04-15-2009, 04:25 PM | #1 (permalink) |
immoral minority
Location: Back in Ohio
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What sexy things do you want your partner to say to you?
http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/tilted-...uring-sex.html
There was this discussion a few years ago, but it didn't really get into the details. (There might be another thread that I missed about this topic though) What I am wondering is, is some of the things said in porn videos the type of thing you say to your partner? Is there something that you love when they say it? Is there anything that your partner doesn't say that you wish they did? Have they ever said anything that offended you? I would be a pretty tame person by most standards. But, since I don't have a sex life, I think these would be hot. "You feel so good" "I want you inside of me" "Fuck me harder" At least that is enough to start with, there may be more. (Then again, this is one area that I have major problems with in real life. I don't know what I would say to a girl, and would probably be too embarrassed to say much of anything that might be written here (even if she wanted me to say it) ) Last edited by ASU2003; 04-15-2009 at 04:28 PM.. |
04-15-2009, 05:17 PM | #3 (permalink) |
Junkie
Location: My head.
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"Harder bitch"
"you like this? ... You like it when I bite you, like this .........." "...... say my name .. SAY MY NAME BITCH!!!" I need to ease off on this type of stuff. It can get outta hand. I however save the freaky-dicky for later, ... much later!! |
04-15-2009, 08:10 PM | #5 (permalink) |
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Location: Los Angeles
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I like it when my partner makes me beg for what I want.
also.. Bend over, getting a hand clamped over my mouth if I'm too loud and being told to shut up good girl being ordered what to do..snap the fingers to emphasize....giggity! \yes, I'm a submissive...and really like it.
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04-15-2009, 08:31 PM | #6 (permalink) | |
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I like the build-up to the act. As I posted earlier, the frank dirty talk and sultry whispers do more for me than the "Oh, give it to me, big boy... Yeah! Slam me, Ramzilla!" stuff. The fluttering of eyelashes, a raised eyebrow, maybe a flash of some racy lingerie or something unexpected in public. Anticipation, damnit. Tease the throttle on the love machine. Make me work for it and let me do what I want when I get it. Yeaaah. As said in previous "Hot Sex" thread:
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04-15-2009, 10:25 PM | #8 (permalink) | |
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Location: Massachusetts
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04-16-2009, 04:46 AM | #9 (permalink) | |
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Location: Los Angeles
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Thanks!
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04-16-2009, 06:07 AM | #10 (permalink) |
I'll ask when I'm ready....
Location: Firmly in the middle....
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Hell, all I want for is my wife to say "yes" when I ask for it.
You'd think it would be that simple, but noooooo.
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04-16-2009, 07:55 AM | #13 (permalink) |
follower of the child's crusade?
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"... My God, it's the size of a baby's arm..."
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04-16-2009, 08:26 AM | #14 (permalink) |
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I want you to Spoiler: play my sloppy Spoiler: baseball game with your baseball bat.
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04-16-2009, 08:40 AM | #16 (permalink) |
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Location: In Vermont
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Hmm...well being a sub, I like being told what to do, kind of like, if I whine if something hurts, I like my man to look at me with that look, and either slap me, and or choke and and say "Do as I say." or "Shut up. Stop your whining" lol Thats the rough side of me. The softer side, I like the "That feels good" or "God you feel so good" and I like to know if I need to step up my game any like the "Harder, faster, more" Words lol. Me and my man don't talk too much during sex. I mean, I like a little bit of dirty talking, but its the moaning and other sex noises that I like the best :-)
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04-16-2009, 08:45 AM | #17 (permalink) |
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Location: Louisville, KY
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"You're so tight/wet/beautiful"
"I love your pussy/cunt/breasts/tits" "I love being inside you." And my all-time favorite.... "This is home."
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04-16-2009, 10:03 AM | #19 (permalink) |
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Location: Massachusetts
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OK, a few that slay me:
"This is my pussy. This is your cock." "Beg for it." "I am going to...[fuck you senseless][throw you down and eat you until you scream][make you beg for it]" "Nom Nom Nom" "You own me." "Have I told you lately that you have a magnificent cock?" "God, you taste good." "Fuck me now." And the absolute favorite from both sides? "Again. Now."
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04-16-2009, 12:53 PM | #20 (permalink) |
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"some snake"
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04-16-2009, 08:05 PM | #23 (permalink) | |
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Location: Los Angeles
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04-17-2009, 11:23 AM | #24 (permalink) |
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Location: Edge of the deep green sea
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"I'm gonna fuck you"
"You feel so good" "You like that cock in you" "This is my pussy" I say things like: "I love fucking you" "Your cock feels so good" "Fuck me hard" "Make me take it" "FUCK ME!"
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04-17-2009, 12:59 PM | #25 (permalink) | |
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04-19-2009, 09:06 AM | #27 (permalink) |
Upright
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I'm a mixture of dominant and sub. I like either depending on the mood. Sometimes hearing: "Get on the bed and eat me you worthless bastard" is an amazing turn on. But then telling my girlfriend at times "Get on your knees and suck my cock until your gums bleed." is nice to.
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05-07-2009, 07:32 PM | #28 (permalink) |
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Verbally work out a fantasy you both may have, (public sex, threesome, sex toys, etc).
Today, my lover asked me to talk dirty to him and the first thing that came to my mind was how we plan to go to a glory hole someday and share that experience together. So, while he was fucking me, I slowly and as descriptive as possible, talked about how we would go about doing that. (I want you to be sucking that cock while I'm underneath taking his balls in my mouth and feeling your spit fall down on my face) Be sure to talk slowly, too fast rushes it. |
06-06-2009, 05:42 AM | #29 (permalink) |
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Location: Central Central Florida
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"Give me what's mine," said to me anytime I would hold back. Worked every time.
In general, talk about what feels good and how it feels, and ego boosters without the bullshit.
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06-06-2009, 11:20 PM | #30 (permalink) |
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I like hearing them say how good it feels and how well I can work it. Knowing that I am pleasing my significant other the way she likes it is a plus for me, so its like I wanna hear feedback. Also, If they know how to speak another language, even better. Just something about hearing another language just spices it up. Yeah you hear the typical "fuck me baby.. harder" and all that, but when I hear it in a different language.. its makes my heart race. One of my ex's once said: "your dick feels so good hitting my walls.. fuck your hitting the back of my pussy" and "I'm fucking sweating baby.. make me sweat.. fuck make me sweat.." and "fill me up daddy.. do you want me to swallow you?" All in her language. That drove me crazy...
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06-07-2009, 03:12 AM | #31 (permalink) |
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...what i'm about to say is not judgemental of others here because i believe almost anything goes in the bedroom as long as both agree on it...and to each his own...but, i'm definitely different than everyone who has spoken so far (i think, unless i missed someone). Anyway, i'm sure i've experienced sex just as hot as everyone else BUT it hasn't included F-words, C-words, P-words, D-words, etc. It just has a degrading feel to it....for me anyway. The closest I've come to that is when we we're half-arguing the whole time (very HOT)...in a playful way...sometimes giggling...sometimes grrrring...sometimes thinking i'm actually angry only to turn to losing control of my will-power....but then throwing in a little barb to heat things up again...it's all in the subtle tease...like a well orchestrated dance of wills...ebbing and flowing together in a rythym of perfect chemistry and timing.
I prefer more tender, creative words in near whispers with heavy breathing, talking into my mouth, into my flesh, into my ear, into my errogenous zones. Not crude words, nor vulgar words but... ...just talking ("i want to inhale you...taste you", "the scent of your flesh is intoxicating", etc) ...or quoting sexy lines from others like Lord Byron's, "...and in her starry shade of dim and solitary loveliness, i learned the language of another world." and "she walks in beauty, like the night of cloudless climes and starry skies; and all that's best of dark & bright meet in her aspect and her eyes".....keep it in third person, it's sexy ...and then going on about the eyes and how they penetrate your very soul ...or say anything in almost any other language (except pig-latin lol)...you could say, "my dog has fleas" in French and i would be wayyy turned on LOL Of course, when things heat up then the tender-talk doesn't work but anything is better than "F-me" or "stick your D in my P"...to me, those are overdone cheap degrading cliche's. It's no wonder i was a sucker for this opening scene of don Juan deMarco with Johnny Depp even though you may laugh (especially at the end lol):
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06-07-2009, 04:06 AM | #33 (permalink) |
comfortably numb...
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shell, the line he's layin' on her is like piss in my ear...
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06-07-2009, 04:34 AM | #34 (permalink) |
Cheers
Location: Eastcoast USA
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...like i said, "to each his own"
...johnny depp can lay any line he wants on me...as long as he lays me...hehe -
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06-07-2009, 04:52 AM | #35 (permalink) |
Done freeloading here
Location: on my ass :) - Norway
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Sounds like an interresting fetish
Except for "..let's call my hot friend", It's entirely up to the situation - but we seldom use very graphic words (sounds so silly in Norwegian - when reading erotic stories for eachother we replace them with "our" words - sounds so much hotter)
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06-07-2009, 05:16 AM | #36 (permalink) |
comfortably numb...
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touche...
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