I never got into anal, I had a gf BEG me to fuck her in the ass, but I tried it once and didn't like it, haven't done it sense. Just not a turn on for me to be putting my dick where her last meal is going to come out...

Olive oil, eh?

I've never tried that as a lube, but I might have a go...

Would that be Virgin or Extra Virgin?

Sorry, couldn't resist.

Nova_Dust,
STD issues aside, if you relied on your cum as lube, wouldn't that be a little late? what would be acting as lube until you unloaded yourself in her ass?

Thank you, folks! He'll be here all week. Tip your waitresses and don't forget to try the veal!

olive oil - well, it ended up once being used as as an all-over lube once for 3 people and I guess, by proxy, it ended up serving as a lube for other things that happened along the way. What did strike me, though, as being very cool about olive oil was how much heat seemed to be generated between bodies when everyone was covered in it. Others' skin almost felt hot to the touch - it definitely added to the experience.

Or, umm *cough*so I heard*cough*

So, that'll be EXTRA Virgin then I take it?

Oh no, stop me, stop me please... It'll just run and run...

Like... *struggles to restrain self on the keyboard*

Control yourself tissy baby, control yourself...

i hadnt really thought of it but if she wants to i wouldnt say no

for me, the behind area is not for my stiff member.

when i am thinking of what leaves that area, i do not wish to enter for i may have an encounter!

this would not be superior, especially when mixed with the olive oil.

My SO used to let me do it. But then through casual conversation w/friends, etc, she learned that doing it anal was "in the bad place". After that, no more for me, regardless of how uch I have tried to convince her. But, not a big deal for me...

Not only did the thought cross me about eating my girl out, but also the thought of doing anal sex drives me crazy! ..
We've talked about it, and we consider trying it .. we've been together for some time now, so i know i feel ready to take the step to try it ..

I have tired it with 2 GFs and for one, she loved to be lightly dominated and it just kinda fit with the fantasy one day, for the other, over time of licking, fingering, and rubbing, she found out that she liked the feeling of things being there. From that to full on anal sex was easy =)

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Anal sex is a sensitive subject. Some girls love it some don't. Thank god mine does

my fiance wanted to have sex once while she was on her period, so we decided to have anal sex. Needless to say it was great.

i like it :)

the time has to be rite - i've gotta be in the right mood, and of course my butt has to also be cooperative...

;)

I've tried to start slowly a couple times with my so, but so far have been rebuffed at every opportunity. Usually I try slipping a finger in there only to hear something along the lines of "no" so I take it out and don't go back. One time she initiated a session saying she wanted to put me in every hole she had, but after the usual two, she came and that was the end of it. Nothing since. I think one day we'll get there.

if that is truly one of HER desires, then yes, you will. just be patient. no pressure, just careful, loving encouragement.

try going for anal pleasure without ANY possible pressure of anal sex...may be a good approach in your situation.

:)

My wife wanted to on our honeymoon (12 years ago). We tried, but she was too exicited, and we didn't lube up well enough. We have been trying on and off for the last 12 years, and this year finally made it in without hurting her too much. Used lots of lube and a condom. She loved it. I love her ass too, and have been kissing and fingering it a lot since we got married. I guess it helped her learn to relax.

I have read that the spoon position is the best to start at. More control for her, without you having to read her on how deep is okay. She has to be in control. You won't know when she is hurting.

Edited. Too much information.

the first time my x/gf and i had anal, she flat out demanded it. It kinda freaked me out at the time.

Tried it. Without any lubricants but taking it slow and steady... No bleeding or other problems yet. Strangely, I'm under the impression that my gf likes it (even) more than I do.

See the video tape: "Nina Hartley's guide to Anal Sex"
http://www.blowfish.com/s/r?p=v-phe-1007

or the book: "The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex For Women"
http://www.blowfish.com/s/r?p=b-cls-1729

Oscar I believe that technique is called "Cunnilingual Drift". I've used it myself in the past. Course with the facial hair I usually get the response of "That tickles"...

/sigh

Thanks for all the advice guys. I've tried anal a couple times, and now I am more informed :) YAY.