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WellBehaved · 06-15-2011, 07:25 AM

Hello all!

I have been involved in BDSM for quite a few years now, however I have never had any experience with butt plugs.

My new Owner likes me wearing them during the day which is an idea I love. However I am really unsure how to get started. I have purchased the stainless steel Njoy ones from puckerup.com but still have a couple of questions.

For long term wear in the day- is it best to relube frequently or are things usually pretty ok after the inital lube and insert? Also, should the curve of the plug be up like a hill curve or down, like a bowl curve? I have heard it can be worn both ways during sex but for long term wear during the day if there is a 'right' way obviously that would be my preference

Many thanks!

Kookookachoo · 06-15-2011, 07:42 AM

I would suggest you not go with ss unless it's really small, but instead with something that can mold to your shape since you're wearing it for a long time.

Poetry · 06-15-2011, 10:32 AM

I've worn the stainless steel for decently long periods of time, and just to go out dancing at clubs. I've never had to relube. Point them upwards, not down-- it seems uncomfortable (at least to me) otherwise.

Really, I prefer the stainless steel. Adjusts to your body temperature easily, and you never quite forget that it's there... but it's not uncomfortable. The little handles on the end are amazingly great.

Also, tip: always keep a ziploc baggy with gloves and extra lube in your purse. If you need to take it out for the day, it's an easy container. If you need to put it back in, you don't want the scent getting all over your hands.

06-15-2011, 07:25 AM	#1 (permalink)
WellBehaved Upright	New to anal plugs Hello all! I have been involved in BDSM for quite a few years now, however I have never had any experience with butt plugs. My new Owner likes me wearing them during the day which is an idea I love. However I am really unsure how to get started. I have purchased the stainless steel Njoy ones from puckerup.com but still have a couple of questions. For long term wear in the day- is it best to relube frequently or are things usually pretty ok after the inital lube and insert? Also, should the curve of the plug be up like a hill curve or down, like a bowl curve? I have heard it can be worn both ways during sex but for long term wear during the day if there is a 'right' way obviously that would be my preference Many thanks!

06-15-2011, 10:32 AM	#3 (permalink)
Poetry Crazy Location: Los Angeles, CA	I've worn the stainless steel for decently long periods of time, and just to go out dancing at clubs. I've never had to relube. Point them upwards, not down-- it seems uncomfortable (at least to me) otherwise. Really, I prefer the stainless steel. Adjusts to your body temperature easily, and you never quite forget that it's there... but it's not uncomfortable. The little handles on the end are amazingly great. Also, tip: always keep a ziploc baggy with gloves and extra lube in your purse. If you need to take it out for the day, it's an easy container. If you need to put it back in, you don't want the scent getting all over your hands. __________________ "You know what? Fuck the moon! He controls our water and our women. I've had enough!"

06-15-2011, 07:42 AM	#2 (permalink)
Kookookachoo Banned Location: Chicago	I would suggest you not go with ss unless it's really small, but instead with something that can mold to your shape since you're wearing it for a long time.