I think women and men both have a hard task. Equal footing and such.

I would say it's harder for the women, just given the gag factor. A girl's entire jaw can get tired and lock up from a good long BJ. Guy's on the other hand, if the tongue gets tired, light sucking works, if that gets too tired, running your bottom lip across her clit also works. :D Although i've never given a BJ, i'd say it's alot easier for a man to pleasure a woman orally.

I think the person who doesn't enjoy doing it has it the hardest.

That's probably the most insightful thing I've read on here in a long time.

Giving foot massages is a harder task.

Why thank you. But really, if you enjoy it, what does it matter? I've been with guys where it felt like a chore. I wasn't into it. It wasn't comfortable. It, for lack of a better word, sucked. Other times, I could go all night for my *own* pleasure in doing it. :thumbsup:

Oh do I ever enjoy a foot massage, they are the best.


I think, since I swing both ways, it's equally as hard but it can be harder to go down on a woman since they are more emotionally involved.

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I always say its easier to drink a spoon of cream than it is to lick a dead fish

Alright, so I am a woman, and even though I am bisexual I have not yet had sex with another woman. Though, even based on that, I am pretty sure that its a harder tast for a man to go down on a woman. There is alot more to pleasing a woman orally. With a man, yeah there are tricks and whatnot to make things that much more intensified, but its not that hard. So I pick, men have the harder task at hand going down on women.

Well, I've had a lot more practice on men... but I'd definitely say it's harder to give oral sex to a woman.

It's harder but oral sex on a man can be a lot more uncomfortable at times.

Depends on the size of the cock, but I love having it in my mouth. I have to admit a man would have a harder time getting me off though oral, than the other way around.