think about it if it could make you think twice about things, but if you were looking for something to give you like the warnings side of things.... plus it's a damn good movie. kevin smith is an amazing guy.

07-26-2003, 06:20 PM	#43 (permalink)
PartyN Tilted Location: Ohio	Anybody who would agree to a threesome, would probably agree to taping it too. Set up the video cam and you can relive the moment after the 3rd party is long gone.

07-26-2003, 07:31 PM	#44 (permalink)
NotMinus Guest	your a lucky man.

07-26-2003, 08:42 PM	#45 (permalink)
gozlanfrog Upright	I hate you. :-D

07-26-2003, 09:34 PM	#46 (permalink)
smithja0423 Guest	All i can say is good luck and be absolutely sure you've discussed EVERYTHING beforehand. Obey your rules and everything should be fine.

08-09-2003, 07:35 AM	#48 (permalink)
skysooner Registered User Location: Oklahoma	Hopefully this turned out okay for you. Sometimes the reality is less than the anticipation you have built up in your head, but other times it can lead to some really fun times.

08-09-2003, 08:00 AM	#49 (permalink)
lusipher Upright Location: florida	ive never figured out if its better to have the other woman a close friend of one of you, or for her to almost be a stranger. i think it would be better if she was more of a stranger or aquaintence,then if things get messed up, there can be some distance between the couple and the problem. not to mention having it the other way your gambling with something precious... a frienship!

08-10-2003, 07:22 PM	#51 (permalink)
MacGnG Know Where!	wow! have fun, be safe

08-11-2003, 12:02 AM	#53 (permalink)
macmanmike6100 High Honorary Junkie Location: Tri-state.	good luck, I'm sure you'll have fun. details would be excellent for those of us who have not been so blessed :-) (and so I could convince my girl to try?)

08-11-2003, 10:23 AM	#54 (permalink)
air45 Loser Location: Midwest	this is premium for you! i am wishing for two vaginas for you today, with your swollen member needing to satisfy! perhaps you make bring them both orgasm? they would like this for sure!

08-16-2003, 01:56 AM	#57 (permalink)
Splice Crazy	Yeah, lucky man!

08-11-2003, 12:22 PM	#55 (permalink)
Ace_O_Spades The Death Card Location: EH!?!?	I have returned i came, i saw, i had a threesome it was definitely awesome! We agreed beforehand that I wouldnt penetrate the other girl, but during the act, the other girl wanted to watch me and my girlfriend having sex... so i wasnt gonna complain about it! Everything turned out great, taking everything out before hand was definitely a major bonus. The girl lives on the other side of the province from us... so its not like things are even gonna be weird we all agreed we wanted to try it again sometime.. perhaps even videotaped! i love my life

08-11-2003, 01:03 PM	#56 (permalink)
^dude Insane	Lucky you, and at least its with another girl, instead of another guy.

08-16-2003, 07:33 AM	#58 (permalink)
Bamrak Enter Title Here Location: Tennessee	Nice work Ace, Glad everything went well!

08-16-2003, 11:23 AM	#59 (permalink)
Gooddoggy62 Upright Location: Iowa	Beware of how it will effect your relationship with your gf in the long run. Ok, that's from the old guy in me. Go for it! Don't look back and never regret it, it will be awesome!

08-17-2003, 07:17 AM	#60 (permalink)
rockbehemoth Junkie	Ace, my best advice (coming from someone who's had that fantasy fulfilled) is this: If you love your girlfriend and think you might take things to the next step... then really reconsider doing it. Chicks get jealous REAL easy. During the threesome they size themselves up against the other chick (breast size, waistline, hair, etc.) and that can make them feel really insecure. After I had one (which was a lot of fun, mind you), my then-girlfriend got really jealous and kept asking me if I was interested in the other girl. Although the act was a lot of fun, I don't look back and feel that my life is any better because I did it. So, losing your girlfriend over something that won't mean anything later on might not be worth it to you. I now firmly believe in "love the one you're with." Go carefully, and weigh all your options.

08-17-2003, 09:09 PM	#63 (permalink)
water_boy1999 Fly em straight! Location: Above and Beyond	Congrats....I am still waiting for a threesome.....I would prefer two girls I don't know very well as I don't have a GF....by choice.... I think the reprocussions of doing it with someone I am with would be too much in the long run. __________________ Doh!!!! -Homer Simpson

08-17-2003, 10:54 PM	#64 (permalink)
joesmith Tilted Location: toronto	I'm not sure if its every mans dream - at least not forever - i had one, when i was about 20 - it was really incredible, and both the grls stayed as roomies for a few weeks... But now, given the choice, i'd much rather go one on one with someone i really know - the intensity can't be matched - a threesome for me, though grat, now feels too much like juggling, for what i like in the bedroom

08-18-2003, 03:37 AM	#65 (permalink)
Ithaca_5Lb. Upright	Yeah my girl encourages Threesomes, if she's comfortable with it it's totaly healthy and something cool to talk about when you're hung over the next day.

08-18-2003, 10:00 PM	#66 (permalink)
snicka Crazy	All I can say is DAAAAMNNNNNN YOOUUUUUUUU!!!!!! (i am jealous)

08-19-2003, 01:11 PM	#67 (permalink)
cherylcannady Upright Location: Central Wis.	Mr.S and I have talked at length about having threesomes. Before he and I started dating, I considered myself a lesbian. And I'll admit, there are days when I really want my face between a girl's legs. Lucky me, Mr.S gets really turned on by this idea (go figure). His fantasy, and I share it, is to have me eatin' at the Y and him behind me, watching and fucking. I have no problems watching him fuck another girl. I'd like to help him pleasure her. We're going to wait awhile before setting this up. Maybe in a year or two. We're having way too much fun on our own right now. __________________ ~I wonder who I am today. Any ideas?

08-19-2003, 01:24 PM	#68 (permalink)
jojoojeyjojo Upright	Lol, that is a good question to switch when switching girls, I know most guys wouldnt care, and would say no, some guys, would say uhhh hell yah cause the third "newer" girl if a stranger could be well, not as clean as one said "steady" girl, but then again you might know the "new one" quite well.... jeez, I guess if you were going by the "book" you would have to switch

08-19-2003, 05:57 PM	#69 (permalink)
viveleroi0 Psycho Location: Oregon	oh man... hard on growing just thinking how lucky you are __________________ "It's not that I don't understand, it's that I don't care" - Homer Simpson

08-20-2003, 10:16 AM	#70 (permalink)
Lizziethedragon Banned	It is a mine field to say the least. First one I was involved with, the other girl started coming on to me afterwards and my girl friend didn't dig that too much, to say the least. End result, end of relationship. The second one was with a casual friend (read fuck buddy) and her roommate. Of course it helped that the two of them were already sleeping together. That one was fun and I look back on it with teary eyes of loss

08-20-2003, 12:23 PM	#71 (permalink)
virus Tilted Location: NYC	yeah, i think i like the second example. i think if i were going to do it, i'd prefer to do it NOT with my girlfriend.

08-20-2003, 01:17 PM	#72 (permalink)
sltkr2000 Upright	come one every one it is just a threesome, i had a relationship for 3 1/2 yrs with 2 bi-girls.. i ejaculated 3-4 times every night we sleep together... the view of a woman taking you rod, out of the other so dhe would give you a BJ and put back in is unforgetable.. they even made thier own collection of videos of us doing it around the house, on ehting forshure, if you are going to have threesome with you gf and another woman, keep in mind that she is the center of attention.. as long as she feels that she is in the center of your attention, looking in her eyes more the other girl as you haveing sex, even keep your hand on her while haveing sex with the other, would make her know that no matter how many women is your bed, she will always be your favorite.. luky me, they where already living together as lovers before i become thier bf.. however, because they very sexually active. when there is aday go by that we do not have sex or oral at all. I call it a ejaculation day off..lol

08-20-2003, 03:18 PM	#73 (permalink)
quantumburnz Tilted Location: Tucson, AZ	sltkr2000, sounds like you had it pretty good. nice find. As for Ace, I'm glad ya had fun, hope your relationship still works out with that girl, and I'm off to find me 2 bi girls! __________________ University of Arizona Tucson, AZ Computer Engineering

08-21-2003, 07:20 PM	#74 (permalink)
krd913 Crazy	we do want details we do want details

08-23-2003, 08:46 AM	#75 (permalink)
macmanmike6100 High Honorary Junkie Location: Tri-state.	sltkr2000, you rock, I need a couple bi-girls. ace, great work man! Glad you had a good time, and that's great to hear that it went well. Lucky you.

08-24-2003, 07:34 AM	#76 (permalink)
goobster Insane	Good luck. Make sure you post how it turned out......

08-24-2003, 10:55 AM	#77 (permalink)
Begora21 Insane	good luck ... hope you discussed all the ramifications of it, like some of the things Alyssa mentioned at the end of Chasing Amy...