01-12-2009, 06:51 PM | #42 (permalink) | |
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their has to be some underlying problem thats causing this anxiety, what is it that your thinking? try and dig deep, even subconsciously. i realize you posted this over about a month ago |
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07-08-2011, 09:28 PM | #43 (permalink) |
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Wow. I haven't been to TFP in ages! I'm glad this place is still around. It's always overwhelmed me because it's such a HUGE community, but I've always been very impressed with the quality of the discussions. I know this thread is old, but I'm going thru a similar situation as the OP and this thread came up on my first Google search.
I recently got out of a 5 year relationship and just got involved with a really special woman - unexpectedly, I might add. I'd felt free and alone for a while, so I'm not in this as a "rebound" thing. But I'm feeling the same anxiety as the OP. I got it up for a couple minutes then I started overthinking things. A bunch of things added up to make it worse - had a bunch of beers earlier in the evening and it was real late, so I was crashing (tired) pretty heavy. But, beyond that, i haven't been particularly horny lately, either. I absolutely love to "make love" and be intimate with a woman, and this one is smokin' hot. I tried to explain to her why I was having difficulties but it was difficult because I was trying to figure it out myself. Like the OP, I got no problem in front of the net-porn. I'm relieved to hear people suggest that if one can get it up for porn, one doesn't have an erectile dysfunction. I think part of my problem is I'm so used to pornin' it up that I've spoiled myself for the, much diffirent, real thing. It's hard to admit that I might have an anxiety problem, but I'm more afraid of not being able to fix it. Like someone else said, too much blood to one head doesn't leave any for the other. I need to balance it out. |
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