I am capable of deep throating and yet my other oral skills don't seem to be lacking according to the men I've played with. It does make a big difference if you can control the gag reflex or not. It helps to take it slow to begin with and once she's got the idea of the feeling then she can take it much easier. It still gives me sore throat if I do it much so when I'm playing with a guy I only do it a few times and that's it. It makes a big difference to me how thick the guy is. The thicker he is the harder it is to accomplish. It also is easier to accomplish when the guy isn't completely hard since he'll flex a little easier instead of just jabbing the back of my throat.
Just my experience. Hope it helps.

I can't say I'm interested in giving blowjobs, but I learned to completely suppress my gag reflex during my fascination with sword swallowing. I got the gag reflex down to nothing, then decided that I didn't really want to put a sword down my throat.

Search Google for sword swallowing how-to's or look for something like that at the library, if something can teach you how to get a sword down your throat, it can teach someone how to get a penis down without choking.

As an added bonus, you can learn how to open your esophagus completely and do the "pouring beer down your throat" trick that The Fox used to do on The Man Show.

My fiancee couldn't do it when we first met. I'd never had it before and always wondered what it would be like, but never pushed the issue...never really even brought it up. One day we were getting really wild and next thing you knew, I somehow pushed in further for a couple of strokes. She looked really surprised and stopped. I apologized, and she said she was surprised that she didn't really gag. I told her it felt really great and different, so she's been practicing. It really is different, especially when she hums and changes things up all the time. Not only is it visually stimulating but the different feeling you get when your head goes down her throat...she'll swallow, it's almost like pushing in anally for the first time. If she's feeling really giving she'll lick my balls while I'm down her throat; that's ecstacy.

Some people don't think it's the top of the world, but for us it's incredibly intimate, almost the difference between fooling around and actually having intercourse. We love it.

I've only had 3 gf's that even tried giving me bj's. My gf now has given me mindblowing bj's, but never deepthroated. But i'm a satisfied guy.

I'm 25 and I just had it done for the first time about 8 months ago. It looked like she wanted it so bad that she had to have as much of me in her mouth as possible, which turned me the fuck on! But it wasn't an absolutely amazing feeling. I have to say overall I liked it alot.

the secret is Chloraseptic or Cepacol losenges. for women who have a serious gag reflex this sometimes works.
I also had a girlfriend who could do that and now have a wife who can't. I wonder if it's the same chick for all of us?
: )

damn I am opinionated today especially if I can help you guys figure this out or other things about women you guys don't know! I am really open minded and will talk about sexx openly and honestly to anyone, so here ya'll go -
First have your partner lay on her back at the edge of the bed with her head off the side tilted back, insert your penis and ever so gently go deeper be aware of your partner though and think befor just slamming it alll the way in and of her gagging tell her to breathe out her nose and continue until deep throat occurs and i promise it will eventually. This position allows her to breathe easier and opens her throat to take it all as it were!!

I hooked up with a girl at a New Years Party about five years ago. She was very talented.

She was able to deep throat, but I'm convinced I'm not missing anything now with my girlfriend (who can't). Good blowjobs involve different pressures, attention paid to different areas, some eye contact, etc. I feel deep throat is overrated.

i'm with donkey puncher here.

also, the wider your cock is, the less likely it's going to happen.

2 lasses i've been with have claimed to be able to deep throat other chaps, but unfortunately, not me.

:(

2 have been able to take me into the top of their throat, like mr donkeypuncher says, the turning sensation, and the differences in temperature, etc, are fantastic.

1, very special, glorious, spectacularly kinky lady forced my member down her throat, and she did _force_ it down... it was like a point of personal honour for her...

Heavenly.

Though, as mr donkey puncher said again, the best head i've ever had hasn't involved the throat, well, not much.

I knew this guy who said his wife would do it but when I fucked her she actually turned out to be a guy... it was really gross ... so now I never want to be blown again

skippy

A Good BJ doesn't have to be deep throat. My wife can't do it, and I don't ever expect her to be able to get the whole thing in. She can probably go about 1/2 to 2/3 of the way down.

She has other orally related talents that make me not care if she even tried. . . .

Google: fellatio deep throat
http://www.sexuality.org/l/sex/fellatio.html
Read Lesson Five and Eight.

It's possible. You need to establish a strong trust bond because you can seriously injure a girl's throat if you can't control yourself (e.g. thrusting movements can bruise the esophagus). Most women can't deep throat like Heather from ideepthroat and probably wouldn't want to try either.

I've seen it as well, semi-accidentally. Kazaa-ing for "deep throat", and the tags did NOT indicate vomit.

I'd just about removed that video from my memory, time to go at the brain with Brillo again...

*laughing at skippy's yarn*

A friend of mine was in a pub in Nottingham, UK, when a lady of colour comes over to him, starts talking and making suggestive advances...

Now, having just come back from finland, where ladies are a lot more aggressive than pretty much anywhere else i've seen, he didn't think anything of this.

"It happens"

he told himself,

"I'm a lucky boy."

So off they went a short time after, after abot 50m the lass turns to my friend and tells him she just can't wait, she's got to go down on him right then and there.

So, she drags him into an alleyway just enough to be out of the streetlights, kneels down, takes out his member and starts to suck.

It's fantastic.

She's doing everything a bloke could dream of. sucking just right, no hands while sucking and wanking just right, deep throating occasionally, everything you could dream of for that variety of frenzied blowjob.

My friend is looking up at the stars, thanking each one of them for his good fortune.

He looks down.

"She" is wanking her own cock.

AAAAAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

She runs off.

He stands there for 5 minutes, unable to move, talk or do anything.

Goes home and showers for hours.

Calls me, tells me the tale, completely gutted.

I gutlaugh for hours.

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA...

Umm, you guys that have been deep throated, you ever think that some cocks may be a lot eaiser to deep throat than others? :p

Damn, I come here and you guys make me feel like the luckiest man in the world. You're the best! :D

My wife does it fine, though she had to practice a few times, and she even has a gag reflex (which oddly doesn't come up anymore, did at first) .. I say if you got it, keep it, but I don't like the whole time deep throating, so.. it's up to you. I like both :)

My girl can't deepthroat me either, but it doesn't bother me really 'cause she sucks it like a pro.

it sounds like it would be uncomfortable for the girl to do... and a lot more work than should really be put into it... so yeah... if it's something that makes the girl uncomfortable in any way... wouldn't want to do it... i'd like to know that the girl was enjoying it as much as me (well.... almost as much *wink*)

After a few years of trying, my wife became successful. I like the variety though just as meff said.

I had a chick that could do it and was real proud of it too. The problem was that it did not feel that great. When a chick gets it all wet and uses her mouth and hand, tickes the nuts....yeah baby

*sigh* Why do I even bother to read these threads? I know better.

As my wife ages, her throat gets shallower..Or do I get bigger!?!?

yeah.......my GFs have tried as well.....but that damn gag reflex. It scares the fuck out of me to....jsut invision them gagging and then clamping down on the cock.....so its not a good trade off. Girls can go practice all they want on some other guy. Then when they get it down.....I'd love to see what they can do.

my girl could deepthroat me, but i told her not too
it just didn't feel good to me to press against her throat
its better if she concentrates on the top not the base

Hubby says that having an orgasm in my throat is mind blowing. Sorry! ;)

Deepthroating takes work to learn, or at least it did for me. I think it's worth it, because of the sense of accomplishment I feel when it is successfully performed (meant without gagging) and the pleasure I know I am giving.

Hubby not too big, just over seven inches, and I learned on him. That, however, only got me to be able to get him all the way in, but not hold him in there. Gag, gag, gag...

What we did was purchase a dildo. It's about fifteen inches long. I'd practice with that every day in private. Then one day, I called hubby into the bedroom, took it out, and swallowed all but about the last three or four inches.

My girlfriend and I were talking (she hates giving oral), and I told her about my new accomplishment. She didn't believe me, so I showed her. She said she still didn't believe me - not that I couldn't do it, but that I would even try.

A few weeks ago hubby and I bought this twelve inch dildo that's a lot thicker (nearly three inches compared with less than two). I can now take about seven inches of it without gagging, and will not quit until I can do the same with the remaining five.

I showed my girlfriend my new toy. She doesn't think what I know I will be able to do soon is even possible. I can't wait until I can prove her wrong.

Solla

I guess everyone needs a hobby. I'm sure this beats knitting.

To me an enthusiastic BJ is better then DT. DT is more of an emotional thing, like YEAH she took the WHOLE thing!! My wife can do it one way (69 position) but not just giving me a BJ. It feels better when she gives me an enthusiastic BJ. That's just me.

I think it depends on the type of sexual relationship you have developed with someone. Relationships have layers and sex is just one layer. In any case, DT isn't some sexual nirvana. If you keep your expectations realistic, you won't be disappointed; plus, depending on your size, it’s not the most physically pleasing thing for a woman to do. And please don't base your expectation on what you see in movies (porn). Even though porn "actors" are light-years away from Academy Award status (in terms of talent), they are acting to some degree. Moreover, make sure you're giving while your getting.

There are lots more fun things to do with a cock and a mouth than shoving it as far down the esophagus as you can manage.

I'd much rather get one of my wifes frenzied "gotta suck it now" blowjobs than have her ruin the mood by trying to deepthroat me and failing.

I can deepthroat. Sometimes he asks for it. I think it's more of an "oh my God, she can do it!" thing than a pleasure thing, but it's something I've worked hard to be able to do, and I'm glad I can do it.

^^^
:lol: hehehehehehehehe

Deepthroating is all about learning to relax your muscles and your gag reflex. Some people can do it with ease and others it's just not possible if they have a small jaw or a strong gag reflex.

i personally enjoy doing it, my husband says it's very intense.

Sweetpea

DT in and off itself isn't great. It's technique/skill/enthusiasm. Better a good standard BJ than a bad DT. Wait a minute, a bad DT ... ok, no such thing, but you know what I mean.

I've never been Deep Throated, and could really care less if it ever happens, outside of the usual 'I wonder what it's like' thing. I'd just be happy to get head of some kind on a somewhat frequent basis. :)

Edit: Punctuation > Me

Every now and then when I really get into it, I go all the way down and for a second I am really shocked. Then, once I start thinking about it, I can't do it. I don't know if it's a mental/psychological thing, or if just not thinking about it relaxes your throat. Either way I don't really care, honestly, I don't see the need to deep throat. It's never been requested.

i can deepthroat... i have great control over my gag reflex.... i give good head... not cramming cock down my throat... i pay special attention to every detail... but i love the look on my mans face when i take him all the way... see his eyes about pop out when i lick him while stuffed full or i start massaging him with my throat muscles

my gf only deepthroats me when she doesnt want to taste my man juice and wants me to come in her mouth (very.. very... very.. rare)

My wife does it and it's great. I could live without it, but as others have said the sensation it gives is amazing. she'll be going along doing the usual thing and then bam.. two or three deepthroat strokes and then back to normal.. she has actually deepthroated while I was cuming and that was differnt.. good, but differnt.

Oh, nosir, there IS such a thing.

I got blown by one young woman who could take me WAY down her throat, but you'd never know it if you weren't watching. All I could feel were her lips around the base of my cock--everything else inside her mouth was wide open and not even touching me. I don't quite know how that's physically possible, but there it is. A few minutes of that and there was a lot less of me to deep-throat. :eek:

lurkette gives a brilliant blowjob, and she follows the already-discussed model of throwing in a couple really deep strokes in the middle of things. S'good.

That's about what I do...I deepthroat in the middle so that it gives a hint of surprise. The key to a good deepthroat is to remember that you have a TONGUE. USE IT. :)