...deepthroat?
 

Alright, so I'm wondering something....

You know, surfing around here, looking at movies, reading posts from husbands and wives, boyfriends and girlfriends, I've always had a growing question. I guess you could say I'm an unlucky guy, as I've never had a girlfriend that could actually "deep throat" while going down on me.

So, how did you get your girlfriend/wife, I guess you would say accustomed, to it? I mean, I'm sure it would feel really good, but it has to take a hell of a lot of practice on her end to fit an entire dick in her mouth. For instance, Heather at iDeepThroat.com. Part of that has to be going down her throat, no?

So how'd you do it, those of you that have girlfriends that can? Weird question, just always been on my mind as to how you get a girl who's never done it before to be able to do it like the best of them.

Be happy with whatever you can get.

Don't believe everything you see in movies. Especially porn.

Never had one either, and happy to say i've lost absolutely no sleep over it...

If ur getting lazy HJ's on a regular basis, and your worried about the amount she get in, then you should be a) shot, or b) knighted

I remember one porn star said" it shouldn't look the best, it should feel the best"

To deepthroat a girl needs to either have no gag reflex or be able to control it. I have only known two girls that could accomplish that and neither of them were any good at sucking dick. Maybe its just for show.

ive never had one but i would think that real sex is better :)

my ex could do it.
and it was good.

Haven't had it but I suspect the increased pleasure might come mostly from the greater visual appeal? Us men being ocular creatures and all? :)

This about sums it up for me!

I've never been completely deep-throated, but I had a girlie who could touch the tip of her nose to my belly. It was good enough for me. :)

She had a long nose?

I had an ex that used to be able to do it. She really couldn't do it at first due to gag-reflex. But after a while she was able to do it, so I'm guessing it could be something that can be learned by practice.

LOL denim.

The deep throat thing depends on the guy. Some guys are easier then others for odvious reasons;)

i used to date a chick that could take my knob all the way down to the root. that was AMAZING! she was the best BJ giver i've ever had. she was good at it, and enjoyed it too.

I had one gf back in the day who loved giving head and I got deep-throated a couple of times. I have to admit it wasn't nearly as pleasurable as regular bj. The rhythm in deep-throat is too slow and it just doesn't feel as good. After discussing it, she came to understand that a few strokes of deep-throat were nice, but I didn't want the whole bj like that.

It's a stunt, and a ploy of power.
There's no real enjoyment out this technique.

IMHO, just enjoy a good hummer, and leave the rest to the actors.

I'll second everyone's advice.

Deep throat is like the money shot. Sure it happens in real life, but not that often.

DON'T take your sex advice from porno's.

I would have to disagree. I love it when my girlfriend takes my cockler all the way in. It's not like she does that all the time. She keeps a good rhythm and once in while goes for it. Hooray for deepthroaters.

Oh yeah, its also real nice when they are the way down there and they lick your balls with their tongues and you have her mouth basically stuffed with your man meat.

girls with NG (no gag reflex)... I knew a few of them and only one of them blew me on a regular basis...

NGR... yeah.. that's where it's at for the deep throat action...

I have seen a chick in porn try to deepthroat this dude and she gagged and vomited on his dick.

It was pretty disgusting. I think one would have to learn to control the gag reflex, which wouldn't be fun at all. I hate feeling like I'm gonna puke. Icky.

Most women can't or won't do it. And can you blame them?

if I do it slow...like he likes ..I can deep throat....I don't like to though cuz I don't like to trigger the gag reflex...


I saw on tv once a lady that swalloded knives for living and her husband said he was very happy...someone asked her how she trained herself to do it...she said she started practicing with spaghetti to get over the gag reflex...I've thought about trying it just to please him...

"she said she started practicing with spaghetti to get over the gag reflex...I've thought about trying it just to please him..."

You are a very good woman. And he is a lucky man.

I dated this girl that told me that if she was gonna give head than she was do it right. So, every time she went down on me she would deep throat... fucking badass.

LEGGO...you're not married yet. When yer married....THENS the time to lament.
:)

I have experienced a, ahem, "professional" who could do it.... absolutely nothing bad about it at all I have to add...

Went out with a girl that could deepthroat, she knew a few other tricks too, it's not really that much better than a standard blow, in fact it kinda makes things, uh, more challenging on the lady. I'm just happy whenever my junk finds it's way into a woman's mouth.

I've had several girls do that to me and while it's fun to see it once or twice it's not anything special. Enthusiasm is much so much more of a turn on.

My wife deep throats me. Feels good, but it's more mentally stimulating than physically.

It is a visual thing - I agree. The odd deep throat thrown into a good BJ is the ultimate - I had a girlfriend in high school would you believe who was awesome at it - she would blow me then slow down and go all the way down once or twice, then speed it up again - I'll never forget it!

No disrespect to your porno choices, Plummie, but if that made the final cut, i would hate to see the outtakes....

My girlfriend tried it with me once and it wasn't anything better than a regular blowjob. I actually like a regular one better, because it's no strain on my girlfriend and she looks like she's enjoying doing it.

-Lasereth

Yes, this is about the only difference in feeling from a deep throat, which I have received only once, but the feeling was memorable. The gag reflex can be trained not to trigger, but it is alot of work.

I've had girls do it to me, including my wife now and then. It's more a mental thing than anything else, and I've pretty much told her not to bother. An enthusiastic bj is much better.
In fact I once was with a girl who was apparently damn proud of her deep throating ability and started banging my cock down her throat. Actually hurt like hell. That was a downer.

I like this kind of action better than DT. Tongues got much better control.

I have talked to several deepthroaters, including, queenylove from queenlove.com, the girl from ideepthroat.com and a few others.

They all say the same thing, anyone can deep throat with practice and relaxation.

It's not a one or the other thing! DT is usually just part of a blow job. My lady learned how just by "trying" for a while (it was fun to help out!). It's fantastic.

My lady friends have tried and choked in the process. I dunno if its me [i hope] or their abilities. Talk about a major mood killer. :D

My wife learn to do it for me. She loves giving me blow jobs, mostly for the fact that I make sure that I satisify all her sexual needs.
Her blow jobs were hevenly before she learned to deep throat. Now, they are undescribable.
I've learned to not cum too soon so that I can prolong the blissful state.
If you both are interested in trying new stuff, and love to pleasure your partner, then there is a chance. Otherwise, your out of luck.

Enjoy

I'm 34, have had somewhere in the neighborhood of 25-30 partners, all went down on me, many have been able to get a lot of it in but exactly one actually did it. She had obviously acquired this skill before she met me. It felt great and the sensation of the head turning a bit of a corner into her throat was unique and incredible. DT wasn't all she did and overall, she was just plain good at giving head.

That said, I've had better, too. DT isn't the top of the mountain. Be glad if you get it, don't sweat it if you don't. An enthusiastic blow from a woman who enjoys doing it is far better no matter what her technique is.

I am capable of deep throating and yet my other oral skills don't seem to be lacking according to the men I've played with. It does make a big difference if you can control the gag reflex or not. It helps to take it slow to begin with and once she's got the idea of the feeling then she can take it much easier. It still gives me sore throat if I do it much so when I'm playing with a guy I only do it a few times and that's it. It makes a big difference to me how thick the guy is. The thicker he is the harder it is to accomplish. It also is easier to accomplish when the guy isn't completely hard since he'll flex a little easier instead of just jabbing the back of my throat.
Just my experience. Hope it helps.

I can't say I'm interested in giving blowjobs, but I learned to completely suppress my gag reflex during my fascination with sword swallowing. I got the gag reflex down to nothing, then decided that I didn't really want to put a sword down my throat.

Search Google for sword swallowing how-to's or look for something like that at the library, if something can teach you how to get a sword down your throat, it can teach someone how to get a penis down without choking.

As an added bonus, you can learn how to open your esophagus completely and do the "pouring beer down your throat" trick that The Fox used to do on The Man Show.

My fiancee couldn't do it when we first met. I'd never had it before and always wondered what it would be like, but never pushed the issue...never really even brought it up. One day we were getting really wild and next thing you knew, I somehow pushed in further for a couple of strokes. She looked really surprised and stopped. I apologized, and she said she was surprised that she didn't really gag. I told her it felt really great and different, so she's been practicing. It really is different, especially when she hums and changes things up all the time. Not only is it visually stimulating but the different feeling you get when your head goes down her throat...she'll swallow, it's almost like pushing in anally for the first time. If she's feeling really giving she'll lick my balls while I'm down her throat; that's ecstacy.

Some people don't think it's the top of the world, but for us it's incredibly intimate, almost the difference between fooling around and actually having intercourse. We love it.

I've only had 3 gf's that even tried giving me bj's. My gf now has given me mindblowing bj's, but never deepthroated. But i'm a satisfied guy.

I'm 25 and I just had it done for the first time about 8 months ago. It looked like she wanted it so bad that she had to have as much of me in her mouth as possible, which turned me the fuck on! But it wasn't an absolutely amazing feeling. I have to say overall I liked it alot.

the secret is Chloraseptic or Cepacol losenges. for women who have a serious gag reflex this sometimes works.
I also had a girlfriend who could do that and now have a wife who can't. I wonder if it's the same chick for all of us?
: )

damn I am opinionated today especially if I can help you guys figure this out or other things about women you guys don't know! I am really open minded and will talk about sexx openly and honestly to anyone, so here ya'll go -
First have your partner lay on her back at the edge of the bed with her head off the side tilted back, insert your penis and ever so gently go deeper be aware of your partner though and think befor just slamming it alll the way in and of her gagging tell her to breathe out her nose and continue until deep throat occurs and i promise it will eventually. This position allows her to breathe easier and opens her throat to take it all as it were!!

I hooked up with a girl at a New Years Party about five years ago. She was very talented.

She was able to deep throat, but I'm convinced I'm not missing anything now with my girlfriend (who can't). Good blowjobs involve different pressures, attention paid to different areas, some eye contact, etc. I feel deep throat is overrated.

i'm with donkey puncher here.

also, the wider your cock is, the less likely it's going to happen.

2 lasses i've been with have claimed to be able to deep throat other chaps, but unfortunately, not me.

:(

2 have been able to take me into the top of their throat, like mr donkeypuncher says, the turning sensation, and the differences in temperature, etc, are fantastic.

1, very special, glorious, spectacularly kinky lady forced my member down her throat, and she did _force_ it down... it was like a point of personal honour for her...

Heavenly.

Though, as mr donkey puncher said again, the best head i've ever had hasn't involved the throat, well, not much.

I knew this guy who said his wife would do it but when I fucked her she actually turned out to be a guy... it was really gross ... so now I never want to be blown again

skippy

A Good BJ doesn't have to be deep throat. My wife can't do it, and I don't ever expect her to be able to get the whole thing in. She can probably go about 1/2 to 2/3 of the way down.

She has other orally related talents that make me not care if she even tried. . . .

Google: fellatio deep throat
http://www.sexuality.org/l/sex/fellatio.html
Read Lesson Five and Eight.

It's possible. You need to establish a strong trust bond because you can seriously injure a girl's throat if you can't control yourself (e.g. thrusting movements can bruise the esophagus). Most women can't deep throat like Heather from ideepthroat and probably wouldn't want to try either.

I've seen it as well, semi-accidentally. Kazaa-ing for "deep throat", and the tags did NOT indicate vomit.

I'd just about removed that video from my memory, time to go at the brain with Brillo again...

*laughing at skippy's yarn*

A friend of mine was in a pub in Nottingham, UK, when a lady of colour comes over to him, starts talking and making suggestive advances...

Now, having just come back from finland, where ladies are a lot more aggressive than pretty much anywhere else i've seen, he didn't think anything of this.

"It happens"

he told himself,

"I'm a lucky boy."

So off they went a short time after, after abot 50m the lass turns to my friend and tells him she just can't wait, she's got to go down on him right then and there.

So, she drags him into an alleyway just enough to be out of the streetlights, kneels down, takes out his member and starts to suck.

It's fantastic.

She's doing everything a bloke could dream of. sucking just right, no hands while sucking and wanking just right, deep throating occasionally, everything you could dream of for that variety of frenzied blowjob.

My friend is looking up at the stars, thanking each one of them for his good fortune.

He looks down.

"She" is wanking her own cock.

AAAAAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

She runs off.

He stands there for 5 minutes, unable to move, talk or do anything.

Goes home and showers for hours.

Calls me, tells me the tale, completely gutted.

I gutlaugh for hours.

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA...

Umm, you guys that have been deep throated, you ever think that some cocks may be a lot eaiser to deep throat than others? :p

Damn, I come here and you guys make me feel like the luckiest man in the world. You're the best! :D

My wife does it fine, though she had to practice a few times, and she even has a gag reflex (which oddly doesn't come up anymore, did at first) .. I say if you got it, keep it, but I don't like the whole time deep throating, so.. it's up to you. I like both :)

My girl can't deepthroat me either, but it doesn't bother me really 'cause she sucks it like a pro.

it sounds like it would be uncomfortable for the girl to do... and a lot more work than should really be put into it... so yeah... if it's something that makes the girl uncomfortable in any way... wouldn't want to do it... i'd like to know that the girl was enjoying it as much as me (well.... almost as much *wink*)

After a few years of trying, my wife became successful. I like the variety though just as meff said.

I had a chick that could do it and was real proud of it too. The problem was that it did not feel that great. When a chick gets it all wet and uses her mouth and hand, tickes the nuts....yeah baby

*sigh* Why do I even bother to read these threads? I know better.

As my wife ages, her throat gets shallower..Or do I get bigger!?!?

yeah.......my GFs have tried as well.....but that damn gag reflex. It scares the fuck out of me to....jsut invision them gagging and then clamping down on the cock.....so its not a good trade off. Girls can go practice all they want on some other guy. Then when they get it down.....I'd love to see what they can do.

my girl could deepthroat me, but i told her not too
it just didn't feel good to me to press against her throat
its better if she concentrates on the top not the base

Hubby says that having an orgasm in my throat is mind blowing. Sorry! ;)

Deepthroating takes work to learn, or at least it did for me. I think it's worth it, because of the sense of accomplishment I feel when it is successfully performed (meant without gagging) and the pleasure I know I am giving.

Hubby not too big, just over seven inches, and I learned on him. That, however, only got me to be able to get him all the way in, but not hold him in there. Gag, gag, gag...

What we did was purchase a dildo. It's about fifteen inches long. I'd practice with that every day in private. Then one day, I called hubby into the bedroom, took it out, and swallowed all but about the last three or four inches.

My girlfriend and I were talking (she hates giving oral), and I told her about my new accomplishment. She didn't believe me, so I showed her. She said she still didn't believe me - not that I couldn't do it, but that I would even try.

A few weeks ago hubby and I bought this twelve inch dildo that's a lot thicker (nearly three inches compared with less than two). I can now take about seven inches of it without gagging, and will not quit until I can do the same with the remaining five.

I showed my girlfriend my new toy. She doesn't think what I know I will be able to do soon is even possible. I can't wait until I can prove her wrong.

Solla

I guess everyone needs a hobby. I'm sure this beats knitting.

To me an enthusiastic BJ is better then DT. DT is more of an emotional thing, like YEAH she took the WHOLE thing!! My wife can do it one way (69 position) but not just giving me a BJ. It feels better when she gives me an enthusiastic BJ. That's just me.

I think it depends on the type of sexual relationship you have developed with someone. Relationships have layers and sex is just one layer. In any case, DT isn't some sexual nirvana. If you keep your expectations realistic, you won't be disappointed; plus, depending on your size, it’s not the most physically pleasing thing for a woman to do. And please don't base your expectation on what you see in movies (porn). Even though porn "actors" are light-years away from Academy Award status (in terms of talent), they are acting to some degree. Moreover, make sure you're giving while your getting.

There are lots more fun things to do with a cock and a mouth than shoving it as far down the esophagus as you can manage.

I'd much rather get one of my wifes frenzied "gotta suck it now" blowjobs than have her ruin the mood by trying to deepthroat me and failing.

I can deepthroat. Sometimes he asks for it. I think it's more of an "oh my God, she can do it!" thing than a pleasure thing, but it's something I've worked hard to be able to do, and I'm glad I can do it.

^^^
:lol: hehehehehehehehe

Deepthroating is all about learning to relax your muscles and your gag reflex. Some people can do it with ease and others it's just not possible if they have a small jaw or a strong gag reflex.

i personally enjoy doing it, my husband says it's very intense.

Sweetpea

DT in and off itself isn't great. It's technique/skill/enthusiasm. Better a good standard BJ than a bad DT. Wait a minute, a bad DT ... ok, no such thing, but you know what I mean.

I've never been Deep Throated, and could really care less if it ever happens, outside of the usual 'I wonder what it's like' thing. I'd just be happy to get head of some kind on a somewhat frequent basis. :)

Edit: Punctuation > Me

Every now and then when I really get into it, I go all the way down and for a second I am really shocked. Then, once I start thinking about it, I can't do it. I don't know if it's a mental/psychological thing, or if just not thinking about it relaxes your throat. Either way I don't really care, honestly, I don't see the need to deep throat. It's never been requested.

i can deepthroat... i have great control over my gag reflex.... i give good head... not cramming cock down my throat... i pay special attention to every detail... but i love the look on my mans face when i take him all the way... see his eyes about pop out when i lick him while stuffed full or i start massaging him with my throat muscles

my gf only deepthroats me when she doesnt want to taste my man juice and wants me to come in her mouth (very.. very... very.. rare)

My wife does it and it's great. I could live without it, but as others have said the sensation it gives is amazing. she'll be going along doing the usual thing and then bam.. two or three deepthroat strokes and then back to normal.. she has actually deepthroated while I was cuming and that was differnt.. good, but differnt.

Oh, nosir, there IS such a thing.

I got blown by one young woman who could take me WAY down her throat, but you'd never know it if you weren't watching. All I could feel were her lips around the base of my cock--everything else inside her mouth was wide open and not even touching me. I don't quite know how that's physically possible, but there it is. A few minutes of that and there was a lot less of me to deep-throat. :eek:

lurkette gives a brilliant blowjob, and she follows the already-discussed model of throwing in a couple really deep strokes in the middle of things. S'good.

That's about what I do...I deepthroat in the middle so that it gives a hint of surprise. The key to a good deepthroat is to remember that you have a TONGUE. USE IT. :)

Like everyone else has said, it's overrated. A dramatic flourish. If your hung up on it, just say "I am so big that no woman can! hahahaha"

My wife can, used to alot more when younger. It was nice, I don't sit there and stew over the long lost deepthroat. Any bj is a good one (unless you have the teeth girl, or the one who thinks it's a race up and down. Wait, even those chicks got it done)

A great blowjob (like the ones I get from my girlfriend) utilizes all talents and abilities of a woman, not just the deepthroating ability. Yeah, sure, it's nice every once in awhile during the blowjob, but if it's the focus of what she can do, then there is certainly more left to be desired.

I've had blow jobs from two women; my first girlfriend and my wife (my 2nd GF). The first could take me all in and for me the excitement was visual. I liked looking down and seeing her lips around the base. My wife can't do it but that is OK. It is only one of many techniques to use during a BJ.

as mentioned before, i think the subject is so specific in regards to the people involved. in my experience, i can deepthroat my bf now, but have never been able to do it to anyone else before. my current bf is about the same size as all of my past bf's, but something must be a bit different. shape, width, just proportion - i dunno.

it's not something that's driven by a formula or a manual. just take it when you can get it i guess! lol.

I can deepthroat for short periods of time but sometmes I can't control my gag reflex. He gets quite turned on by the fact that I am pushing myself to please him, even if it means a bit of gagging. Thirty seconds is normally when I just really want it out of my throat... Must add that I have abnormally large tonsils that never came out as a child, which is why he seems to enjoy it so much.

Unfortunately from a female perspective, it can come at a price. The resulting possible acid reflux and nausea can make the rest of the sexual experiences for the night unpleasant.

Im not too familiar with deepthroating, but I think Ive done it. Im able to do it a few times, depending on the guy. If hes pretty long, then i tend to leave at least 1", or other times all the way to the base. But then I wasnt able to go too fast or Id get a gag reflex going. If you want your woman to try, then go slow with her and let her do it, keep those hands off, cause if she pukes on you, she wont want to do it again. Think of it as slow and attentive affection and enjoy the trials of deep lovins.

Never had the pleasure

My wife can make a dick disappear between her lips. I take credit for her training but must admit that a few of the men she works with have given her lessons. When she is really hot from having her pusy licked she will swallow me to the balls and hold it for several seconds. I would like to see 3-4 porn actors with big cocks give her a good work over.

Wow this is one old ass thread, been brought back from the dead not only once but twice! But I shall add my 2 cents anyways.

I have never been deep throated and don't really care too. For me the best part of a BJ is the tongue, fuck, she doesn't even have to put it in her mouth and it can still be amazing.

Damn this thread is older than Gary Coleman.

I must say it feels rather awesome but it shouldn't be regular thing.

Every girl that I've experienced it from made it look a little painful (gag / tears).

They have that vagina thing for that "all over warm" feeling, ya know.

Someday when I'm 94 and sitting on my porch watching the sunset, I'm gonna remember the handful of times when I was properly deepthroated. I'm then going to crack the slightest of smiles and let out a little sigh and think to myself "you lucky bastard, you really had it good".

Ironically enough, that chick, while EXTREMELY good at her oral skills, was also the most psychotic piece of work I've ever known.

That being said, I don't lose sleep over it, but do consider it a very happy memory.

Where does your wife work? Can I get a job there?

:thumbsup:

Oooh, I can deepthroat now! I couldn't a few months ago but I sorta accidentally conditioned my gag reflex over the past several months. (Basically, ever since I had mono last year my left tonsil becomes inflamed every time I'm sick and I have to manually clean out debris... disgusting, I know, but it got rid of my gag reflex!!)

The day xepherys came back on leave I sucked his cock and got the entire thing into my mouth/throat without really realizing it until he said, "holy shit, how'd you learn how to do that!?" I'm pretty sure he liked it ;-)

even if he didn't enjoy it (which i seriously doubt), i sure enjoyed the story....

This is something girls can learn. The gag reflex eventually goes away and it takes less effort than most think.

I find it very hot when a girl puts my whole cock in her mouth. Mind you I am not that big (5 1/2) but it's still pretty impressive to feel the back of her throat and her lovely lips around the base of my shaft. Drives me crazy. Not even the sensation but the fact that she is doing this for me. It's just so slutty, primal and porno.

Mmmmmm

I've just met my twin...

For me, it feels absolutely awesome, but its more than that. Its the visual appeal the omg holy crap appeal and a certain amount of power (that we both enjoy) knowing I can push her down on me. Amazing all together. I've only really had it once before and my current gf is trying to learn. I really (really) don't mind helping her try hahaha. Very very hot.

Triplets FTW!

Girls need to take pride in their blow jobs
 

I must say that I am just happy in general to see that people are discussin deep throating at all. I've been shocked and honestly disappointed in my fellow females recently as i found that many girls proudly declare that they dont give head ever, cause they think it gross - lol. I mean wow when i was learning everything at a young age I wonder if my life might have gone in a completely different direction if someone had mentioned to me that girls could actually say they didnt wanna do it at all and ban it. But im happy that I take deep and well deserved pride in my head giving skills and i love giving my man head. Its gotta be the greatest feeling to see his eyes roll back in his head and he tells me all the nice and amazing compliments I could ever ask for. Ive been looking all over the internet for tips on deep throating cause althought i know any guy would say ive learned more than 99% of girls ever will - I do want to be my mans personal pron star even if it kills me - no i want to be able to do anything he desires, so ive been reading deep throating tips - and thanks to those who gave good advice. Head is good, its healthy, its a definate relationship bonding expierence, its a confidence booster and every girl needs to remember that what they wont do some other girl will - plus these are the men we have chosen to spend our time with why wouldnt we want to please them so much that if theres a next girl shes got impossible shoes to fill - guys if you need me to talk to your girlfriends i will - cause its just sad - gve more head!!!!1

Nice to see that kind of enthusiasm. I'm also of the opinion that nothing beats seeing who you're with having a good time and that nothing accomplishes that quite like having someone's legs wrapped around the back of your head.

I'm a straight guy so I have no experience giving blowjobs, but someone posted on another forum about 6 months ago that to suppress the gag reflex, make a tight fist with your thumb under your fingers. I've found it helps while brushing my teeth and the back of my tongue, and people in that forum's gay guys megathread there were many reports that it was extremely successful. Smiling also suppresses the gag reflex (the evolutionary basis of this is that smiling shares a lot of the muscles with a reflexive grimace upon seeing and/or smelling something gruesome,) so tense those facial muscles, ladies!