Plan9

Dude, how do people from our generation know that saying?

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Whatever you can carry.

"You should not drink... and bake."

Janie

If men do it, why not women?

Sounds like she has a kink. I doubt that by sitting down and having a chat she will magically stop being turned on by your smells. Or by smelling guys and their underwear in general.

But you said that wasn't the main issue. IMO, sharing homemade porn and your underwear without your knowledge and consent is not cool. That is where the communication needs to begin. Also, I think you should have discussed this with your g/f before speaking with her friend.

That said, considering your level of discomfort with the situation, I would end it.

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