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05-29-2007, 02:50 AM
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Location: Canada
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Depends on the personality. Some people enjoy the spontaneous first kiss with a new date. I personally hate it because I don't feel too close when we still call each other "date" instead of "boy/girlfriend".
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05-29-2007, 03:51 AM
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Extreme moderation
Location: Kansas City, yo.
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...when you want to kiss them and you think they want to kiss you back. It's not hard.
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03-09-2008, 06:42 AM
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Crazy
Location: England
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It's strange really. I can't explain it, but sometimes when you talk to a girl for a while in a bar or something, sitting down next to each other, it just happens, but you both make the move at the same time naturally, without responding to the other's movement, or thinking it through.
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03-09-2008, 09:14 AM
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Super Moderator
Location: East-central Canada
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Just after you've both had a laughing fit, during that 3-second silence where you've maintained eye contact.
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03-09-2008, 10:35 AM
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but you have to be 100 % secure before you do it ! , not always is like that ! there is pople that does just in the half way!
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02-27-2009, 09:45 PM
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Location: My head.
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Except of course for the part that she briefly brushed her lips across mine then turned and said "I had a great night!" one word FUCKIN'AWKWARD!!!! |
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02-27-2009, 10:21 PM
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But You'll Never Prove It.
Location: under your bed
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When you don't wait 16 years go get up the nerve to do it.
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02-28-2009, 01:09 AM
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Evil Priest: The Devil Made Me Do It!
Location: Southern England
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When her husband's not looking...
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03-01-2009, 04:37 AM
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Leaning against the -Sun-
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Location: on the other side
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Um, so when a kiss is not spontaneous, how does that go? Only scenario I can think of is one person asking the other whether they can kiss them - is that what you mean?
I like a first kiss after a good conversation, where you've learned a little more about the other person and a bond has been created. When you look at the other person's eyes and are silent for a moment, a kiss feels right. I like it to be more surprising too, when I'm not quite expecting it.
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03-02-2009, 12:05 PM
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Location: venice beach, ca
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i'd say its those moments where you're talking together in an isolated place and the conversation kind of trails off... the key is to plant the kiss close to the end of the conversation so it hasn't become an awkward silence and the kiss kind of fits as punctuation.
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03-02-2009, 02:32 PM
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Location: low-velocity Earth orbit
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If my venom is injected into center mass it will take about 10 seconds for the neurotoxins to block the stimulus transmission from nerve cell to muscle group causing complete paralysis, so pretty much any time after that.
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03-02-2009, 06:17 PM
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Junkie
Location: Louisville, KY
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I can't help but think of my first kiss with the fellow I'm seeing now. The situation was pretty standard (end of the first date), but I wasn't expecting a kiss, and the setting was beautiful. He walked me to my car, and we exchanged hugs. A light snow was beginning to fall, and I gave him a quick peck on the cheek. He grinned, leaned down, and kissed me. Maybe the situation wasn't *ideal*, but it was about as perfect of a first kiss as I can remember.
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03-07-2009, 01:36 PM
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follower of the child's crusade?
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After I have rescued a girl from a dangerous situation with an act of extreme rugged manliness, and in an ideal world, have sustained minor injuries of some kind.
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03-07-2009, 06:31 PM
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Young Crumudgeon
Location: Canada
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To answer the question, you kind of have to create the moment. Sitting around passively waiting for 'the Right Time' means you'll never do it. Wait until she indicates she's ready and just go for broke.
My first kiss with Magpie is one of our funny stories. We went out to a movie, then went back to what was then my apartment. We had the right moment, I could feel that vibe... then, just as I was leaning in, my computer made a noise and she jumped. Moment ruined. So I just told her I wanted to kiss her. She said okay, and that was that.
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03-09-2009, 04:14 AM
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Location: Ontario, Canada
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