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Plan9 10-26-2010 04:37 AM

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MSD 10-28-2010 07:06 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by tasineah (Post 2833710)
it amazes me how much concern there is with body contact.

I am so fluid with my sexuality. If I couldnt sleep in a bed with a representative member of a group I could/would/did have sex with, I would be sleeping on the floor all the time.

Or they would since I am the lady.

But then some of them are as well, regardless of their gender.

I read where many of you are fine sleeping in bed with another man...but only as long as no body contact is made.

God forbid body contact is made.

Comfort of any kind could be misconstrued as homo-sex-ual-it-y....

and even in its weakest expression, its still sickening to hear being said out loud...

like a dirty little secret that is still thought of as perfectly acceptable...

I think this internalized homophobia that exists in our culture and is amplified far heavier amongst the male population is deadly to male homosexuals and bisexuals, intesexed folks and FtMs and MtFs. They are all potential preys to the heterosexual predator who feels threatened by the prey's mere existance in their territory. So they seek to kill them off.

For spooning them in in their sleep. A subconscious behavior someone might make while asleep.

I think most men would not kill anyone for accidentally spooning someone in their sleep. I do think someone might beat them up. Call them names. Degrade them. Make them feel bad.

there are many ways to die.

One way is to be gay in america and to face ritualistic insults on a daily basis for being the man you are.

the man you are.

the man you are.

yes, the man you are.

I have fucked straight men, gay men (yes they fuck women too), bisexual men.

they are all men.

holding them

doesnt make you gay

anymore than me fucking them

made me a gay man

it just made us

more accepting of them

and allowed us to be

better uses....

if you call "no homo" first, you're in the clear.

Plan9 10-28-2010 09:22 PM

*rimshot*

cdwonderful 10-29-2010 06:02 AM

and the spotlight fades......

Cimarron29414 10-29-2010 06:09 AM

It always fascinates me which threads gain legs. I wouldn't have thought this was a two-pager.

John3303 10-29-2010 09:55 AM

Nothing wrong with two men sharing a bed together
 
and there is nothing wrong with two horny straight men getting each other off while sharing the bed together.

I am straight, my friend is straight and when we were on a long hunting trip together, we gave each other mutually satisfying blowjobs. It did not change our sexuality...we are now both married with children. At the time, we were both 23.

If two young straight women can get each other off and be viewed in a positive light, why not two straight men that just happen to be horny?

Plan9 10-29-2010 10:03 AM

Dude, I was just kidding in post #5.

The_Jazz 10-29-2010 11:34 AM

John3303, that makes you bisexual, or at least bi-curious. I know labels are imperfect, but the straight your talking about only exists in gay porn.

Cimarron29414 10-29-2010 11:44 AM

Andrew Dice Clay regarding homosexuality: You either suck dick, or you do not suck dick.

Did anyone else hear Willie Nelson playing while reading tasineah's post: To all the girls I've loved before. No offense to you, tasineah, it just popped in there and it's so obscure I wondered if I was alone.

Brad1989 11-01-2010 01:55 PM

Look! They ones that worry about it might be bi and in the closet. There is nothing wrong with it. My buddies and I share hotel rooms 2 times a year when we go to Vegas and most of us sleep naked. ITS NOT GAY! Having sex with the guy is!!!

Charlatan 11-01-2010 04:04 PM

John 3303 is also describing Brokeback Mountain... (duh).

It's amazing to me that some men (boys?) are so insecure that this is even an issue that needs discussing.

John3303 11-02-2010 01:31 PM

I disagree. I would say that I am bi if were more than those few times. It has been years and I have not been aching to suck a dick. So no, I would not even call myself bi. I was just horny at the time when I was young. How do you label that? It was bi or gay act but today I am not bi or gay.

Ok, now did i confuse everyone? LOL

Cimarron29414 11-02-2010 01:37 PM

John,

I've been around guys on a trip. I've been really horny for a general lack of sex. That has never compelled me to suck a dick. Sorry, man....er, not that there's anything wrong with that. It is what it is.

Charlatan 11-02-2010 03:46 PM

John... that's the behaviour of a bi-sexual person. You are fine having sex with either gender. You may not wish to fall in love with anyone other than a woman but that just means you are in a different place on the sexuality spectrum. It's no big deal, but I wouldn't call you straight.

Tully Mars 11-02-2010 03:52 PM

Yeah going to have to go with the crowd here. I spent 4yrs in the Navy, lots of horney time alone with no one around but other dudes. Not once did I think "hey, giving or recieving head from another guy would cure this case of the "gotta have its."

I think you fall into the Bi category. Of course that's a big category and where you are in it is debatable.

tasineah 11-02-2010 04:50 PM

if John did not further engage in any other male to male sexual activity, I would chalk this hunting experience up to sexual experimentation. Many people do this at different times in their lives. If however, there were more experiences, then perhaps he needs to revisit his sexuality orientation.

I am not your typical woman. I do not call myself bisexual even tho I have enjoyably had sex with males and females. Bi implies two genders and I know there are more than two genders and I have slept with many of them. I am pansexual. But, until CD, I labeled myself as a lesbian because that is who I pursued. I did not pursue men. CD just fell into my lap, so to speak. Thankfully so.


And I have had sex with women who did not ID as bi or lesbian. They were "curious". What they really wanted was kinky sex and when I figured that out, I stopped topping those girls because if they just wanted a performance, I was going to get paid for it, not be someone's chemistry experiment. I can kink with the best of them but its with who I am engaging with on other levels....

im2smrt4u 11-02-2010 07:35 PM

Labels suck. Sexuality is a continuum. That being said, most guys wouldn't even go there...

Straight is a label that wouldn't really apply in John's case. Not that it really matters, but yea...

John: don't sweat it. Enjoy your experimentation, but consider your motivation. There are other ways to get off without involving the other guy. There must be some curiosity there. Nothing wrong with that.

DRP976 11-16-2010 09:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by chelle21689 (Post 2829393)
In cases where if there were 4 guys and only 2 beds in a hotel room. You can't afford your own room, there's an uncomfortable couch or no couch, you know...cases like that. Do you consider it gay? I don't but it seems like a lot of guys are freaked out by the idea.

I dont see a problem, i wouldnt prefer it but i could manage if its due to the situation like you described above. I would just make sure he stays on his side of the bed and ill stay on mine...maybe put a division/barrier in the form of pillows & blanket.

John3303 11-18-2010 07:57 AM

Just to clear the air. I only want sex with women. After all those years gone by after my sex with my friend, I do not desire to have sex with men. I do not fantasize about men.

I am with Tasineah and I just think that I was super horny which I was and I would call it sexual experimentation. At the time, I had occasional dick sucking fantasies when I saw a big cock whether it was in the gym showers or elsewhere. I satisfied my curiosity with my friend and realized afterward that I was still into women. The encounters did not cause me to become attracted to men and it did not cause me to crave dick.

If society says that I am bi because I tried it a long time ago, well then label me bi. Who cares ......LOL

Plan9 11-18-2010 08:10 AM

Obviously you care, since you've made it a point to mention it no less than 3 times in the last hour. It's okay, bro. Nobody is judging you.

Cimarron29414 11-18-2010 08:29 AM

He doth protest too much...err, not that there's anything wrong with that.

Lighten up John3303, we don't care where your mouth has been. :)


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