sex with self is better than sex with partner!
 

usually have better sex when masturbate than with partner - self sex is sensual, involves lot of interesting fantasy - regular partner sex has become routine - any ideas!?

Get another partner

well - yes sex with new lovers is more fun - but in a serious relationship

Ok....
i don't know what kind of fantasies you have but you can always try to "fulfill' your fantasies with your partner.

3 pieces of advice:

1 - Try avoiding masturbating for an extended period of time before having sex with a partner. The relief of finally having sex will make up for some of it.

2 - You know how you tick, if you don't enjoy the adventure of your partner figuring out how you tick, don't be afraid to show them.

3 - Sex can be a very mental thing. Getting yourself in the right frame of mind is important. Setting up the situation with your lover can be key to having more enjoyable sex.

Same here, buddy. I too prefer masturbating than having sex with my (a bit obese) girlfriend. A trick I learned over time: masturbate as part of the sex act. It's like sex for her, and fun for you.

Same for me Bubkin!
That is why i suggested him to invite his friend to our bedroom, nonsuccess :\

This thread is going to the third circle of hell.

That is a very special hell.

It's reserved for child molesters.

And people who talk in movie theaters!

All the above depends what kind of partner you have !

OP, I had same ATTITUDE some time back. But now things have changed due to lot of OPEN COMMUNICATION. Now sex with self and her is equally good

I'll take making love with my wife over masturbation anytime.

And we've been married for over 22 years.

1. Thou shall not quote Firefly in Tilted Sexuality.

Do her sister.

Or her mother.

What excites you most during masturbation? Any particular ideas, images, or fantasies? Could those be implemented through sex with your partner? If not, why?

Also, are you experiencing relationship problems outside of the bedroom?

i would love to have a 3some with her - with another guy - love to have her suck me - while he slides his cock inside her pussy - but have problems talking her into it.

Often fantasise she is sucking me - while he is sliding his cock into her pussy - just above my head while I masturbate! - yum, that makes me cum!!