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ASU2003 04-15-2009 04:25 PM

What sexy things do you want your partner to say to you?
 
http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/tilted-...uring-sex.html

There was this discussion a few years ago, but it didn't really get into the details. (There might be another thread that I missed about this topic though)


What I am wondering is, is some of the things said in porn videos the type of thing you say to your partner? Is there something that you love when they say it? Is there anything that your partner doesn't say that you wish they did? Have they ever said anything that offended you?

I would be a pretty tame person by most standards. But, since I don't have a sex life, I think these would be hot.

"You feel so good"
"I want you inside of me"
"Fuck me harder"

At least that is enough to start with, there may be more. ;) (Then again, this is one area that I have major problems with in real life. I don't know what I would say to a girl, and would probably be too embarrassed to say much of anything that might be written here (even if she wanted me to say it) )

FuglyStick 04-15-2009 04:42 PM

"you're bigger than Daddy"
:eek:

Xerxys 04-15-2009 05:17 PM

"Harder bitch"

"you like this? ... You like it when I bite you, like this .........."

"...... say my name .. SAY MY NAME BITCH!!!"

I need to ease off on this type of stuff. It can get outta hand. I however save the freaky-dicky for later, ... much later!!

Shaindra 04-15-2009 05:39 PM

"Now."

That usually works for me.

sourgirl 04-15-2009 08:10 PM

I like it when my partner makes me beg for what I want.

also..
Bend over,
getting a hand clamped over my mouth if I'm too loud and being told to shut up
good girl
being ordered what to do..snap the fingers to emphasize....giggity!

\yes, I'm a submissive...and really like it.

Plan9 04-15-2009 08:31 PM

I like the build-up to the act. As I posted earlier, the frank dirty talk and sultry whispers do more for me than the "Oh, give it to me, big boy... Yeah! Slam me, Ramzilla!" stuff. The fluttering of eyelashes, a raised eyebrow, maybe a flash of some racy lingerie or something unexpected in public. Anticipation, damnit. Tease the throttle on the love machine. Make me work for it and let me do what I want when I get it. Yeaaah. As said in previous "Hot Sex" thread:

Quote:

Originally Posted by Crompsin (Post 2600492)
Hmm, I think the hot-hot sex animal sex, much like the mythical werewolf, only appears when the atmosphere is just right for it to have maximum impact. For me, it often involves being blindsided by a do-it-to-me look from a sultry partner when I'm distracted with something else. It's like getting ambushed by a flank attack initiated by a pants-piercing lust bazooka. It also requires you're alone or near an area where you can have privacy for doing the deed... not too many couples throw down in public.

A good example of this was had at Fort Bragg sometime mid-'05. My platoon had just finished an absolutely awful yet badass field training exercise (cold rain, followed by more cold rain for a week) and we were having a pretty Viking barracks party (beer, grilled meat, someone's car pulled up on the grass blasting music, T-shirts optional) with my then-girlfriend-later-more woman. It doesn't take much for me to get fuzzy, so I was bumping chests and telling tall tales like everybody else after my third Bud Light. Girlfriend was socializing with various half-drunk paratroopers and giving me looks that I couldn't quite decode. This isn't rare... around women, I'm dense like uranium most of the time.

The combination of the booze and the music and a bunch of sweaty guys yelling and telling war stories had her fired up like something off the Discovery Channel. At one point I went over and scooped her up (trying to imitate Godzilla) and she leaned over my shoulder and whispered, "I'm going to need you to take me upstairs and fuck me. Right now." Whew. Yeah, and you'd never seen a half-drunk honky push a girl up two flights narrow concrete stairs as fast in your life. By the time we hit the door, I had a leg snaked around my waist, my shorts undone, and close to working on a boob with my mouth. Luckily I was Corporal Crompsin by then and had a room to myself. There was no conversation, we were a knot of tongue and hip-thrusts and I'm pretty sure that every North Carolina sodomy law was broken in the first iteration alone. I'd like to thank Equate personal lubricant for providing such smooth sailing.

I was made fun of the rest of the week for the screams that emanated from that concrete box. I had scratches on my back and neck like some wildcat had mauled me. It was the kind of sex where you walk funny even after you wake up from your two hour nap.

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Xerxys 04-15-2009 08:34 PM

Ahh yes, cromps brings memories of workplace immobility!! Good times....

sourgirl, welcome to TFP!!!!!

Shaindra 04-15-2009 10:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Crompsin (Post 2624517)
I like the build-up to the act. As I posted earlier, the frank dirty talk and sultry whispers do more for me than the "Oh, give it to me, big boy... Yeah! Slam me, Ramzilla!" stuff. The fluttering of eyelashes, a raised eyebrow, maybe a flash of some racy lingerie or something unexpected in public. Anticipation, damnit. Tease the throttle on the love machine. Make me work for it and let me do what I want when I get it. Yeaaah. As said in previous "Hot Sex" thread:



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Damn it all...Cromp. That posting does it to me every time. Excuse me all, I need a moment...or three.

sourgirl 04-16-2009 04:46 AM

Thanks!

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Xerxys (Post 2624519)
Ahh yes, cromps brings memories of workplace immobility!! Good times....

sourgirl, welcome to TFP!!!!!

Whoops! that was too you..Thanks for the welcome. LOL. Gotta get used to all the different buttons.

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Nevermind..I can't get this right...

Push-Pull 04-16-2009 06:07 AM

Hell, all I want for is my wife to say "yes" when I ask for it.

You'd think it would be that simple, but noooooo.

Plan9 04-16-2009 07:17 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Push-Pull (Post 2624633)
Hell, all I want for is my wife to say "yes" when I ask for it.

You'd think it would be that simple, but noooooo.

I get the feeling this isn't a sexy yes, but just an affirmative.

And that makes me sad. I've been there, though.

Lucifer 04-16-2009 07:30 AM

Usually any combination of the following words does it for me:
God
big
hard
wet
yes
cunt

Strange Famous 04-16-2009 07:55 AM

"... My God, it's the size of a baby's arm..."

Willravel 04-16-2009 08:26 AM

I want you to Spoiler: play my sloppy Spoiler: baseball game with your baseball bat.

You can put your big, throbbing Spoiler: protest wherever you want it.

My Spoiler: garage is so tight, I don't think you're going to fit!

I want you to Spoiler: perform surgery inside me.

:thumbsup:

World's King 04-16-2009 08:35 AM

"I'm gonna do the dishes after this."

bloody_rose20 04-16-2009 08:40 AM

Hmm...well being a sub, I like being told what to do, kind of like, if I whine if something hurts, I like my man to look at me with that look, and either slap me, and or choke and and say "Do as I say." or "Shut up. Stop your whining" lol Thats the rough side of me. The softer side, I like the "That feels good" or "God you feel so good" and I like to know if I need to step up my game any like the "Harder, faster, more" Words lol. Me and my man don't talk too much during sex. I mean, I like a little bit of dirty talking, but its the moaning and other sex noises that I like the best :-)

SabrinaFair 04-16-2009 08:45 AM

"You're so tight/wet/beautiful"
"I love your pussy/cunt/breasts/tits"
"I love being inside you."

And my all-time favorite....
"This is home."

Lucifer 04-16-2009 09:17 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by World's King (Post 2624729)
"I'm gonna do the dishes after this."

:thumbsup:

Shaindra 04-16-2009 10:03 AM

OK, a few that slay me:

"This is my pussy. This is your cock."
"Beg for it."
"I am going to...[fuck you senseless][throw you down and eat you until you scream][make you beg for it]"
"Nom Nom Nom"

"You own me."
"Have I told you lately that you have a magnificent cock?"
"God, you taste good."
"Fuck me now."

And the absolute favorite from both sides?
"Again. Now."

Strange Famous 04-16-2009 12:53 PM

"some snake"

SabrinaFair 04-16-2009 02:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Strange Famous (Post 2624849)
"some snake"

Does this remind anyone else of Charlotte's Web?

eribrav 04-16-2009 02:48 PM

How about "Are those the panties your mother laid out for you?"

sourgirl 04-16-2009 08:05 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by bloody_rose20 (Post 2624735)
Hmm...well being a sub, I like being told what to do, kind of like, if I whine if something hurts, I like my man to look at me with that look, and either slap me, and or choke and and say "Do as I say." or "Shut up. Stop your whining" lol Thats the rough side of me. The softer side, I like the "That feels good" or "God you feel so good" and I like to know if I need to step up my game any like the "Harder, faster, more" Words lol. Me and my man don't talk too much during sex. I mean, I like a little bit of dirty talking, but its the moaning and other sex noises that I like the best :-)

Girl, you are speaking my language.

lostgirl 04-17-2009 11:23 AM

"I'm gonna fuck you"
"You feel so good"
"You like that cock in you"
"This is my pussy"

I say things like:
"I love fucking you"
"Your cock feels so good"
"Fuck me hard"
"Make me take it"
"FUCK ME!"

MSD 04-17-2009 12:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Willravel (Post 2624725)
I want you to Spoiler: play my sloppy Spoiler: baseball game with your baseball bat.

You can put your big, throbbing Spoiler: protest wherever you want it.

My Spoiler: garage is so tight, I don't think you're going to fit!

I want you to Spoiler: perform surgery inside me.

:thumbsup:

Leave it to Will to turn a conversation about talking dirty into madlibs.

ASU2003 04-17-2009 08:57 PM

"Cum inside of me"
"Good boy"
"My girlfriend wants to join us in the bedroom next Friday."

MrLatte 04-19-2009 09:06 AM

I'm a mixture of dominant and sub. I like either depending on the mood. Sometimes hearing: "Get on the bed and eat me you worthless bastard" is an amazing turn on. But then telling my girlfriend at times "Get on your knees and suck my cock until your gums bleed." is nice to.

Best sex phrase there is imo: Shut up and do it now!

Liv 05-07-2009 07:32 PM

Verbally work out a fantasy you both may have, (public sex, threesome, sex toys, etc).

Today, my lover asked me to talk dirty to him and the first thing that came to my mind was how we plan to go to a glory hole someday and share that experience together. So, while he was fucking me, I slowly and as descriptive as possible, talked about how we would go about doing that. (I want you to be sucking that cock while I'm underneath taking his balls in my mouth and feeling your spit fall down on my face) Be sure to talk slowly, too fast rushes it.

jewels 06-06-2009 05:42 AM

"Give me what's mine," said to me anytime I would hold back. Worked every time.

In general, talk about what feels good and how it feels, and ego boosters without the bullshit.

Red and Black 06-06-2009 11:20 PM

I like hearing them say how good it feels and how well I can work it. Knowing that I am pleasing my significant other the way she likes it is a plus for me, so its like I wanna hear feedback. Also, If they know how to speak another language, even better. Just something about hearing another language just spices it up. Yeah you hear the typical "fuck me baby.. harder" and all that, but when I hear it in a different language.. its makes my heart race. One of my ex's once said: "your dick feels so good hitting my walls.. fuck your hitting the back of my pussy" and "I'm fucking sweating baby.. make me sweat.. fuck make me sweat.." and "fill me up daddy.. do you want me to swallow you?" All in her language. That drove me crazy... :crazy:

Shell 06-07-2009 03:12 AM

...what i'm about to say is not judgemental of others here because i believe almost anything goes in the bedroom as long as both agree on it...and to each his own...but, i'm definitely different than everyone who has spoken so far (i think, unless i missed someone). Anyway, i'm sure i've experienced sex just as hot as everyone else BUT it hasn't included F-words, C-words, P-words, D-words, etc. It just has a degrading feel to it....for me anyway. The closest I've come to that is when we we're half-arguing the whole time (very HOT)...in a playful way...sometimes giggling...sometimes grrrring...sometimes thinking i'm actually angry only to turn to losing control of my will-power....but then throwing in a little barb to heat things up again...it's all in the subtle tease...like a well orchestrated dance of wills...ebbing and flowing together in a rythym of perfect chemistry and timing.

I prefer more tender, creative words in near whispers with heavy breathing, talking into my mouth, into my flesh, into my ear, into my errogenous zones. Not crude words, nor vulgar words but...

...just talking ("i want to inhale you...taste you", "the scent of your flesh is intoxicating", etc)
...or quoting sexy lines from others like Lord Byron's, "...and in her starry shade of dim and solitary loveliness, i learned the language of another world." and "she walks in beauty, like the night of cloudless climes and starry skies; and all that's best of dark & bright meet in her aspect and her eyes".....keep it in third person, it's sexy
...and then going on about the eyes and how they penetrate your very soul
...or say anything in almost any other language (except pig-latin lol)...you could say, "my dog has fleas" in French and i would be wayyy turned on LOL

Of course, when things heat up then the tender-talk doesn't work but anything is better than "F-me" or "stick your D in my P"...to me, those are overdone cheap degrading cliche's.

It's no wonder i was a sucker for this opening scene of don Juan deMarco with Johnny Depp even though you may laugh (especially at the end lol):

wooÐs 06-07-2009 03:43 AM

"You need to put on more weight."

uncle phil 06-07-2009 04:06 AM

shell, the line he's layin' on her is like piss in my ear...

Shell 06-07-2009 04:34 AM

:lol: ...like i said, "to each his own"
...johnny depp can lay any line he wants on me...as long as he lays me...hehe

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freeload 06-07-2009 04:52 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by uncle phil (Post 2647275)
shell, the line he's layin' on her is like piss in my ear...

Sounds like an interresting fetish:rolleyes:

Except for "..let's call my hot friend", It's entirely up to the situation - but we seldom use very graphic words (sounds so silly in Norwegian - when reading erotic stories for eachother we replace them with "our" words - sounds so much hotter)

uncle phil 06-07-2009 05:16 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Shell (Post 2647280)
:lol: ...like i said, "to each his own"
...johnny depp can lay any line he wants on me...as long as he lays me...hehe

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touche...

creepysusie 06-15-2009 12:07 AM

"I would like to perform coitus with you in an emotionally fulfilling fashion now"

Something about being a little silly is always more memorable than the straight out romantic ones.

squeeeb 06-15-2009 04:01 AM

i like when a girl says "drill me in the ass."

sadly, girls do not like it when i say "i'm gonna eat your pussy like a fat guy eats pie."

surferlove007 06-15-2009 04:31 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by squeeeb (Post 2651767)
i like when a girl says "drill me in the ass."

sadly, girls do not like it when i say "i'm gonna eat your pussy like a fat guy eats pie."


HAHA! That made my morning! If she was a former porker she might like it...? :thumbsup:

Confederate 06-16-2009 10:08 AM

Usually I can't tell what she is saying because she is holding a pillow over her face, lol.


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