...deepthroat?
 

Alright, so I'm wondering something....

You know, surfing around here, looking at movies, reading posts from husbands and wives, boyfriends and girlfriends, I've always had a growing question. I guess you could say I'm an unlucky guy, as I've never had a girlfriend that could actually "deep throat" while going down on me.

So, how did you get your girlfriend/wife, I guess you would say accustomed, to it? I mean, I'm sure it would feel really good, but it has to take a hell of a lot of practice on her end to fit an entire dick in her mouth. For instance, Heather at iDeepThroat.com. Part of that has to be going down her throat, no?

So how'd you do it, those of you that have girlfriends that can? Weird question, just always been on my mind as to how you get a girl who's never done it before to be able to do it like the best of them.

Be happy with whatever you can get.

Don't believe everything you see in movies. Especially porn.

Never had one either, and happy to say i've lost absolutely no sleep over it...

If ur getting lazy HJ's on a regular basis, and your worried about the amount she get in, then you should be a) shot, or b) knighted

I remember one porn star said" it shouldn't look the best, it should feel the best"

To deepthroat a girl needs to either have no gag reflex or be able to control it. I have only known two girls that could accomplish that and neither of them were any good at sucking dick. Maybe its just for show.

ive never had one but i would think that real sex is better :)

my ex could do it.
and it was good.

Haven't had it but I suspect the increased pleasure might come mostly from the greater visual appeal? Us men being ocular creatures and all? :)

This about sums it up for me!

I've never been completely deep-throated, but I had a girlie who could touch the tip of her nose to my belly. It was good enough for me. :)

She had a long nose?

I had an ex that used to be able to do it. She really couldn't do it at first due to gag-reflex. But after a while she was able to do it, so I'm guessing it could be something that can be learned by practice.

LOL denim.

The deep throat thing depends on the guy. Some guys are easier then others for odvious reasons;)

i used to date a chick that could take my knob all the way down to the root. that was AMAZING! she was the best BJ giver i've ever had. she was good at it, and enjoyed it too.

I had one gf back in the day who loved giving head and I got deep-throated a couple of times. I have to admit it wasn't nearly as pleasurable as regular bj. The rhythm in deep-throat is too slow and it just doesn't feel as good. After discussing it, she came to understand that a few strokes of deep-throat were nice, but I didn't want the whole bj like that.

It's a stunt, and a ploy of power.
There's no real enjoyment out this technique.

IMHO, just enjoy a good hummer, and leave the rest to the actors.

I'll second everyone's advice.

Deep throat is like the money shot. Sure it happens in real life, but not that often.

DON'T take your sex advice from porno's.

I would have to disagree. I love it when my girlfriend takes my cockler all the way in. It's not like she does that all the time. She keeps a good rhythm and once in while goes for it. Hooray for deepthroaters.

Oh yeah, its also real nice when they are the way down there and they lick your balls with their tongues and you have her mouth basically stuffed with your man meat.

girls with NG (no gag reflex)... I knew a few of them and only one of them blew me on a regular basis...

NGR... yeah.. that's where it's at for the deep throat action...

I have seen a chick in porn try to deepthroat this dude and she gagged and vomited on his dick.

It was pretty disgusting. I think one would have to learn to control the gag reflex, which wouldn't be fun at all. I hate feeling like I'm gonna puke. Icky.

Most women can't or won't do it. And can you blame them?

if I do it slow...like he likes ..I can deep throat....I don't like to though cuz I don't like to trigger the gag reflex...


I saw on tv once a lady that swalloded knives for living and her husband said he was very happy...someone asked her how she trained herself to do it...she said she started practicing with spaghetti to get over the gag reflex...I've thought about trying it just to please him...

"she said she started practicing with spaghetti to get over the gag reflex...I've thought about trying it just to please him..."

You are a very good woman. And he is a lucky man.

I dated this girl that told me that if she was gonna give head than she was do it right. So, every time she went down on me she would deep throat... fucking badass.

LEGGO...you're not married yet. When yer married....THENS the time to lament.
:)

I have experienced a, ahem, "professional" who could do it.... absolutely nothing bad about it at all I have to add...

Went out with a girl that could deepthroat, she knew a few other tricks too, it's not really that much better than a standard blow, in fact it kinda makes things, uh, more challenging on the lady. I'm just happy whenever my junk finds it's way into a woman's mouth.

I've had several girls do that to me and while it's fun to see it once or twice it's not anything special. Enthusiasm is much so much more of a turn on.

My wife deep throats me. Feels good, but it's more mentally stimulating than physically.

It is a visual thing - I agree. The odd deep throat thrown into a good BJ is the ultimate - I had a girlfriend in high school would you believe who was awesome at it - she would blow me then slow down and go all the way down once or twice, then speed it up again - I'll never forget it!

No disrespect to your porno choices, Plummie, but if that made the final cut, i would hate to see the outtakes....

My girlfriend tried it with me once and it wasn't anything better than a regular blowjob. I actually like a regular one better, because it's no strain on my girlfriend and she looks like she's enjoying doing it.

-Lasereth

Yes, this is about the only difference in feeling from a deep throat, which I have received only once, but the feeling was memorable. The gag reflex can be trained not to trigger, but it is alot of work.

I've had girls do it to me, including my wife now and then. It's more a mental thing than anything else, and I've pretty much told her not to bother. An enthusiastic bj is much better.
In fact I once was with a girl who was apparently damn proud of her deep throating ability and started banging my cock down her throat. Actually hurt like hell. That was a downer.

I like this kind of action better than DT. Tongues got much better control.

I have talked to several deepthroaters, including, queenylove from queenlove.com, the girl from ideepthroat.com and a few others.

They all say the same thing, anyone can deep throat with practice and relaxation.

It's not a one or the other thing! DT is usually just part of a blow job. My lady learned how just by "trying" for a while (it was fun to help out!). It's fantastic.

My lady friends have tried and choked in the process. I dunno if its me [i hope] or their abilities. Talk about a major mood killer. :D

My wife learn to do it for me. She loves giving me blow jobs, mostly for the fact that I make sure that I satisify all her sexual needs.
Her blow jobs were hevenly before she learned to deep throat. Now, they are undescribable.
I've learned to not cum too soon so that I can prolong the blissful state.
If you both are interested in trying new stuff, and love to pleasure your partner, then there is a chance. Otherwise, your out of luck.

Enjoy

I'm 34, have had somewhere in the neighborhood of 25-30 partners, all went down on me, many have been able to get a lot of it in but exactly one actually did it. She had obviously acquired this skill before she met me. It felt great and the sensation of the head turning a bit of a corner into her throat was unique and incredible. DT wasn't all she did and overall, she was just plain good at giving head.

That said, I've had better, too. DT isn't the top of the mountain. Be glad if you get it, don't sweat it if you don't. An enthusiastic blow from a woman who enjoys doing it is far better no matter what her technique is.