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starbum 07-04-2003 09:34 AM

This is just embarassing.
 
I cant keep it hard. Im not old or anything with issues with getting a hard on, but I just cant maintain it sometimes. Well, sometimes as in.... when I have sex a certain way. And its the most basic of positions...missionary. I mean I can keep it hard and its all great in every position I've tried.... but missionary just makes it go *poof*. Its not that im not turned on...im incredibly horny when I go missionary. I just dont know whats making it go limp. Is it because I have to use my muscles to thrust and stuff? Am I concenrating too hard? The fact that my gf doesnt want to have her breasts showing when we have sex? (she's incredibly self-concious.... ungh. Im trying to work at least the breasts during sex part out. I mean, comon.... eye candy... I am so turned on when I get to watch her ride me or do things to me, I just love watching the act. Whatever it is. (not watching others do it to her, mind you... No. No. Never.))

Im ranting. Sorry. What are some recommendations? Not doing that position? Spicing it up? New technique?

Anyone else have this problem?

sbscout 07-04-2003 09:39 AM

try starting with another position and "switch" into missionary...

could be you're trying too hard...

some positions just aren't as satisfying as others...

whatever you do, don't stop "practicing"

starbum 07-04-2003 09:44 AM

Well what we usually do is start with girl-on-top and then switch to whatever. When she's on top is the best position so far, its just the reverse...

dudemac 07-04-2003 09:52 AM

so she does not want to have her breasts showing during sex? Are the lights off too?

My Totally untrained and un professiona thoughts here, i would say its effecting you by her not being open. Just my psyc 101 there :)

How about some lingrie that is sheer and you can see thru it?

flamingpeach 07-04-2003 10:03 AM

I use to be the same way with my breasts, it took me quite awhile to realize that the person i was with liked my body and liked my breasts, and I had no reason to be self concious.

As for your problem, I don't know what to say except maybe see a doctor about it, so it doesn't turn into a larger problem.

Derwood 07-05-2003 09:57 AM

My feeling would be that if she is not able to show you her breasts, then she is probably not ready for sex either. Not to tell you what to do or anything....

nitrorclover 07-05-2003 05:15 PM

Sounds like just a preference issue. I just to go almost limp when she was on top of me, but then when I went to missionary it was great! Just do whatever suits you best.

GoldenOuroboros 07-06-2003 02:02 PM

Stop concentrating and just do it :cool: If you're thinking about doin a million other things while having sex.. it aint gonna work

rodimus 07-06-2003 07:18 PM

don't think about it so much. the problem could be all in your head. no pun intended. if you need help, they do make pills for that

isandro 07-07-2003 12:15 PM

Could it be a self fulfilling prophecy?
I mean, that as soon as you shift in that position, you get scared to lose the beef, while normally you'd be too busy enjoying yourself?

Nova_Dust 07-07-2003 12:18 PM

It has to go limp at some point. I mean, you can't stay hard 24/7...

So, I say it is mostly a psychological thing then physical. You think too much.

07-07-2003 01:27 PM

Sounds way more psychological, but it's nothing that the little blue pill can't take care of. (if you're willing to speak to your GP)

GSRIDER 07-08-2003 08:21 AM

Are you wanking it a bit too much?.... sometimes with all the cyber visual stimuli its hard to keep that same drive when yer with a girl... especially if she is not.. as you say... showing you the candy. Then you start wondering why and now you've forgotten all about sex and you are slowly "deflating".

but thats just my opinion

Mondak 07-12-2003 02:39 PM

Grab soome little blue pills off the internet and try them out. The way I figure it, you can use them for a little while and build up your confidence. You won't have to concentrate so hard and then you will just stop thinking about it. Then you can wean yourself off the pills.

They are not addictive per se - it is just that you will like haveing a hunk of marble between your legs.


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