69, but which way
 

ok, i have never really had a serious girlfriend and only a handful of "one-nigthers" and so haven't had much of a chance to muck around and try lots of different things, but i was just wondering which way would you normally perform a 69, out of curiosity.

girl top, boy bottom
boy top, girl bottom
or maybe even on your sides.

which is more comfortable or beneficial, for both parites? or your experiences with this position.

I prefer to be on top.
Oh and I am female btw :)

Sideways on tends to make my neck stiff. lol.

I prefer the woman to be on top (I like the weight of her sitting on my face) but I'll do it whichever way happens to be what is working at the moment...

It isn't always about planning. Sex is messy (well it is if it's good).

Even though it really doesn't matter.
I find that women tend to be on top because men weigh more,
and it might be more uncomfortable for the lady.

However, as I say, anything goes.
As long as it feels good, and BOTH people are enjoying themselves.

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Makes no difference to me. On-our-sides does hurt the neck after a while. And I think she'd feel more in control being on top.

I like being on top. And I am a female.

Woman on top, less chance of thrusting down her throat :)

I prefer to be on top, I can concentrate on my task more ;)

oh, and I'm female... :)

I'm usually on top of my wife, then switching. The 69 only starts if she wants, as in me going down from the top but my bottom half to the side, and if she wants to perform on me, then simply pushes me in the right direction.

I prefer to be on bottom.

put her on top. :)

I prefer girl on top... but you can always roll around and switch...

d: )

Start girl on top - then see what feels most comfortable for both of you. :)

Actually it is more comfortable for the women to be on top, better for her neck. Remember always think about the womens well being......VERY IMPORTANT...and if your not sure ask them, I do and thats why I consider myself the best male lesbian around:D

I've tried all... and they all really just depend on who wants to be on top (sides is good... but can be a little cumbersome...)

You two are very cute. :) I've only tried girl on top, but enjoyed it considerably. ;)

All of the above. Lady on top is definatly the easiest way to go about it, but there is something porn star like about being on your side. It's also really easy to move around and get access to other interesting parts.

My little lady also enjoys being, um, used, for lack of a better word, so if your companion is into this, male on top lets you control everything, just don't choke her (unless she's into that)

Lady on top is definitely more comfortable and more enjoyable - guy on top gets a bit tiring - you need to thrust as it is harder for her to move her head - also, they often bend it downwards to get the right angle going...which can get annoying.

When the girl is on top they are in control and the view is so much nicer!!!

female on top

I can go either way but I love to stare at the pussy while I eat it. It makes the process that much fun. And also, I think it makes sense to suck the penis from top rather then shove it down your throat.

Side ways, well, that's for the stoners who feel like sleeping while eating each other out.

Girl on top

Definitely girl on top - plus helps sort out height differences!

I've found girl on top works best

girlies on top is better if you want a good blow job. if we're on our back, we're not moving our head much, seein' as it's pretty well pinned under your balls, and how weird is it to have someone's nutsack hanging on your forehead, anyway? ;)

Lady on top works best for us, because she has control of her movements and there's less risk of choking her. She can take as little or as much as need be. All you need is some neck support (if you're in it for the long haul) and the two of you are set.

Girl on top is definitely the easiest way to go about it- most comfortable for both

hahaa, so true! :)

i agree totally btw.

girl on top, otherwise you shove it down ger throat.

Girl on top is the best way to go. Otherwise you may be tempted to give the female the dreaded "ROMAN HELMET".

Roman Helmet-Nuts in her eyes, and penis on her nose making it look like she is wearing a .... you guessed it.. Roman Helmet.

Girl on top is better for a few reasons....

1. she can control how much of your cock to take in her mouth.
2. makes it easier for you to slide her head up and down your shaft.
3. gives you a nice pair of cheeks to hold on to, smack (or do whatever else to)

But they are all great and lots of fun, play around and see what works best for you. Even if it's uncomfortable for you at first keep at it and who knows it may work after you're both settled in.

Tried it standing with a short girl once....I was holding her upside down. Very interesting position, but it got tiring pretty quickly.

I agree with BigJayz cause he cant suffocate you if your under him and you get a nice momentum..but I hate the fact that his nose is like right infront of my ass..its so nasty and i hate the idea that he'll be sniffing..but i do often and properly..but damn its gross..actually anyone has advice for this problem except 69 on the sides...cause you dont get a good bj movement that way for me ne ways.

I usually end up on top, i think it's because she's self conscious about having her ass in my face.... i'm not a big fan of 69 though anyways. she usually has too much trouble concentrating on the blowjob part of it and it just ends up with me going down on her while my dick's all in her face. much better to take turns and do a good job IMO.


edit: haha, didn't realize mew addressed a similar concern to my gf's in the post above me!!!! haha. mew, i'd say don't worry, if he has a problem with having his face near your hiney, he'll avoid doing it that way!!! i know i wish my gf would let that fear go, so we could do it with her on top!!!

I personally don't find that I like one way better than the other. Girl on top seems the most natural and comfortable.

well if your ass is clean there should be no problem with having his nose in your hiney. Hell I enjoy playing with that hole so it makes easier access to it.

I like a guy to be on top! that way he sets the pace and depth !! and i can concentrate on pleasing him!! :)

I've done it all three ways. I enjoy me on top best so I can make sure I don't get a throat full of cock unexpectedly ;)

Definitely woman on top. I'd feel bad about slipping and accidentally giving her a cock-stabbing :). Hadn't considered the side option - might suggest it next time...

I LOVE bein on top. personally, I like the feeling of control, and to say it bluntly... nothing like skullfucking your woman while tossing her salad, and being on top is the SHIZNIT for that. Its hard to get up to toss that salad when she is on top.