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I notice that many TFP ladies are not shy about admitting to girl/girl experiences, but I don't remember seeing many guys admitting to same sex activity. Come on guys, why leave it all to the ladies? Have you done anything like this? If so, what?

For myself, I consider myself straight but I do enjoy sucking a nice long cock occasionally and I do swallow.

Xerxys

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Strange Famous

personally no

But its an interesting point. Women will freely admit (or invent) intimate ecounters or attrctivenesswith other women, while I think most heterosexual men still find the concept of any kind of relations with another man somehow disgraceful.

Even girls who are completely straight are usually comfortable to say other women are attractive, but men usually arent comfortable to say another man is handsome.

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Plan9

I was so tempted to say, "Yes! Yes, I've done it! I've poked a badger with a spoon!"

Title was gnarly. But then I saw the man-on-man action of the OP post.

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Society is not as cool with man-on-man as woman-on-woman.

As far as most of American society is concerned:

You can still be a woman and kiss a girl.

You can't be A Man and touch another guy.

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'Sides, men are ugly. Who wants to fuck that?

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FuglyStick

You are one sexy mofo strange.

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Strange Famous

There is something to that. I dont consider myself homophobic. My mother is a lesbian and I dont hate her... but if my girlfriend admitted in the past she had kissed another girl the idea would probably turn me on. If I told her I once kissed a man, I doubt she'd feel the same way.

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Xerxys

No, I don't think it has anything to do with society. I remember an IRC chat by another TFP'er where he deepthroated a dildo (True or False, I dunno) on a dare by the GF and the girl was weirded out by it. I think it's a filter that's just "there". Men are ugly, as mentioned, (Cept strange, of course) and serve no purpose to furthering the eye candy that women require to induce hornyness, so to speak.

Willravel

There's nothing wrong with being bisexual. Would it make you uncomfortable to consider yourself bi-curious?

And no, I've never been sexually attracted to a man before.

snowy

Hey now, I think some women (myself included) find man on man hot. If we didn't, why is slash/yaoi fanfiction so popular? Seriously.

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wooÐs

In due time, it will be just as acceptable... I mean, 'taboo'... as girl on girl.

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Vigilante

I can't believe the conservative guy here has done more than the liberals. Oh wait....preacher's daughter principle may apply

I was in college once. I did it. It was great, but seeing a guy afterwards took the afterglow right out of the picture. Had it been a transsexual I would have felt fine, but as soon as he left I took a long shower. As it stands I have zero attraction to men and will not do that again, but I can say I tried it.

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Wyodiver33

To each their own. Whatever gets you through the night. I don't judge, and I don't care. People are people.

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YellowBird

I don't find guy on guy in the least bit arousing. And with out being judgmental (people can do what they want behind closed doors and it doesnt bother me) but I find it kinda gross.

I find women so much more attractive physically. men are wonderful but i'm very rarely physically attracted to them. the male body seems kind of dull. women have curves.

and i really really dont understand the appeal of Japanese guy on guy porn. it weirds me out. anyone care to explain? is it just a matter of some people like this porn and others like that or is there something i'm missing?

Redlemon

Nothing since 3rd grade, and that was just touching, so I don't think that counts for anything except "playing doctor". And my marriage is non-sharing, so it ain't gonna happen. I don't have a desire to try, but if for some reason it was important or necessary to have sex with a man, I don't think I would have a problem with it.

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Xerxys

Asian porn is what it is. There is no "understanding" of porn because it appeals to the part of the brain you only let out whilst alone. Short answer, you either get it or you don't.

dlish

never. wouldnt think it in the slightest.

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ShaniFaye

I thought I smelled an Eddie Izzard quote in the room

I find guy/guy hot, very hot, very very very hot

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SecretMethod70

It's not a matter of being prude or anything like that, I simply have absolutely zero interest in men. I'm perfectly comfortable recognizing when a man is attractive - for example, dlish is one sexy beast - but that doesn't even remotely translate to wanting physical contact. Recognizing beauty isn't necessarily related to physical attraction. After all, I don't want to fuck flowers.

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Plan9

*pulls his dick out of the tailpipe of Lasereth's Evo*

Wait, what?

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GreyWolf

Closest I ever came was when a guy kissed me full on the lips (no tongue!). And he was drunk. I'm not homophobic, like most guys here, I'm just absolutely not in the slightest attracted to men. But that's understandable... women are incredibly sexy ... men just aren't And we thank God every day most women don't seem to realise that

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Toaster126

You can say you are straight but that would be inaccurate based on what you just typed.

Men.

Personally, I'm straight. The kind where penii don't go in me.

I don't have anything against same-sex relations that I don't have against the different-sex ones. I feel flattered when a guy hits on me, but I'd rather have a girl do it. And boys can't touch me just like girls I don't like can't.

That's more the biological stuff though. I think the interesting part of this is actually attraction from a mental state. I've known a couple of guys that I would have had very different relationships with had we been opposite sexes.

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Daniel_

Hearing this sort of thing more widely would go a long way to getting many guys to admit that they have considered the idea, and not totally rejected it, should the right circumstance "come up"...

Kinsey showed that sexuality is scalar, not binary, and I think that many people posting here would be in the middle of the Kinsey Scale, rather than hard up against one end (as it were).

I refuse to fuck and evil giraffe though (unless you lend me some steps).

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Xerxys

Bastard.

I've been hit on by dudes before, I let one of them buy me drinks. I never thought anything of it just as bashfully as women let men buy them drinks then act all scandalized when you ask them for their number.

Interestingly enough I haven't gone further than that. And I consider myself very open minded. It's just not happening and never will. So I personally reject the Kinsey approach on sex.

SecretMethod70

Kinsey was a smart dude... doesn't mean he was entirely correct though. His research was very likely influenced by his own bisexual tendencies, just like Freud's theories were significantly influenced by his own family issues.

I don't buy that the only reason men seem less interested in same-sex encounters is that they're less comfortable admitting it. TFP is one place I'd feel comfortable admitting it, and I suspect that is the case for many here. If nothing else, we could post anonymously if we wanted to contribute to this thread but keep our identity secret. Instead, even here, many men are just simply not interested in same-sex encounters whatsoever. Not in a homophobic way either, just a "sorry, it doesn't turn me on" kind of way.

No doubt about it, there are bisexual men out there. From what I've seen, though, I'm pretty confident that female sexuality is simply more fluid than male sexuality.

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RetroGunslinger

I feel comfortable saying other men are handsome or attractive, but I don't feel sexually attracted to them. Except for David Bowie. But that doesn't count.

In all seriousness though, I'm of the opinion that it's simply something society has deemed taboo on account of simple sexism. Anything homosexual is still relatively frowned upon, but as society has evolved it has become more accepting of the lesser sex taking part. Once things move further along, I'm sure it will become less of an issue.

However, I got a 71 on my last psychology test, so what the fuck do I know?

And no, I've never done anything with a guy.

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im2smrt4u

But why is that? Is it due to social convention? I think that is where the real discussion lies.

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SecretMethod70

I don't really think it's mainly due to social convention: even among people who are otherwise willing to go against the grain of society, there is still a lower incidence of bisexuality among men from what I've seen.

There was an interesting study done on male bisexual response a few years back, which this article describes along with some countering criticism. I don't buy into the idea that there's no such thing a a male bisexual any more than I buy into the idea that we're all a little bit bisexual. I do think, broadly speaking, that sexuality is a bit more innately social for females which does lead to a more fluid attraction. Of course, this is mostly speculation on my part, so I reserve the right to be proven wrong

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dlish

i fell in love with your rocky horror tranny outfit. i'd so totally do you Slinger

sorry smeth, but i do share.

on a serious note, i agree with smeth. there's no reason why men cant find other men attractive without having some sort of emotional feelings towards them. just because i find a male attractive doesnt mean i want to plug his bumhole.

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curiousbear

For me recognizing handsome-ness and/or getting inspired by seeing a six-pack is totally possible
But anything more than that is a turn off... I dont know whether it is personal or social - but that is how it is
Even in straight porn if the focus is more on the man (men) I find it repulsive

Toaster126

Most studies done on the matter seem to indicate that female sexuality is more fluid than male sexuality; most males are at one end of the scale, and most of the rest are on the polar opposite with very few between.

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Daniel_

Correlation is not causation.

The thing that interests me is not is there an observable polarity to male sexuality, but WHY is there an observable polarity to male sexuality?

The gay men I know would be scandalised if one of their cohort fucked a girl, for example, whilst the lesbians I know are more understanding of a lesbian having an affair with a man.

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Vigilante

Even after my own experience, I am the same way. I just see nothing attractive about a guy.

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curiousbear

However I have an exception. The male parts on some transgender who look perfect dont bother me. I find them very attractive.

MrFriendly

Ah yes, the male sexuality. Something I've struggled with for a bit myself.

I would agree with others that there is a noticeable polarity in male sexuality in western culture. I personally believe it is cultural. I've been in social circles where male sexuality has been just a fluid as the females. Let's look at the Spartans, man love was a pretty big feature of their culture.

I personally have had sexual experiences with men. Only a couple. Unfortunately because I was so awkward about my own sexuality at the time I found those experiences to be awkward also. I have no fear telling people that I'm bi curious now. Some men I find sexually attractive, others I'm very emotionally attracted to. However, those men are few and far between and on the whole I am far more emotionally and physically attracted to women.

I long ago accept I have a gay side to me, and TFP really helped me to articulate it a while ago. If a person came into my life that I fell in love with and I wanted to be with them for the rest of my life, I would have no problem if that person happened to be a man. But what I refuse to do is change who I am to fit into any idea of what a gay or straight man should be. I have absolutely no problem with gays or gay culture, but to be honest the whole camp thing isn't my cup of chai and gay culture even less so. I have no problem with straight men, but the emerging 'bloke' culture that seems to become more prevalent in Australia drives me up the fucking wall.

It's dream I'll never see, but one day I'd love to see people just be who they are and accept others as they are. Though I think the Sun will be nothing more than the solid carbon remnants of a white dwarf before that happens.

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SecretMethod70

The lesbians you know are unusual. It's getting better, but bisexuality is generally frowned upon by the homosexual community, whether it's male or female.

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Vigilante

That's the mindset I try to take. I hang with rednecks and gay friends alike.

Yes, there is that. That has a different category in my brain.

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Halx

I've tried sex with another guy and was not into it at all. I've had oral sex performed on me by a man, but did not get aroused. Conclusion? Not for me.

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Shunyata34

I have never been attracted to men, but for some reason I think good looking transgender women are hot. But I have no actual experience with one.

Vigilante

I'm gonna try to talk my wife into that one day. Would be a helluva lot of fun! I'll have to get her liquored up first

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