Everyone has responded with great suggestions and ideas. Thank you. Does anyone ever take their word on being tested and clean or do you ask to see their "hall pass"?

I always just ask "So you're clean right? I mean like STDs? No offense just checking. I'm clean." Gone over well so far. I take their word for it. If I can't trust that I wouldn't be sleeping with them (or I'd just use a condom if it was a fling).

It was ex Mrs Pan's idea and "demand", so I took the test and never asked her to, nor expected her to take it. She was the first one to ever ask/demand and I respected her wishes at that time, for no other reason than I truly believed I loved her at that time.

There should be an app for this.