I choose to believe that porn bares not relation to any sort of reality.

As I've said before, if all participants in a given activity are in on it and into it, then go for it. pretty much regardless of the activity.

as for the OP: it's easier with friends, if you have an open-minded friend. approaching people at bars is hard; approaching them at parties is easier. Just ease into it and let her make the suggestion first so the other she isn't scared off.

Not all unicorns are created equal.

Here is the gem in this thread, guys.

We make things so complicated sometimes. :)

...because human beings are the raw materials here and we all know how homogenous they are, right?

I'm not sure what you are trying to communicate here other than sarcasm. :) Can you explain in different words?

um, it's easier to take a bunch of amorphous material and turn it into a blob and then fuck it than it is to convince a woman and her friends to gang bang you because the clay is susceptible to the one-size-fits-all approach and the woman and her friends aren't.

hey, looks like your tag and my avatar are the same. hooray for individual creativity

That'll work.