Lucid dream... or not.
 

Howdy folks,

I've an interesting situation, and would like a bit of guidance from the TFP community.

How the situation arose may or may not be important, but I'll leave that out for now. I was involved with a girl for a couple of months earlier this year. We are no longer sexually/romantically involved, but she's ended up living with me for the last six weeks or so. We share a king size bed, and she has a habit of sleeping in nothing but one of my undershirts (ahh... going to sleep is an excercise in self control...)

In any case, I need to determine what something actually happened last night, or if it was merely a lucid dream. I woke (or dreamt that I woke) with her pulling my head between her legs with her feet (she has done this in the past...). I went down on her until she came, then we both went back to sleep. So here I sit, wondering if this actually happened, or if it was merely a dream. The only way to find out would be to ask... so the question is, should I risk making her feel very uncomfortable to satisfy my curiousity in this matter?

I'd say ask her. You were sexually involved for a while, and she is sleeping in nothing but in undershirt, in your bed, she is obviously pretty comfortable around you anyway. You may not want to put it blunty though, ask if anything has happened between you two, or something in a beating around the bush manner.

Dude:
Just tell her "I had a dream about you last night." Then wink. If it happened, she'll let you know.

Bob

If you can't tell between reality and a dream, you could be very stoned and if you were, I wanna try some of that stuff, too.

Bob's got the answer on this one....mention you had a wild, vivid "dream" about her....you'll get the answer soon enough! Hey...and if you're lucky - it'll be a recurring dream! :D

Something I have to ask: Have either of you been in a relationship with anyone else since you and her stopped dating?

The more I think of it, the more it turns me on...

Sleep with a woman who dress in practically nothing and you guys are not doing it. I don't care how big the fucking bed is, unless you guys are covered in a different blanket, you are bound to touch one another at some point.

It is way too attempting... oooohhhh the temptation.........

Well, did you wake up looking like a glazed dounut? Chances are you did the deed.

lol.. usually you can tell if you're dreaming.. even if it is Lucid.. but you were dreaming about reality.. mine are mostly fantasy dreams.. and like everyone says ask her.. you'll either get a strange look or a wink back.. hehe :D

i almost never remember dreams when i wake up. my girlfriend thinks i'm dreaming about other people because i never tell her my dreams, she doesn't believe i never can. however, i did once have a dream that seemed so real i remembered every detail after and until i talked to my girlfriend about it i wasn't sure if it happened or not.

i would recommend you just ask her straight out. like someone said, she's obviously comfortable with you.

Spoke to her about it last night... her answer was "I will neither confirm nor deny that the event took place", followed by a little giggle.

In other news, we stayed up until 3:00 last night talking about everything and nothing at all... woke up this morning with her curled up against me. Would seem that things are moving back towards relationship territory.

How cool, and I really mean it.

Yeah that rocks dude, good luck

That means it did happen.

Even if it was just a dream, it's still really cool. All of my recurring dreams involve me getting hit by a car.

"Even if it was just a dream, it's still really cool. All of my recurring dreams involve me getting hit by a car."

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHHAHAAHHAHA

If that's true, then I apologize.

anywho, back to the thread, good luck with the byrd.