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MacGnG · 07-09-2003, 10:25 PM

^^^ lol
hmmm im thinkin about it
i think ill start soon

actionplant · 07-09-2003, 10:47 PM

As far as filling back up...if I have sex when I wake up and then on my lunchbreak, well, it's usually weak on my lunchbreak, but by bedtime that night I'm fully loaded again.

I used to be a roommate with a med student who explained how guys are on cycles, similar to females...except for most guys it runs somewhere around four times a year. I started paying more attention and noticed that indeed, no matter how much action I get, there's usually a two week period every three months or so where I'm rediculously aggressive...I can have sex four times a day and still wank it a couple times in between. Wowzers.

Anyway, I started as of tonight and have been successfully wank-free for almost an hour. I'm thinking I need to go visit my fiancee in the bedroom soon, though. This is gonna be tough...

Valthonis · 07-10-2003, 11:43 AM

I accept your challenge. Good luck to everyone!

rat · 07-10-2003, 11:57 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by phredgreen
let me get this straight... you're sleeping with someone, therefore you <b>must</b> masturbate???

does this make NO sense to anyone else? i'm not asking you not to have sex, in fact i'd rather people be shagging than wanking. maybe i'm misisng something, rat... care to explain?

sorry, hadn't checked the thread in a while.

I'm not saying I must masturbate, just that the cessation of masturbation for me is pointless, as I'm still getting off just about as much as when I do masturbate. The effect on my testosterone levels and such are negligible from what I've found. Now, don't get me wrong, I rarely masturbate at all now, but cutting myself from little to nothing when I'm already sleeping with someone would defeat the purpose for me, as I find it has little effect one way or the other.

Cynthetiq · 07-10-2003, 12:20 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by rat
sorry, hadn't checked the thread in a while.

I'm not saying I must masturbate, just that the cessation of masturbation for me is pointless, as I'm still getting off just about as much as when I do masturbate. The effect on my testosterone levels and such are negligible from what I've found. Now, don't get me wrong, I rarely masturbate at all now, but cutting myself from little to nothing when I'm already sleeping with someone would defeat the purpose for me, as I find it has little effect one way or the other.

okay... so you just spontaneously ejaculate while walking down the street?

-Anders · 07-10-2003, 12:23 PM

Ah well, lost it today

Bonesaw · 07-10-2003, 04:31 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Cynthetiq
okay... so you just spontaneously ejaculate while walking down the street?

That would be the greatest thing in the world. Imagine being at a restaurant and suddenly you just start jizzin' everywhere. Imagine if all men could do that. "Um, Fred don't mind my uncontrolable ejaculate that just landed on your shoulder."

"No worries Bob. I just blew a load all over your lunch."

nicculus · 07-10-2003, 05:18 PM

alright, I'm in just for the sake of the challenge,.. I'm sure that I'll last till Saturday, but beyond that, I'm not sure.

wank free since <b>July 10, 2003</b>

and to think... tomorrow is my birthday...

radonman · 07-10-2003, 08:17 PM

What about us single guys who have no other outlet?

Donkeypuncher · 07-10-2003, 08:56 PM

Ummmmm....... no?

I've got an idea! How about a new partnership where we see how many days in a row we can go w/o missing a wank?!

You people are weird.

daoist · 07-11-2003, 12:47 AM

it's sorta funny and weird at the same time to read all of your signatures and know the last time you all wanked.

fun fact: the last 4 digits of my phone number are WANK.

motdakasha · 07-11-2003, 01:39 AM

i picked a bad time to quit masturbating

i just saw a totally fucking steamy hot movie, Secretary. my boxers are sopping and i am not even confident my current "interest" reciprocates the same feelings... not to mention he is far enough away from where i live that it's also a pain to see each other.

when i'm interested in someone, my sex drive turns into hyperdrive. when i'm not pursuing someone, i'm ice cold which is why the 1+ yrs. i didn't even realize i had gone that long until someone brought up masturbating in a conversation. sigh. but now... now i am "awake"... i want him so bad. right. now. D:

Jesus Malverde · 07-11-2003, 01:45 AM

haha yeah my friends and I held a "whackin" contest also when I was in school, I can't remember who held out from batin' the longest, but I know it wasn't me.

Bonesaw · 07-11-2003, 05:41 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by motdakasha
i picked a bad time to quit masturbating i just saw a totally fucking steamy hot movie, Secretary. my boxers are sopping and i am not even confident my current "interest" reciprocates the same feelings... not to mention he is far enough away from where i live that it's also a pain to see each other. when i'm interested in someone, my sex drive turns into hyperdrive. when i'm not pursuing someone, i'm ice cold which is why the 1+ yrs. i didn't even realize i had gone that long until someone brought up masturbating in a conversation. sigh. but now... now i am "awake"... i want him so bad. right. now. D:

Yeah Secretary is one hell of an erotic movie!

Jim Kata · 07-11-2003, 06:00 AM

Ok this is a bit of a graphic story but I have to tell it with this whole wank free thing.
I started wankin when I was about 13. I wanked at least once every couple of days since. Well one day I was mowing my lawn...got finished and decided to rub one out before taking a shower. Well some how I rubbed the cockler wrong and sort of skinned (chafed) a part of it. Needless to say any friction there was horrible. Anyways...about this time, I started dating my current girlfriend. I was too afraid to show her my cock (luckily she wasn't easy) because of the small rash looking thinymabobber from when I skinned a part of it. Anyhoo, I didn't jerk it for about a month and a half!!!!! Sort of by choice and sort of not by choice.
So finally everything cleared up down there and I was about to get my first blowjob ever. Since I was so built up over the past month and a half I was worried that I would be done in a minute. She put it in her mouth for maybe three seconds and I was done. It was very embarrasing but it was the best orgasm I had had since I first started. Breaks are good, if you can do it.
Damn I was nervous that I was in actuality a minute man...but luckily..I'm more of a 2 minute man.

autiger · 07-11-2003, 10:35 AM

I'm in Jerry! I just hope there's no chick undressing behind the curtain beside my mom's hospital bed. Or a couple getting it on in the loft across the street (wasn't that what was going on across from Jerry's flat - that made Kramer lose the bet?).

Anyway, this should be interesting...

Jack Ruby · 07-11-2003, 10:41 AM

Well I'd like to, but you'd have to shut down the Titty Board first. It's just too tempting, dammit.

Jack Ruby · 07-11-2003, 10:44 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Jim Kata
She put it in her mouth for maybe three seconds and I was done.

I'm having the exact opposite. I love my gf, seXor is great but I have great difficulty coming without jerking off. This is what 10 years of excessive masturbation will do to you.

Donkeypuncher · 07-11-2003, 11:40 AM

Quote:

I've got an idea! How about a new partnership where we see how many days in a row we can go w/o missing a wank?!

WOO! Day one, mission accomplished. GF says she wants to watch me do it tonight - says it turns her on. She usually gets herself off while I do that for her. oh, darn. Try not climbing all over each other after *that*

So I guess that'll be twice in one day, but there's no extra credit for multiples iterations in one day in my partnership, so I'll have to do it again tomorrow anyway.

I'm SO broken up about this...

oblar · 07-11-2003, 12:13 PM

well, i made my week goal with a day to spare... i think i am going to up the ante and go a month..

to tell you the truth.. the week didnt seem that bad.. I didn't even really think about it, but it is usually that I think about sex more the more i masturbate, so when I quit, I really don't notice..

that is part of the reason I have gone 4-7 months without any wanking or play of any sort.. I just don't notice.

oh well, 1 month here i come!

Jesus Malverde · 07-11-2003, 01:50 PM

Haha Jack Ruby, I can't come from a blowjob either, I have to jerk it because of my "past."

motdakasha · 07-11-2003, 01:56 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Jack Ruby
I'm having the exact opposite. I love my gf, seXor is great but I have great difficulty coming without jerking off. This is what 10 years of excessive masturbation will do to you.

I don't mean to sound insulting, but perhaps the way you two do things now aren't the best/optimal for you to come... maybe try new stuff?

spent1 · 07-11-2003, 06:39 PM

I hear exactly what your saying phedgreen. It's not so much the excessive masturbation that's the problem, It's the hour or so lost searching for the "Wankable porn" . What you think is going to be a two minute activity after arriving home from a long day at the office spirals into a time eating struggle to find asuitable girl who enables you to conjure a viable scenario and finish off the messy business. (especially with my shoddy dial up connection)

I do kick boxing training four times a week and the weeks when I abstain and fill the "Tank" up I think I notice an increase in mental and physical stamina. (kick boxing takes a reasonable amount of mental stamina if your un coordinated and have to think where your bloody arms and legs are going all the time).

Bring on the wank free challenge.

big_bubba · 07-11-2003, 11:03 PM

Count me in. I haven't already in the past 3 days..... so July 9th I guess.

Magpie0001 · 07-12-2003, 03:25 AM

But, but, but....
Its gonna be tough Im sure. I sometimes spank the monkey 3 or 4 times a day. My G/F is away so nookie is out of the equasion too. I always find that if i havent choked the chicken for a few days that I cant concentrate on anything else. Ive rarely/never gone more than a month. Shit, this is gonna be tough.

Well here goes.

Bonesaw · 07-12-2003, 06:04 AM

Well I lasted for 7 days. Time to start over.

webfiend · 07-12-2003, 07:17 AM

Okay, folks. I guess I might as well mention that phredgreen seems to have bumped into a very old and (I think) very effective approach to male sexuality. See, dirty old Taoist men came to the conclusion that guys are all Yang when it comes to sex, while women are Yin. This means the boys expend energy when they orgasm, the girls gain energy. They're ready to work, clean, talk, or (gasp) keep having more sex. We're ready to sleep. Or work. Or go fishing. Anything but keep having more sex. Not right away, at least. Younger guys will have to take my word on this. It becomes an issue later, although not as dramatic an issue as I'm making out here

The Taoists noticed that since we're expending energy, we boys are in danger of killing ourselves if we have too many orgasms. Not necessarily "death by ejaculation", mind you. But they felt that we would die younger, have less energy, and generally be difficult to be around because we'll get old and wonder why we don't have as much Yang to spend as we did when we were younger.

Their solution? Eat right, exercise regularly, and have lots of sex. Just don't ... you know ... oh, how can I put this delicately?

Don't come so damn often!

We generally think of ejaculation as orgasm. That release of energy is so overwhelming that we forget about the few seconds right before ejaculation. Those few seconds (where we start whimpering and occasionally calling out names) are, according to the dirty old Taoist men, the actual orgasm. At that point, you're super-charged, energized, and feel just about ready to take on the world. Then you slide into ejaculation, which, let's face it, feels really good too. It's a loud bang, and all of that energy you had built up a second ago is forced out with a rush. But, you know, after that is a nap. Or crankiness. Or maybe just a few moments where you're catching your breath and kinda wondering what happened.

The dirty old Taoist men think of that few seconds right before as orgasm, and figured out ways to extend it. So you end up with a long Yen orgasm like the girls get, where you are ready for anything after sex except maybe a nap. More sex, for example. Plus it's less messy. Mind you, you can still ejaculate when you want to, but you don't need to do so in order to reach orgasm, and you don't need to ejaculate every time you have sex.

There are lots of exercises to make this experience easier to reach. Fun exercises, I might add. The basic one is this: when you masturbate, get yourself as close to the "point of no return" as possible, then stop. Give yourself a few seconds (or just stop and come back to it later). Try to build up the number of times you can reach that point without coming. Enjoy and extend that state of bliss right before. If nothing else, you will get a good awareness of your body

Here's a few books I can highly recommend on the subject:

So, yeah. Have fun. This turned into a really long essay. Sorry about that, but quality of orgasm is something I care very deeply about

holtmate · 07-12-2003, 09:34 AM

All right...I'm in!
I only started wanking off after I had sex for the first time...never really had any desire to do it before that.
I have been trying to cut back, so having a support group like this couldn't hurt. I'm starting tomorrow, though. Already screwed up today.

gxman · 07-12-2003, 01:15 PM

I'm thinking no, just doesn't seem like a good time.

Donkeypuncher · 07-12-2003, 03:22 PM

WOOO! Day 3 of the TFP wank-fest is a roaring success!

Had sex with the GF when we woke up, but she's off doing her thing and I was horny again. I was afraid the morning's activities might have put me off for the day but thankfully, no.

Mael · 07-12-2003, 04:25 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Donkeypuncher
WOOO! Day 3 of the TFP wank-fest is a roaring success!

Had sex with the GF when we woke up, but she's off doing her thing and I was horny again. I was afraid the morning's activities might have put me off for the day but thankfully, no.

if you really want to get everyone going on a wankfest (as opposed to wank free), why not post some nekkid pics of your girl, give us something to "think" about.

Donkeypuncher · 07-12-2003, 06:23 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Mael
if you really want to get everyone going on a wankfest (as opposed to wank free), why not post some nekkid pics of your girl, give us something to "think" about.

Fair enough, but as demonstrative as she is in bed, at Dodger games or at a concert... she's funny about having any pictures of herself "online" for any reason. I will, though, specifically ask her on your behalf and get back to you.

(who needs my help with a wank-fest when the Titty Board just a few clicks away?

)

holtmate · 07-12-2003, 11:05 PM

Now things could get interesting...my g/f and I just had a huge fight, and I think the relationship may be over...but I'm going to try to avoid self gratification, still. This will be a test...

motdakasha · 07-12-2003, 11:46 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by holtmate
Now things could get interesting...my g/f and I just had a huge fight, and I think the relationship may be over...but I'm going to try to avoid self gratification, still. This will be a test...

I hope that if you two are good for each other that things work out. Otherwise, good luck and happy hunting!

Handyman · 07-13-2003, 01:08 AM

Today a young man on acid realized that all matter is merely energy condensed to a slow vibration, that we are all one consciousness experiencing itself subjectively, there is no such thing as death, life is only a dream, and we are the imagination of ourselves. Here's Tom with the weather."
-Bill Hicks

That has got to be one of my favorite songs of all time.

Handyman · 07-13-2003, 01:12 AM

So why is masturbation bad, you ask?

Sex is for procreation only.
Masturbation is unnatural, it leads to homosexuality.
Masturbation is based on lust.
Masturbation is addictive.
Masturbation is a solitary act. Sex is meant for a married man and woman.
Masturbation is a symptom of [spiritual] immaturity.
Masturbation is an impure act.
God watches us all the time. The argument for shame and self-policing.
Masturbate is the unforgivable sin.

Wow. Your life must suck.

Handyman · 07-13-2003, 01:28 AM

i just saw a totally fucking steamy hot movie, Secretary

That was a weird flick. I liked the part where she bends over the desk and he j's/o on her butt.

Handyman · 07-13-2003, 01:37 AM

The basic one is this: when you masturbate, get yourself as close to the "point of no return" as possible, then stop. Give yourself a few seconds (or just stop and come back to it later). Try to build up the number of times you can reach that point without coming. Enjoy and extend that state of bliss right before. If nothing else, you will get a good awareness of your body

Hey that's how Ive done it since I was 10 years old, well ok, maybe it took me til 12 to perfect it.

phredgreen · 07-13-2003, 01:38 AM

handyman: i'm a little dense at times... was that an attempt at sarcasm, or were you serious there?

Handyman · 07-13-2003, 01:48 AM

So why is masturbation bad, you ask?

Sex is for procreation only.
Maybe for you.

Masturbation is unnatural, it leads to homosexuality.
Just about 100% of guys do it, so EHH EHH WRONG.

Masturbation is based on lust.
So is sex between 2 people.

Masturbation is addictive.
So are videogames, sports, and anything else enjoyable.

Masturbation is a solitary act. Sex is meant for a married man and woman.
God forbid you spend time alone. People who fear being alone must hate themselves.

Masturbation is a symptom of [spiritual] immaturity.
How can it have anything to do with spirituality if it's only based on lust? Cant have it both ways.

Masturbation is an impure act.
So is shitting. I wont stop that either.

God watches us all the time.
So he's a voyeur? Does he get hard watching us? Hope he doesnt masturbate, he will become a homosexual.

The argument for shame and self-policing.
Masturbate is the unforgivable sin.
Guess there wont be any guys (or fun girls) in heaven.

07-09-2003, 10:47 PM	#82 (permalink)
actionplant Upright Location: Bismarck, ND	As far as filling back up...if I have sex when I wake up and then on my lunchbreak, well, it's usually weak on my lunchbreak, but by bedtime that night I'm fully loaded again. I used to be a roommate with a med student who explained how guys are on cycles, similar to females...except for most guys it runs somewhere around four times a year. I started paying more attention and noticed that indeed, no matter how much action I get, there's usually a two week period every three months or so where I'm rediculously aggressive...I can have sex four times a day and still wank it a couple times in between. Wowzers. Anyway, I started as of tonight and have been successfully wank-free for almost an hour. I'm thinking I need to go visit my fiancee in the bedroom soon, though. This is gonna be tough... __________________ I can't plug! Huh? Why not?

07-10-2003, 11:43 AM	#83 (permalink)
Valthonis Upright Location: Hartford, CT	I accept your challenge. Good luck to everyone! __________________ -----BEGIN GEEK CODE BLOCK----- Version: 3.12 GAT d-- s+:++ a23 C++++ UL++++ P--- L+++ E--- W+++ N-- w O- M++ V-- PS++ PE- Y++ PGP+++ t* 5+ X R+++ tv b+++ DI++ D- G e* h---- r+++ y++++ ------END GEEK CODE BLOCK------

07-10-2003, 12:23 PM	#86 (permalink)
-Anders Custom title. Location: Denmark.	Ah well, lost it today __________________ Signature 101

07-10-2003, 08:17 PM	#89 (permalink)
radonman Crazy	What about us single guys who have no other outlet? __________________ -radonman

07-10-2003, 08:56 PM	#90 (permalink)
Donkeypuncher Psycho Location: Pasadena, CA	Ummmmm....... no? I've got an idea! How about a new partnership where we see how many days in a row we can go w/o missing a wank?! You people are weird. __________________ "take me down, little Susie, take me down I know you think you're the Queen of The Underground"

07-09-2003, 10:25 PM	#81 (permalink)
MacGnG Know Where!	^^^ lol hmmm im thinkin about it i think ill start soon

07-10-2003, 05:18 PM	#88 (permalink)
nicculus Upright	alright, I'm in just for the sake of the challenge,.. I'm sure that I'll last till Saturday, but beyond that, I'm not sure. wank free since <b>July 10, 2003</b> and to think... tomorrow is my birthday...

07-11-2003, 12:47 AM	#91 (permalink)
daoist Crazy	it's sorta funny and weird at the same time to read all of your signatures and know the last time you all wanked. fun fact: the last 4 digits of my phone number are WANK. __________________ I:IV:XV

07-11-2003, 01:39 AM	#92 (permalink)
motdakasha Hiya Puddin'! Miss me? Location: Silicon Valley, CA	i picked a bad time to quit masturbating i just saw a totally fucking steamy hot movie, Secretary. my boxers are sopping and i am not even confident my current "interest" reciprocates the same feelings... not to mention he is far enough away from where i live that it's also a pain to see each other. when i'm interested in someone, my sex drive turns into hyperdrive. when i'm not pursuing someone, i'm ice cold which is why the 1+ yrs. i didn't even realize i had gone that long until someone brought up masturbating in a conversation. sigh. but now... now i am "awake"... i want him so bad. right. now. D: __________________ =^-^= motdakasha =^-^= Just Google It. BA Psychology & Photography (I'm not going psychoanalyze you nor will I let you cry on my shoulder. Have a nice day.)

07-11-2003, 01:45 AM	#93 (permalink)
Jesus Malverde Psycho Location: Sinaloa, Mexico	haha yeah my friends and I held a "whackin" contest also when I was in school, I can't remember who held out from batin' the longest, but I know it wasn't me. __________________ ...I'm that cat by the bar toasting to the good life...

07-11-2003, 06:00 AM	#95 (permalink)
Jim Kata Swollen Member Location: Northern VA	Ok this is a bit of a graphic story but I have to tell it with this whole wank free thing. I started wankin when I was about 13. I wanked at least once every couple of days since. Well one day I was mowing my lawn...got finished and decided to rub one out before taking a shower. Well some how I rubbed the cockler wrong and sort of skinned (chafed) a part of it. Needless to say any friction there was horrible. Anyways...about this time, I started dating my current girlfriend. I was too afraid to show her my cock (luckily she wasn't easy) because of the small rash looking thinymabobber from when I skinned a part of it. Anyhoo, I didn't jerk it for about a month and a half!!!!! Sort of by choice and sort of not by choice. So finally everything cleared up down there and I was about to get my first blowjob ever. Since I was so built up over the past month and a half I was worried that I would be done in a minute. She put it in her mouth for maybe three seconds and I was done. It was very embarrasing but it was the best orgasm I had had since I first started. Breaks are good, if you can do it. Damn I was nervous that I was in actuality a minute man...but luckily..I'm more of a 2 minute man.

07-11-2003, 10:35 AM	#96 (permalink)
autiger Upright	I'm in Jerry! I just hope there's no chick undressing behind the curtain beside my mom's hospital bed. Or a couple getting it on in the loft across the street (wasn't that what was going on across from Jerry's flat - that made Kramer lose the bet?). Anyway, this should be interesting...

07-11-2003, 10:41 AM	#97 (permalink)
Jack Ruby Psycho Location: Belgium	Well I'd like to, but you'd have to shut down the Titty Board first. It's just too tempting, dammit. __________________ You don't know what you don't know.

07-11-2003, 12:13 PM	#100 (permalink)
oblar Über-Rookie Location: No longer, D.C	well, i made my week goal with a day to spare... i think i am going to up the ante and go a month.. to tell you the truth.. the week didnt seem that bad.. I didn't even really think about it, but it is usually that I think about sex more the more i masturbate, so when I quit, I really don't notice.. that is part of the reason I have gone 4-7 months without any wanking or play of any sort.. I just don't notice. oh well, 1 month here i come! __________________ "All that we can do is just survive. .All that we can do to help ourselves is stay alive." - Rush

07-11-2003, 01:50 PM	#101 (permalink)
Jesus Malverde Psycho Location: Sinaloa, Mexico	Haha Jack Ruby, I can't come from a blowjob either, I have to jerk it because of my "past." __________________ ...I'm that cat by the bar toasting to the good life...

07-11-2003, 06:39 PM	#103 (permalink)
spent1 Upright	I hear exactly what your saying phedgreen. It's not so much the excessive masturbation that's the problem, It's the hour or so lost searching for the "Wankable porn" . What you think is going to be a two minute activity after arriving home from a long day at the office spirals into a time eating struggle to find asuitable girl who enables you to conjure a viable scenario and finish off the messy business. (especially with my shoddy dial up connection) I do kick boxing training four times a week and the weeks when I abstain and fill the "Tank" up I think I notice an increase in mental and physical stamina. (kick boxing takes a reasonable amount of mental stamina if your un coordinated and have to think where your bloody arms and legs are going all the time). Bring on the wank free challenge.

07-11-2003, 11:03 PM	#104 (permalink)
big_bubba Psycho	Count me in. I haven't already in the past 3 days..... so July 9th I guess.

07-12-2003, 03:25 AM	#105 (permalink)
Magpie0001 Nobody Loves Me Location: Irish In Madrid	But, but, but.... Its gonna be tough Im sure. I sometimes spank the monkey 3 or 4 times a day. My G/F is away so nookie is out of the equasion too. I always find that if i havent choked the chicken for a few days that I cant concentrate on anything else. Ive rarely/never gone more than a month. Shit, this is gonna be tough. Well here goes. __________________ Music is my first love & It will be my last.

07-12-2003, 06:04 AM	#106 (permalink)
Bonesaw B3yond! Location: MI	Well I lasted for 7 days. Time to start over. __________________ Q. What is the difference between erotic and kinky? A. Erotic is using a feather... kinky is using the whole chicken.

07-12-2003, 07:17 AM	#107 (permalink)
webfiend Insane Location: Seattle?	Okay, folks. I guess I might as well mention that phredgreen seems to have bumped into a very old and (I think) very effective approach to male sexuality. See, dirty old Taoist men came to the conclusion that guys are all Yang when it comes to sex, while women are Yin. This means the boys expend energy when they orgasm, the girls gain energy. They're ready to work, clean, talk, or (gasp) keep having more sex. We're ready to sleep. Or work. Or go fishing. Anything but keep having more sex. Not right away, at least. Younger guys will have to take my word on this. It becomes an issue later, although not as dramatic an issue as I'm making out here The Taoists noticed that since we're expending energy, we boys are in danger of killing ourselves if we have too many orgasms. Not necessarily "death by ejaculation", mind you. But they felt that we would die younger, have less energy, and generally be difficult to be around because we'll get old and wonder why we don't have as much Yang to spend as we did when we were younger. Their solution? Eat right, exercise regularly, and have lots of sex. Just don't ... you know ... oh, how can I put this delicately? Don't come so damn often! We generally think of ejaculation as orgasm. That release of energy is so overwhelming that we forget about the few seconds right before ejaculation. Those few seconds (where we start whimpering and occasionally calling out names) are, according to the dirty old Taoist men, the actual orgasm. At that point, you're super-charged, energized, and feel just about ready to take on the world. Then you slide into ejaculation, which, let's face it, feels really good too. It's a loud bang, and all of that energy you had built up a second ago is forced out with a rush. But, you know, after that is a nap. Or crankiness. Or maybe just a few moments where you're catching your breath and kinda wondering what happened. The dirty old Taoist men think of that few seconds right before as orgasm, and figured out ways to extend it. So you end up with a long Yen orgasm like the girls get, where you are ready for anything after sex except maybe a nap. More sex, for example. Plus it's less messy. Mind you, you can still ejaculate when you want to, but you don't need to do so in order to reach orgasm, and you don't need to ejaculate every time you have sex. There are lots of exercises to make this experience easier to reach. Fun exercises, I might add. The basic one is this: when you masturbate, get yourself as close to the "point of no return" as possible, then stop. Give yourself a few seconds (or just stop and come back to it later). Try to build up the number of times you can reach that point without coming. Enjoy and extend that state of bliss right before. If nothing else, you will get a good awareness of your body Here's a few books I can highly recommend on the subject: The Multi-Orgasmic Man The Tao of Love and Sex The Tao of the Loving Couple So, yeah. Have fun. This turned into a really long essay. Sorry about that, but quality of orgasm is something I care very deeply about

07-12-2003, 09:34 AM	#108 (permalink)
holtmate Flailing White Boy Location: Cincinnati	All right...I'm in! I only started wanking off after I had sex for the first time...never really had any desire to do it before that. I have been trying to cut back, so having a support group like this couldn't hurt. I'm starting tomorrow, though. Already screwed up today. __________________ "Give her your coat" "Why me?" "Because you're perfect." "You have a point there."

07-12-2003, 01:15 PM	#109 (permalink)
gxman Loser	I'm thinking no, just doesn't seem like a good time.

07-12-2003, 03:22 PM	#110 (permalink)
Donkeypuncher Psycho Location: Pasadena, CA	WOOO! Day 3 of the TFP wank-fest is a roaring success! Had sex with the GF when we woke up, but she's off doing her thing and I was horny again. I was afraid the morning's activities might have put me off for the day but thankfully, no. __________________ "take me down, little Susie, take me down I know you think you're the Queen of The Underground"

07-12-2003, 11:05 PM	#113 (permalink)
holtmate Flailing White Boy Location: Cincinnati	Now things could get interesting...my g/f and I just had a huge fight, and I think the relationship may be over...but I'm going to try to avoid self gratification, still. This will be a test... __________________ "Give her your coat" "Why me?" "Because you're perfect." "You have a point there."

07-13-2003, 01:08 AM	#115 (permalink)
Handyman Loser	Today a young man on acid realized that all matter is merely energy condensed to a slow vibration, that we are all one consciousness experiencing itself subjectively, there is no such thing as death, life is only a dream, and we are the imagination of ourselves. Here's Tom with the weather." -Bill Hicks That has got to be one of my favorite songs of all time.

07-13-2003, 01:12 AM	#116 (permalink)
Handyman Loser	So why is masturbation bad, you ask? Sex is for procreation only. Masturbation is unnatural, it leads to homosexuality. Masturbation is based on lust. Masturbation is addictive. Masturbation is a solitary act. Sex is meant for a married man and woman. Masturbation is a symptom of [spiritual] immaturity. Masturbation is an impure act. God watches us all the time. The argument for shame and self-policing. Masturbate is the unforgivable sin. Wow. Your life must suck.

07-13-2003, 01:28 AM	#117 (permalink)
Handyman Loser	i just saw a totally fucking steamy hot movie, Secretary That was a weird flick. I liked the part where she bends over the desk and he j's/o on her butt.

07-13-2003, 01:37 AM	#118 (permalink)
Handyman Loser	The basic one is this: when you masturbate, get yourself as close to the "point of no return" as possible, then stop. Give yourself a few seconds (or just stop and come back to it later). Try to build up the number of times you can reach that point without coming. Enjoy and extend that state of bliss right before. If nothing else, you will get a good awareness of your body Hey that's how Ive done it since I was 10 years old, well ok, maybe it took me til 12 to perfect it.

07-13-2003, 01:38 AM	#119 (permalink)
phredgreen who? Location: the phoenix metro	handyman: i'm a little dense at times... was that an attempt at sarcasm, or were you serious there? __________________ My country is the world, and my religion is to do good. - Thomas Paine

07-13-2003, 01:48 AM	#120 (permalink)
Handyman Loser	So why is masturbation bad, you ask? Sex is for procreation only. Maybe for you. Masturbation is unnatural, it leads to homosexuality. Just about 100% of guys do it, so EHH EHH WRONG. Masturbation is based on lust. So is sex between 2 people. Masturbation is addictive. So are videogames, sports, and anything else enjoyable. Masturbation is a solitary act. Sex is meant for a married man and woman. God forbid you spend time alone. People who fear being alone must hate themselves. Masturbation is a symptom of [spiritual] immaturity. How can it have anything to do with spirituality if it's only based on lust? Cant have it both ways. Masturbation is an impure act. So is shitting. I wont stop that either. God watches us all the time. So he's a voyeur? Does he get hard watching us? Hope he doesnt masturbate, he will become a homosexual. The argument for shame and self-policing. Masturbate is the unforgivable sin. Guess there wont be any guys (or fun girls) in heaven.