Andrew

What's the allure of cyber sex? I hear it is relatively common, but it always seemed rather lame to myself. Do any adults actually practice this, or does it remain the domain of teenage boys?

Btw, this wasn't meant to offend. I only posted this after reading a previous thread.

Spinach_Indeed

It seemed really simulating and interesting when I was 12. But then again, at the time, so did Shiney Metal Objects and Pauly Shore movies.

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bermuDa

yeah I have to admit I did it a couple times when I first discovered chat rooms... it's good practice for aspiring porn novelists

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hambone

I always thought this was pretty lame too. I guess it's just a personal preference thing though

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NetterButter

back in the day, when i actually couldn't find the porn, i would make it, with my keyboard and my fingers...when i was 15. now i know too much. haha.

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mew

I honestly thought it was cheesy and pretty hilariouse when I first discovered cyber..but I got into it..pretty deep (ha) actually. I had stopped ~ 4 years ago after my first bf and it still seems a little corny to me, but when i get into it its not that bad..You get to know what that person is thinking when you do something and you get open feedback as to what your doing or they are doing to you..that you wouldnt normally do or be in a situation with other people in real life.
I learned everything i know about sex from cybering and meeting with people..when i think back...wow..lol i knew Nothing..and i also met some great honest people that i still talk to 7 years later after first meeting them..

Halx

I posted this in Artelevision's journal entry about the same subject...

There are 2 kinds of cyber sex.

1) Basicly the kind that you see all the time in those AOL logs that end up as jokes all over the internet:

Joe: I am touching your breasts
Jane: oh that feels good, harder!

2) This is like #1, but it's more involved and like role-playing. It's written out like a screen play where every action and reaction is described by the two participants.

* Risker slowly touches his tongue to the heated skin of your stomach. His breath slowly cools the wet trail that he leaves behind as he trails downward.
* Laesia inhales sharply, shivering as the sensations overwhelm her. She places her hand on the back of your head, caressing softly, gently guiding you lower.

For a couple years, I was hooked on #2, it boosted my writing ability and I was able to create great imagery for my partner. It's not necessarily jack-off material unless you make it so. I always did mock #1 though... it was too simplistic for me.

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NetterButter

ahhh, memories...

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Halx

*Hal swaggers up to NetterButter with a cheesey grin on his face.

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NetterButter

::blushes::

no, stop. hahaha.

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Halx

Yeah I just broke one of my own rules and hijacked a thread.. whoops.

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Gman

I played around with it for a while myself. But I was a #1 kind of guy. It never really did anything for me, so I just ended up turning into one of those little pricks who lie about everything and mess with people. 13 was a prickish year for me

bondagegirl

hehe Spinach you went through that same phase too? Wow what are the odds?


mm gotta love those shiny metal objects!

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smithja0423

As described by hal, #2 can be a great way to express your fantasies that you don't typicaly act out in real life. I don't believe in the "it's cheating" school of thought either. It can also improve your real sex life by loosening your inhibitions that are already wired into your head. As a TFP'r who I can't remember once said "Who cares were you get your appetite as long as you're eating at home?"

LordEden

I tried the whole cyber thing back when I was young, but after that it wasn't that big for me, just lost it's glammor, but hey if it gets you off, it gets you off.

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Drider_it

ahh but with broadband.. cant you now cyber with webcams 1 on 1?

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MacGnG

as mentioned above, it's not "oh yea fuck me"

its like those trashy romance novels chicks read but better so guys like it ...to put it simply

stilted

hmmmm i always use to screw around with people then tell them i was a guy

crow_daw

Like some of the rest of you, I tried it a few times when I first discovered the internet. And now, I can't even imagine doing that, I just feel so damn stupid.

And btw, its Hal's #1 that I used to do.

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tisonlyi

The best porn I've ever used has been the written word.

Nancy Friday Books, the sort of stuff.

The mind is the largest, some might say only - but that's getting a bit deep, sex organ in the body... the creative use of fuel for the imagination has supplied me with some of my best self loving sessions...



Cyberring is a mood thing, sometimes it can work, but for me, most of the time it doesn't.

People are generally dull and unimaginative.

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Eviltree

I think this was designed for #1 and comedic purposes. Its kind of goofy, but if some people like it; fine by me.

oscar0308

yup.. that makes things incredibly different. i will be forced to admit that i engaged in this once in a while..... but it was with my wife. well, she wasnt my wife then and we were about 500 miles apart for about a month at a time and it was pure hell. the funniest part was that when we first met she told me that no way in hell would she ever do anything like that. i guess those months apart can change your perception of what is appealing and what isnt. the other thing was it never felt like cyber, we actually felt close to each other when we did anything.

ok.. i think i've said enough.

/me runs away.

kundalini

Hi. Titty Board refugee here.

I have a cybergirlfriend I met on a board where we've both posted for a couple years now. We're both married. We set up our own private message board and cyber with mics and Web cam. It gets pretty hot because we're totally into each other.

It's no substitute for the real thing, but it's waaaay better than other cyber.

Wombat

I think I was always too paranoid that the person on the other end could be a dirty old man or something.

micah67

Isn't it hard to type with one hand?

Seriously, though... I've never cyber'd and I don't know if it's something where you get off then and there (in which case the question stands). I can imagine it being much different with sound/audio. With text, though, it seems like it would be delayed gratification.

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I was in my dorm and a friend of mine (a girl) IM'd me on MSN. We exchanged helo's and "fuck off bitch"s but soon after we bagan to talk like normal texan folk.

After awhile she said "i'm bored" so I said "that sounds like a problem" or something just as inconsiderate.

THAT is when she did <i>it</i>

She started to talk <i>dirty</i> to my over the internet. After about 5 messages from her and zero responses from me I had to end the madness and my disgust.

I told her to pick up shop and handle her erotic jazz elsewhere (or: [with] someone else). She didn't understand why I was so bothered by this.

Thing is, she was only a 30 second walk from my room so her IM'ing me with that not only digusted me, but I felt insulted -seeing as how she could've easily just walked to my room to get some ... satisfaction.

Now, I can look back on that situation and laugh [at her].

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Dobby The House

When i first got into cyber i was old enough to be a #2 man from the start,and i made some really good friends that way
throughout the years.
still am friends with a couple of them which i phone occasionally.
adding the webcam and phone intensifies it but its the talking afterward that makes it worth more than the cheap or lame thrill some believe it is.

if i had it to do over again i wouldnt change a word stutter or frame rate drop.


it was worth every minute.

slimshaydee

Ive never been a fan of cybering, I just think it is the biggest load of crap & is only done by those people who generally dont get any in real life.

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mmjau

doing it with some random person doesn't make much sense to me, although me and my GF who lives in another country usually get to typing some stuff when there's no phone avaible

blade02

Sounds to me like you were supposed to invite her over.

I've done it before im a #2 guy myself.....it passes time and having 3 or 4 girls always waiting for you to tell them stuff is kinda cool. But I have a g/f now, so I havent done that in awhile.

skysooner

I have done it just to pass the time sometimes. I am partial to the literary style of cyber rather than the other. Mainly I'm just into talking about what turns us on as it just increases my libido for my SO.

asshopo

HAHAHAHA, I was thinking JUST that! Add on a mic + speakers and you don't even need the damn keyboard :-D

Edit:

Or headphones.. dont want the neighbors to think that you would be weird ;-)

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iamjero

Cybering in the chat rooms was the first thing I did on the internet. I was pretty young, but I have to admit last year I was working a job and had a lot of spare time so I started hitting up a web site called the craigslist. They had a personls section with a lot of people looking to mess around. I kinda experimented with the kind of people I could talk to. I met some really freaky girls and guys for that matter. I liked it beacuse you can get girls to lose a lot of the nhibitions that they would normally have in real life.

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prince_albert

Somone here posted a link about electro-stimulation, I went there and I was surprised when I heard about devices that can be controled remotely by a computer, the best Cyber every!

I'v never try though, I dont really like the idea of cyber, I wouldn't know what to say!

Tuffy_McGee

I think everyone who says she's 19 is a 45 year old homosexual man.

Yes, everyone!

btw, I'm speaking from inexperience.

Scorpion23

Does anyone here know of a good video software package?
My gf and I are at college, although about 600 mi. apart. Her school blocks the video portion of netmeeting for some reason so i'm looking for an alternative. Preferably high-quality video too.

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strcrssd

To quote a friend:

The internet: Where the men are men, the women are men, and the girls are FBI agents.

In seriousness, I used to cyber a bit...I still wouldn't mind doing so, if it was with someone which I had an emotional attachment....there are a few out there

Otherwise, I'd prefer to read good stories, of which there are an abundance.

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