Oral sex after marriage?
 

I keep hearing lots of people say that there is no oral sex after marriage, specifically that married women don't give head. I am lucky enough to have a wife who is more than willing to go down on me, so I am just wondering how lucky am I? Is there any truth to this myth?

Ya, for the five min. of silence! HAHahAHHAHAHAHHAHAHHA im so funny,

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not married... but if she blew me before we exchanged vows I don't see why that'd change after the fact.

i have been married for 3 years and i still give head....:)

15 years.............lottsa head.

why would it change?

I have also heard many people say that after you are married that most ladies don't give head anymore. I'm a married woman and I gave my husband head before we got married and I continue to do so now. I love to do it. :)

it's pretty regular in our sex life, going both ways

my hubby gets head almost everytime we have sex :D

If activity changes from before to after you're married, then there are some obvious communication issues there. To me, that says that the activity was undertaken as a way to "keep" the other person and now that they're married it's no longer "required." That's a failure just waiting to happen as far as I see it.

At most, I can understand marriage making things happen MORE often rather than less often.

If a couple partakes in oral sex before marriage, there's no reason to stop after they're married. Just because they're married it doesn't mean they're restricted to standard intercourse

not married (yet) but i give my bf head pretty much whenever he wants it, and i plan on doing that for the rest of our lives :)

i don't understand why marriage should change that.

So, that's my problem. Thanks. You just saved me hundreds of dollars in therapy.

THANKS FOR MAKING THE HORRIBLE VISION OF MY PARENTS HAVING SEX A MILLION TIMES WORSE.

No complaints from this married guy! One interesting item: When we were dating, I gave my wife (girlfriend then, obviously) more oral sex than I recieved from her. Now that we are married, that has flipped...I get more than I give. And thats not because I've slowed down, but because she's picked up the pace.

My wife did it alot when we were first dating, after we got married it slowly went down hill, now she doesn't do it at all and she gags at the mention of it. oh well..................

even more and more now :D

it's a regular and much-appreciated part of normal relations....

It's only gotten better and more frequent after the vows... Been married 8 years.

:) same here :) w00t!

O.K. <b><i>why</b></i> are you envisioning your parents having sex? Hmmmm...

Oh, and I get even more oral since we got married...crap, 8 years ago, next tuesday. :D

Not sure it's the marriage thing that kills it or the child thing. I often get oral action, but only as foreplay. The last time I received a complete oral Shangrila was before my 8-year-old daughter was born. And it's not as if I don't readily and happily provide oral services. Sucks (or rather doesn't) to be me.

I love her to death, but it sucks when your GF has TNJ. (or TMJ? One or the other... it still sucks.)

I have pretty bad case of TMJ. Doesn't really affect me giving him head. If it's marathon oral my jaw might be a little sore but I put up with it. http://www.click-smilies.de/sammlung...smiley-083.gif

What is TMJ? and TNJ?
Before I get married can I legally make some sort of contract that gaurantees me head at least 3 times a week? Or am I just living in a fantasy world. I want it twice a day but would settle for 3 times a week.
Also I just noticed that I only reply in threads that have to do with sex. Tsk Tsk Tsk.

I agree with Secret Method and laugh at Shokan :p

Dunno guys. Seems like most of you on here still receive oral pleasure as a regular part of your lives.
I'm not married, but I've been in a relationship for a few years now, and I honestly can't remember the last time she went down on me. I guess that wouldn't be too much of a problem if the absence was reciprocal, but it's not. I love going down on her, so that happens quite often.
I've just come to the conclusion that she doesn't like giving head. Sucks, but could be worse: she could not like me.

I don't even get it before marriage :(

Getting head has stopped here! Married 15 years. Got it lots before thou. Not sure the real reason either. Just kids and having quickies all the time probably.

after 3 kids and five years of marrige the head just keeps getting better and better.

I don't know why things would change just cos you got married?

I for one plan to give just as much head as I do now when we tie the knot! :D

I never get tired of giving/recieveing head and neither will Shyla :)

HELL YES! My wife sucks me off all the time. It may have something to do with the fact that we did oral sex for almost a year before we had intercourse. I was her first guy, but damn, she was a natural! :thumbsup: She even swallowed the first time! :eek: We've been doing it ever since and yes, I return the favor most enthusiasticly. :D

If anything, she's more into it and better at it now (almost 5 years after we got married) than she was before.

Hell, her first sex act as a married woman was to give me a bj while still in her wedding dress. I will never forget that!

I still get it as foreplay, but since we've started doing the actual deed, not to completion anymore. More my choice than her's, too.

My girlfriend says she will do it after we get married... but that's prolly what they all say huh =\

Hey legolas, if you're worried about not getting it, have it put in a pre-nup. :D

Hmmm...awesome mental imagery there.

Yeah, It burned itself into my psyche as it was occuring. She doesn't understand why it's such a big deal. I keep explaining that it pretty much fulfilled what every guy's fantasy of what the wedding night should be.

I keep wondering what I did in a past life to deserve my wife, because as I remember it she finished blowing me, then we got changed and went out to a diner for some food, then came back and had more sex.

Have I mentioned I love my wife more than modern language is capable of describing?

Tell her that the next time you see her :) Or better yet, give her a call now...

She'd accuse me of being sappy, especially since she gets that from me on at least a weekly basis.

Honestly, she's one of the good ones, and I let her know it every chance I get.