JStrider

I'd join if it was ok with GG...

we've been on the couple side of that before... and we had quite a bit of fun.

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Anormalguy

Being married, I wouldn't without the okay from my wife. She's opened-minded, but I don't see her okaying me participating in a menage a trois without her.

She & I have discusssed the possiblity of including someone for a three-way, we're both open to it, but only under the right circumstances (just as many others have mentioned). Which of us would be willing to do what with the third person in a MFF or MFM would depend on the other person involved, & the situation.

My thinking is a lot of people who are married or in long-term relationship think that they're ready for a three-way or group sex, but don't actually know how they'll react once the action starts.

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Paladin

being in an open relationship I am free to "play" as i see fit. I have also had the opprotunity several times to take part in ffm threesomes and some mfmf foursomes as well. These can be quite interesting and erotic if expectations are set at the very beginning.

MSD

Not particularly interested in anything with another guy, so I'd have to talk everything over with them before I knew if I wanted to. However, CT did just legalize gay marriage, so get a couple of bisexual women who want to spice things up ...

Dexter Morgan

If the guy was allowed to fuck me, and I was allowed to fuck the wife, sure. I wouldn't want some stupid restriction, like "I'm only here so the wife can have a lesbian experience". Give me the full-nine or no thank you.

Prince

No. I know there are many sex-related weird things out there, and it's hip to try as many as possible and check them off some bucket list, but I've no interest in that. I may be boring and predictable, but for me sex is just between myself and someone I love. I want the emotional attraction to be there first, before anything physical transpires.

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Jenna

I would. But first I would have to talk to my boyfriend about it, and maybe I'd ask him to join in as well.

MSD

Nothing wrong with knowing where your comfort zone is and wanting to stay there.

Starkizzer

If I was single I'd probably jump at the chance if I knew and trusted the couple.

As a happily taken girl, the idea of group sex intrigues and excites me but not enough to over come the fear that it would ruin what I have always wanted, and finally have.

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ally_cat

If I were single, I would do it with an attractive couple I didn't know very well, but probably not with anyone I was good friends with. Been down that road before and there was all kinds of jealousy. Luckily, I'm now with an amazing guy and don't have any interest in being with anyone else.

Mugzy6

I've been invited by a couple that are friends of mine on multiple occasions by both of them. Their relationship is really open, so I doubt they'd have jealousy problems. However, I had to decline. I wasn't attracted to either of them and, call me selfish, I just don't like sharing haha.

Deltona Couple

Adventures of this type are alwways dependent on the couple. When I was between relationships I was often a "third" in the bedroom. I am by no means gay or bi, and had no interest in anything involving the other guy, and made that CLEAR from the start. You have to just let things flow how they do, remember that in most situations like this the woman is the one who makes the rules, and you hope that their relationship is strong and ready for such a thing. Not all are, and you have to learn to detach yourself from the emotional part. It is just that: SEX, not lovemaking...so enjoy what you can, and have fun..and ALWAYS practice safe sex!

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Iliftrocks

Not me ( and not that anyone would ask, oh wait they did (yeesh, not attractive) ). I have only enough attention for one, other than myself. Being that even if porno is playing, I lose my focus on what I'm doing, and that leads to disaster, I don't think dragging someone else in would help me much.

One on one's all I got

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ChasingAmy

Agreed.

I would definitely enter a situation like this. I thought I had the opportunity to a while ago... but it seems to have "fell" through. I would have to be attracted to the guy though too in order for me to completely enjoy everything. And his penis! haha. I guess I am pretty elitest in the fact that if his dick doesnt look like mine I dont want much to do with it... b/c I wouldn't be attracted to it.

So ya. I would.

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curiousbear

I am working pretty sincerely on our sex life. There are no secrets between me and my girl.
I am willing to venture this with three conditions. firstly , I shall know the couple (or at least one of them) for quite some time through online or forums exchanging views, opinions and guidance. Basically I know them to some extent. secondly, they cant be any of my existing close friends or family. thirdly, I should not be the center of activity at anytime. If I can intensify thier sexual experience with each other I will be glad. And I will take my girl's consent to do this.

Hyacinthe

Talked to the SO and my best friend about it actually - inviting her into bed with us that is.

They're both very pro the idea, but then again they have both been in a similar situation before - she was previously in a very open marriage ( they asked me to join them in bed but I very much disliked her hubby) and he had an ex who used to frequently invite a friend to join them. Both are more worried about how I will handle seeing the two of them together.

They're both more worried about me emotionally then they are about whether or not they get to be together which actually makes me alot more comfortable with the idea. So while intellectually I'm fine with it I worry my posessive, insecure side will come to the fore screaming "maybe he likes her more then you, maybe she's better in bed then you are, they have more in common then you two" even though I am certain that he loves me.

I have been with both seperately (the SO knows and was quite heartily in favour of the act) and enjoyed both so maybe if the situation comes up. He has also said that he thinks we (as in the two women) would probably be more comfortable if he was just watching at first.

ATM things are somewhat untenable for setting up the situation though, with the two of us moving and her having to organise someone to watch her kids (she has two boys who I adore!)

I have faith that one day it will happen, just not sure when.

Sorry I guess that's kindof from the opposite side of the fence isn't it? More would I accept someone into bed with us rather then would I join another couple.

I guess that woul depend on the couple, I HAVE to have some emotional connection with the people I'm with to get any enjoyment out of sex, even if it's just affection or an initial liking and " yeah I think we could be friends if we got to know one another well enough" otherwise I just don't get aroused.

If it was with two people I honestly liked and trusted and I was single I most definitely would, I believe that those type of arrangements like FwBs all rely entirely on each party being completely honest with themself and the others involved.

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digme

It sounds like a lot of fun, but will probably stay in the realm of fantasy.

MoonDog

I would say that I was damn close to an MMF in college. I would have done it, no prob, because at that time I was very into new things, wasn't tied down, etc. However, I am glad it didn't happen, because the girl in question was a psych case. The guy was a friend of mine in the dorms, and I think he would have been game as well. And, for all the doubters out there, its only gay if you reposition it for him!

Nowadays, being married with children, I would have to say "no". My wife is almost certainly NOT any such experience - be it MMF or MFF. I wouldn't mind seeing an MFF, but I am a typical male. I also now recognize that my retarded jealous streak would seriously hamper any enjoyment, and most likely be a problem in the future. Hell - my jealous streak might be a problem even in an MFF!

biznatch

I'd do it, as long as I didn't have to play with the dude.

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Stare At The Sun

Life is to short not to...

I would just worry about the chasing amy threesome thing (end of the movie)thing, aka ruining their relationship.

*shrugs* I try it.

Cervantes

I wouldn't do it if there was another guy present, two women no problem, but another guy.. nooo way..
The whole idea of two guys having sex with the same woman weirds me out, don't really know why but it doesn't sit right in my mind.

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Dead_man

It is a fantasy of every guy to have another woman in the bed, but if given the opportunity...i'd decline.

My sisters marriage was ruined after her and her husband invited another woman into the bedroom.

2 kids suffered for that mistake.

I don't have kids but I love my wife too much to take a chance on something going wrong.

canuckguy

I could do it, assuming no male on male interaction was expected. Not that there is anything wrong with that....

MMF FFM combo's do nothing for me fantasy wise but I would be open to the idea if she wanted it.

I admire the couples who have such strong relationships that allow them to be so open and explore mutual fantasies!

curious georget

Hello,please exuse my typing form ! I am thrilled to be in a place where curiosccty is ok and willing to be disccussed.My husband and i are toying with the idea of a threesome.i have never been with a woman before but as weve widend our intrest of sexuaual pleasures we enjoy watching porn together surprisingly ive found my self turned on by watching women together . They ARE SENSUAL AND SEXY and i beleive it when my man says women know what women want. im curious any advice??

curiousbear

curious_georget, first try FF before truing 3some