Miss Mango

I say spontaneously!

Also, when you're both just looking at each other and you get that feeling of connection right before it happens...unexplainable but you know what I'm saying.

bluestars87

Well I wouldn't know.

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MrFriendly

Yeah, I had a grand opertunity on Friday and was to plastered to act on it. Fuck I'm a numb nuts sometimes

But, she has said she's meet again, so me thinks I'll just go for it!

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noodlebee

Depends on the personality. Some people enjoy the spontaneous first kiss with a new date. I personally hate it because I don't feel too close when we still call each other "date" instead of "boy/girlfriend".

Maybe pay attention to body language? I've been told I look very reserved.

Toaster126

...when you want to kiss them and you think they want to kiss you back. It's not hard.

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baggy20

when you feel that your partner wants one...

telekinetic

When you're both drunk.

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EULA

Marriage proposal.

Average_Joe

....when the moment hits you so hard that you don't even think about the consequences.

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PlanG

It's strange really. I can't explain it, but sometimes when you talk to a girl for a while in a bar or something, sitting down next to each other, it just happens, but you both make the move at the same time naturally, without responding to the other's movement, or thinking it through.

World's King

Well, the girls I fuck don't normally allow kissing. Unless you pay extra. And even then I know they aren't really into it.

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Baraka_Guru

Just after you've both had a laughing fit, during that 3-second silence where you've maintained eye contact.

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carloramon1

but you have to be 100 % secure before you do it ! , not always is like that ! there is pople that does just in the half way!

Xerxys

Dude, not really, I had a great date last night and followed through on some of this threads advice, .... I just went for it!!! It was exhilirating.!!!!

Except of course for the part that she briefly brushed her lips across mine then turned and said "I had a great night!"

one word

FUCKIN'AWKWARD!!!!

ItWasMe

When you don't wait 16 years go get up the nerve to do it.

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gardens

just after she drowns (CPR)

now thats a story to tell the grand kids

seriously though
AFTER you get in out of the rain I can not stress the AFTER
movies are completely wrong

Daniel_

When her husband's not looking...

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Bear Cub

A peck on the cheek when you show her to the door after sex.

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ametc

I like it spontaneous as well. Spontaneous gives it more meaning for me.

little_tippler

Um, so when a kiss is not spontaneous, how does that go? Only scenario I can think of is one person asking the other whether they can kiss them - is that what you mean?

I like a first kiss after a good conversation, where you've learned a little more about the other person and a bond has been created. When you look at the other person's eyes and are silent for a moment, a kiss feels right. I like it to be more surprising too, when I'm not quite expecting it.

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Our hearts are incommunicable still.
In what we show ourselves we are ignored.
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By any skill of thought or trick of seeming.
Unto our very selves we are abridged
When we would utter to our thought our being.
We are our dreams of ourselves, souls by gleams,
And each to each other dreams of others' dreams.

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Teufel Hunden

I agree with Miss Mango. Just lean over and kiss them. Works every time.

high_jinx

i'd say its those moments where you're talking together in an isolated place and the conversation kind of trails off... the key is to plant the kiss close to the end of the conversation so it hasn't become an awkward silence and the kiss kind of fits as punctuation.

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Giant Hamburger

If my venom is injected into center mass it will take about 10 seconds for the neurotoxins to block the stimulus transmission from nerve cell to muscle group causing complete paralysis, so pretty much any time after that.

SabrinaFair

I can't help but think of my first kiss with the fellow I'm seeing now. The situation was pretty standard (end of the first date), but I wasn't expecting a kiss, and the setting was beautiful. He walked me to my car, and we exchanged hugs. A light snow was beginning to fall, and I gave him a quick peck on the cheek. He grinned, leaned down, and kissed me. Maybe the situation wasn't *ideal*, but it was about as perfect of a first kiss as I can remember.

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Strange Famous

After I have rescued a girl from a dangerous situation with an act of extreme rugged manliness, and in an ideal world, have sustained minor injuries of some kind.

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Xerxys

Strange, damn you for putting this image in my head!!!!

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cdwonderful

when she jumps on top of you?

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Martian

To answer the question, you kind of have to create the moment. Sitting around passively waiting for 'the Right Time' means you'll never do it. Wait until she indicates she's ready and just go for broke.

My first kiss with Magpie is one of our funny stories. We went out to a movie, then went back to what was then my apartment. We had the right moment, I could feel that vibe... then, just as I was leaning in, my computer made a noise and she jumped. Moment ruined.

So I just told her I wanted to kiss her. She said okay, and that was that.

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Willravel

When you're sure the duct tape is secure.

Magpie_1

That was such a funny day. Once we got over the moment being ruined and started to make out. We ended up hearing his neighbour throwing up out side. Wasn't the most romantic first kiss. It is memorabile though.

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Bagezio2

Within 2 minutes of meeting.