Yellow Tulip

It's the only way to be, darling.

Halx

Appreciated. I'm just surprised. Usually it takes a certain comfort level on both sides before these comments start flying.

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little_tippler

I love to watch. It's very sexy to see how a man pleasures himself. I can't do it myself in front of a guy though. That is one hurdle I have yet to overcome. But I'm working on it!

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SabrinaFair

Watching a guy pleasure himself doesn't repulse me, but I wouldn't say it's my favorite thing on the menu.

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Lindy

I find it kind of hard to believe that he's jerking off for me. And when he's down on me I'm not much aware of his hands unless they're doing something with my nipples.
Be that as it may, I've always liked to watch a guy jerk it, (but you'll still never convince me that he's not doing it for himself) and I like to help too! My first sexual experiences were hand jobs. I like to watch it squirt, and the way he just loses himself when that happens. It is different from the way he cums when I get him off by hand. I like it when he jerks his cock while I mouth his balls and tongue his anus. I like to watch him jerk it when I drape my tits around his cock, with a little lube, maybe. Kind of a combo jerk off with titfuck.

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maudlinae

I cannot stand it when my guy masturbates in front of me. Not in the sense that I don't like it, of course. Exactly the opposite! It absolutely drives me crazy. He doesn't get very far.
On the other hand, I'm a bit shy about being watched, though I'll do it with no problems.

Jenna

I love it. We watch each other masturbate fairly often... mainly in the shower (easier clean up), because it is a twist from sex. I just like seeing the way he plays with himself, the way he "ticks."

LordEden

The last girl I was having sex with on a regular basis with loved it, she asked to watch me do it all the time. She also had a lot of toys to use on her self so I loved watching her. I won't just whip it out and start going to town in front of a girl, but if she is up for it, I am too (Pun intended).

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skizziks

damn, why dont i meet girls like you?

curiousbear

a long time fantasy of mine
when was your first time masturbation? when and how it happened the first time you masturbated for someone?
does the age, company and circumstance that makes some one comfortable to learn such a thing or is it the personality, sex drive and sexual preference of the individual?

Vigilante

Really? Marriage doesn't mean you get every time you want it . I'm lucky if my wife is in the mood once a week. I rub one out once or twice a day. No way in hell she could keep up, it's not physically possible for her.

I do agree on getting it over with though. Sometimes it's fun to get off solo, and sometimes it's just that you're in the mood and if your SO is grouchy or something, it's better to avoid the hassle (or wait) and do it yourself.

For us it's no big thang. She's seen me do it a thousand times and I've seen her do it many times as well.

I do remember one instance in high school though, that I look back on and laugh. I was dating this girl, although it was more like friends with benefits really. We skipped morning classes one time to hook up under the bleachers at the baseball field. I had my pants down and her's as well, and we were grinding and macking when I reached under to stroke it a couple of times. She stopped and looked at me and said you jack off, don't you??. At our ages now I'd say well...DUHHH, but back then we were both living at the orphanage I was placed in during the time. Jacking off was one of those "don't ask don't tell" things that the guys refused to speak of, and if it did come up, you'd get in a fight to prove it wasn't true. Everyone did it, and since we lived 4 to a room, NO ONE ever confessed.

Anyways, when she said that I had to get defensive and say NO! and continue with our making out, but the mood was going sour. Next thing I know there's a couple of kids we live with walking by who hadn't seen us yet. I somehow flew up, did a twist in the air over a diagonal steel support beam and ended up in the next support section of the frame, with my pants up and zipped. It was amazing. I wish I could move like that now LOL. That was more the highlight of the day than making out with Fay. We never made out again. Haha!

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Anormalguy

Assuming that the OP means cumming as well, it all depends.

If it's a situation where my wife doesn't mind not getting any after I blow (I usually need recovery time to get it back up), she very much enjoys the show. Her favorite parts are when I'm getting close, & the ejaculation. Of course those are situations when toys come in handy (intentional pun) for her. We sometimes have mutual masturbation sessions that include me cumming, but she usually gets so hot she stops me so that we can have intercourse.

Sometimes she's fine with me teasing her with a full show when I know that she doesn't have the time and/or absolutely isn't the mood for sex, but that only happens when I'm really wanting some relief.

We had been married for a few years before I was comfortable, relatively speaking, masturbating in front of my wife. She was much quicker to relax & go solo in front of me.

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paparora

My ex doesnt...whenever I did it, shes like dont do that shit in front of me lol. so i have to often had to sleep with blue ballz cuz i cant bust while getting a bj, and she wont give me a handjob ahhhhh. i broke up with her last week.