Sue

I think women and men both have a hard task. Equal footing and such.

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Teufel Hunden

I would say it's harder for the women, just given the gag factor. A girl's entire jaw can get tired and lock up from a good long BJ. Guy's on the other hand, if the tongue gets tired, light sucking works, if that gets too tired, running your bottom lip across her clit also works. Although i've never given a BJ, i'd say it's alot easier for a man to pleasure a woman orally.

Shaindra

I think the person who doesn't enjoy doing it has it the hardest.

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highthief

That's probably the most insightful thing I've read on here in a long time.

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Baraka_Guru

Giving foot massages is a harder task.

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Shaindra

Why thank you. But really, if you enjoy it, what does it matter? I've been with guys where it felt like a chore. I wasn't into it. It wasn't comfortable. It, for lack of a better word, sucked. Other times, I could go all night for my *own* pleasure in doing it.

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Tiny Dancer

Oh do I ever enjoy a foot massage, they are the best.


I think, since I swing both ways, it's equally as hard but it can be harder to go down on a woman since they are more emotionally involved.

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tomblair

I always say its easier to drink a spoon of cream than it is to lick a dead fish

bloody_rose20

Alright, so I am a woman, and even though I am bisexual I have not yet had sex with another woman. Though, even based on that, I am pretty sure that its a harder tast for a man to go down on a woman. There is alot more to pleasing a woman orally. With a man, yeah there are tricks and whatnot to make things that much more intensified, but its not that hard. So I pick, men have the harder task at hand going down on women.

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Jenna

Well, I've had a lot more practice on men... but I'd definitely say it's harder to give oral sex to a woman.

It's harder but oral sex on a man can be a lot more uncomfortable at times.

lostgirl

Depends on the size of the cock, but I love having it in my mouth. I have to admit a man would have a harder time getting me off though oral, than the other way around.

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