conor

For me and my wife its a minimum of 2.

Once before we get up for work ( thats the one i enjoy most) and once before we go to bed at night. Some times it could be 2 or 3 times before bed.

We have been together for 9 years now and married 5 years 4 months and have had sex the equivalent of twice a day for the 9 years!

What about you?

And I just want to say I love her very much.

Conor

ruggerp11

1.5 with the gf that I live with? It's hard to approximate but it's often more than once. Twice today!

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blktour

twice a week... nuff said.

Starkizzer

Depends on the day/week. Sometimes we are very busy, tired, and stressed from school and work. It also doesn't help that I'm not a morning person and hes not a night person.
Weekends are our best time, on a good weekend we can get in about 3-4 times.

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CinnamonGirl

hmmm... at least three, unless we're supertired, every day. It's been like that for the past two years and...three months. Give or take a couple days.

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Halx

I dunno. Like.. 30? Yeah, I sit here all day and fuck. I'm hooked up to an IV to keep going.

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Bear Cub

Couple times a year. Hard when you're 1700 miles away.

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Vigilante

Times a day? HAHAHAHA.

I spank it every day, with additional sex once a week or so. The realities of marriage.

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fresnelly

Minimum 2 times a day? How long have you been married? Just curious.

We've been married for almost 9 years and what with the kids and jobs and whatnot we're down to a few times a month. Quality if not quantity.

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Nisses

I have to wonder what else you guys still do besides fuck?

By the time everything gets done, sorted, and you manage to make a little bit of time for something other than duties and work, I usually feel mostly like sleeping.
So for obvious reasons, most sex tends to happen during the weekends, or on thursday, since I can't be arsed to give work my full 100% on a Friday

Make it 2 times a week just about.

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digme

Once a week. I could probably handle twice a day, but it takes two to tango and all that...

snowy

Depends on what else is going on, but we usually manage a few times a week. And he wants sex in the morning and I want sex at night, so sometimes we have to wait until our libidos magically align. Typically this happens at about 6 o'clock in the evening or 9am in the morning, and so then it's a matter of other obligations--going to work, going out with friends--getting in the way. Sex is great and all, but I don't have the time to have it twice a day on a regular basis, or the fortitude.

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Xerxys

A day???? Like once every two weeks, also doesnt help if you diont have a GF, dont like clubs so much and work 80hrs a week!! My apatment looks cool though.... empty, but cool, nontheless...........

Anormalguy

In recent weeks, maybe twice a week.

Lots of stress on several fronts (very long story) = not much sex.

mixedmedia

I'm in a kinda, sorta long distance relationship.

But when I'm with him it's about 3-5 times a day.

I figure, in a live-in relationship with him we would average .5-1 times a day...

.5 accounting for other intercourse-related sexual activities.

In any other relationship? I wouldn't know.

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curiousbear

Sex was rare. once or twice in a month. In past one month after taking some steps (tfp membership is one among them) our sex life is greatly improved. Now it is 2 to 5 times a week, mostly intense ones and of variety.

ItWasMe

Married 13 years...right now, somewhere between 1-3 times daily. We've had dry spells, especially with new babies or when he's gone with the army.

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MSD

None

dlish

have you gone celibate MSD?

i dont have sex and i dont masturbate. i do have 7 kids from 4 different wives though

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ItWasMe

If you don't get dressed in between, does it only count as one, or do I get to count them all? What if they're hours apart but you still don't get dressed in between?

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dlish

i dont think the definition of sex refers to the existance or non existance of clothes..

so yes you can count them all IWM!

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MSD

No, I'm just not trying hard enough (no pun intended.)

jewels

Long distance relationship right now. We see each other for a couple of days every 2 - 4 weeks. I guess we try to make up for lost time and missing each other but it nearly always turns into 2 - 6 hour sessions. .

When we lived together two or three years ago, it was average of about two or three times per day for almost two years. We definitely have something incredible together.

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telekinetic

Threads like this remind me of 'how big is your cock?' threads that are against the rules...plenty of room for exaggeration, no real information being exchanged, a few people being honest, a few people actually honestly getting way above average, and no discussion.

Yawn.

jewels

It can go the other way, too.

My first marriage, we had sex once a year.

The second, maybe two or three times a week.

Everyone's relationships vary. I think that's the whole point.

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FlatLand Flyer

With myself, usually once per day.

With the wife, we average once every 2 and 1/2 weeks....maybe longer.

Vigilante

My mind and body tend to work against stress. For instance when I get stressed, one day I might have sex or jerk once, but the next day or 2 I'll do it 3 or 4 times a day. If I reverse and libido goes down, I get very cranky for the next 24-48 hours, then level off. That almost never happens unless I have a really bad cold, though.

Wife is the opposite though, she wanes with stress. She has surprised me a few times, but she doesn't process stress vs sex like I do.

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Jenna

I'd say 3-5 times per week. Sometimes 2, sometimes 7.

After 4 years.

Willravel

Do multiples count as one or once for each?

conor

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Two points to be made here.

1. The mods can and probably will lock this if it's against the rules.
2. If you don't want to read it, don't.
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one for each

Nisses

conor:
Twistedmosaic didn't say that it's against the rules, just reminiscent of that type of threads, and added the arguments why.

Also, you can't un-read something

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abaya

I'm not going to lock this, but I will say that there are several others threads that are very similar to this one, and we would appreciate you using the Search function to find those before starting your own thread.

Married Sex-WTF?

Sex after 10 years

Sex: How many times a week?

It's a very common topic, and the way you wrote your OP did not contribute anything particularly original... I think that was Twisted's only point. Why not discuss maybe how you manage to keep up your frequency of sex, or if there have been challenges in the past, etc?... something to make it more interesting.

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Cynosure

That reminds me: During the first year of my first marriage (I was 21, back then), my wife and I put a penny in a jar set beside the bed, every time we had sex. Then, during the subsequent years, we were supposed to take a penny out, every time we had sex. However, after 3-4 years of marriage (during which time we had a baby), there were still pennies in that jar, because we had neglected taking them out, just as we neglected having sex.

Anormalguy

Pretty much the same here...I find sex to be a great stress reliever, but when my wife is stressed it's the last thing on her mind. I'm a strong believer in foreplay and making sure that she enjoys making love, but sometimes even my best efforts can't get her to relax enough to really enjoy it .

lostgirl

At least once a day.

Sometimes I get lucky and can get 2-4 times in a day.

curiousbear

I think the ones who know how to enjoy themselves (self foreplay, masturbation) are the ones with whom our efforts will work! Well again I know just only one female that close.

anti fishstick

uhhh lately havent for 1 month or more... we've never been able to keep it up daily. the most was 3-4x a week... usually on weekends. yeah the month long abstinence is killing me.

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curiousbear

I remember a video in Tittyboard showing a girl having sex in rear position on all fours using a wall-mounted dildo (guess it has a vaccum holder at the base). Thought she must be a real enthusiast!!! You know what I mean, that kind of action comes only with so much thought, feeling and interest.
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thats terrible. no phonex, cam, ..???

anti fishstick

we live together. obviously, going through a tough time..

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