Nipple Stimulation and Orgasm
 

It is virtually impossible for my wife to orgasm during sex or otherwise without nipple stimulation. I am talking about pulling/sucking both of them HARD when she is nearing orgasm. This is not always an easy feat given that she usually needs me on top to O during sex and doesn't usually pull them herself. So how important is nipple stimulation to orgasm for you or your s.o.?

I don't have to always have it to orgasm, but I come a lot easier if my left nipple is sucked on.

Its my right one...left one doesnt do much for me

Try nipple clamps or other objects that could take over the job for you.

Thanks. I have thought about this. But I have to increase intensity from light to very hard as things go along. Seems like the clamps might be too intense right out of the gate and would interupt the progression toward O if I had to put them on later. I'd be curious to see how clamps have worked for others.

You could try putting them on and then tugging them for more intensity.

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You could also get her to pierce her nipples. Then you could hook them up to strings or chains (like a reins on a horse). You can tug on them with greater intensity as she gets closer to finish.

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There you go! :D

Stella likes her nipples stimulated HARD. Hard pinching, real serious biting, etc. It's not a requirement for her to get off, but it's a major help. I've sometimes bit her so hard I'm afraid I'm really hurting her; I find it's best to pay even closer attention than usual to her cues, when I'm doing that. I like to bend down during sex and take one in my mouth, or spoon up behind her with one hand on her clit and the other pinching a nipple. Very good times.

lurkette's nipples, on the other hand, if you look at them too directly, you're pulling her claws out of the ceiling.

My wife very much enjoys nipple stimulation before (sometimes she can orgasm from NS alone) and during sex, but it's not a requiremnet for her to orgasm. She also has no qualms about pulling & pinching them herself, and/or telling me what she wants done.

We use the nipple clamps with the adjusting screws, they can be tightened (or loosened) fairly easily. It's also easy for me to use my hands or mouth to tug on the chain.

Here's something a little weird: As a guy, during certain times, having my left nipple played with can drive me nuts in a good way. Other times, just having it rub against a shirt can drive me nuts in a bad way. Right nipple just does its' job, which is to be there and not cause trouble. Left nipple has always been a love/hate deal with me. Just thought I'd toss that out there.

not a requirement but makes a lot of positive difference

isnt there a sex toy to play on nipples with varying suction intensity?

About once every month my GF will have an orgasm from nipple stimulation only. The orgasm is strong, but she claims she "doesn't like it as much" due to the fact that the pleasure she feels in her pussy while she is climaxing is "weird" :paranoid: