Girl wants to go slow, yet i had phone sex several times
 

Well its been 1 week and 3 days and I had 5 days in a row of phone sex with this virgin girl and I am a virgin too. anyways, we like each other very fast and she said i love you to me first on the third day. And on the 5th day me and her are bf & gf and the phone sex came along as well. I give her new picture of me and she gives me old pics of her and wrote i am her girl on few old pictures of her.

And today she didn't talk to me much and i sang to her too to see what she say and no answer for 3 hours. so I called her no pick up left a message how i was concerned how she took the time to dress cute and take a new picture over 2 months or at least a month and its for him of missing her bestie and no new picture of me. :confused: :sad: what about me? where my new picture, she even called me a pevert to ask one b4 she did that new pic. and i asked on the 6th day. :(

I even asked how was my singing and she told me what she was going to take a shower. I siad what? her: shower. Then I said: nvm I'll shutup....I suck at singing and I am here waiting for you until your done showering.

only a few times she called me pet names and 1 week and 2 days she keep saying i love you and i siad it back and during the time i even said it b4 she said it.

We never met in person other then high school. which was awhile...like maybe 4-5 years haven't seen each other.

what you guys think?? Maybe i am over reacting or what?

i think she doesnt like you. if she can say she loves you within 3 days she can just as quick change her mind about it. it also seems she finds you to be a little overwhelming maybe. just relax the phone calls and if she doesnt call you back just leave her alone. shes not worth it.

You're young, inexperienced, and naive. Haven't seen her in person in 4-5 years, you said you loved her after having phone sex three times, and now you're a couple after 5? That's not how adult relationships tend to work. Get out there and meet some people who live near you instead of dwelling on some girl from high school.

What makes you think she wants to go slow when it sounds like she doesn't want to go at all?

she 18 and i am 21 so yeah....and she lives near me too in a city 45 min by car and she's moves soon back to my city even before we got together. just adding a little more info.

You didn't read this the first time. Maybe you will now. MSD gave you some good advice.

QFT.

maybe it's just me, but even if you were Frank Sinatra I don't think I'd want you to be singing to me within the first week. it's just off-putting.

Listen to the people. It's likely that this is not the beginning of the love of your life so take it easy.

It's hard, though. I know. Sometimes you just feel swept along.

What do I think?
This isn't worth spending time worrying over. There is nothing substantial happening here. She likely doesn't place the same value on the words "I love you" as you do. I recall once telling a male friend that I love him in passing once and it had an entirely different impact on him than I anticipated. I meant it more along the lines of "i love your sense of humor." He took it as "I want to be your exclusive special friend." The experience made me more careful with the phrase.