Adopt-a-kink
 

It has come to my attention that you people aren't sexually open enough. Well, we can't have a forum that revolves around sexuality with all of its participants pointing their noses up at deviant sexual practices, now can we? In this thread, we will all pledge to try out a new kink. We might even add our thoughts and previous experiences with said kink. Within a week, we will try out our new kink and then come back and tell all about it.

Here is a list of kinks that you can choose one, or make up your own!
anal play
anal sex
exhibitionism
voyeurism
web cam sex
cyber sex
phone sex
food play
costume play
spanking
whipping
paddling
bondage
blind-folding
peeing
public sex
public flashing
nipple clamps
butt-plugs
anal beads
day-wear vibrators
foot fetish
dominant/submissive
saddles
fisting
enemas
chastity harnesses
group sex
cuckolding
talking dirty
glory holes
strap-ons

Which one do you pledge?

What's a saddle?

Otherwise, I've done and/or participated in most everything on that list, other than fisting and chastity harnesses (does it count that I had an evangelical stick up my ass for most of my sexually formative years?). I don't think I'll ever be in the mood for fisting, but how does the chastity harness work for a woman?

Oh wait, I haven't tried day-wear vibrators... that would be fun, but won't be able to find one in Iceland anytime soon. And what exactly does voyeurism entail, just in case my definition is different?

Voyeurism could be as simple as going to a sex-show... or attending a sex party and just watching.

ahahahahaha Im not sexually open enough? oh god THATS funny

Actually, I've already embraced 18 of those kinks. I've done my fair share!

I'm just not interested in the ones I haven't done.

And you could add group sex to your list...

I have a feeling that the "sexually open" among us are all going to reply to this thread, whilst those who are not so open, will simply lurk and not share--and that's their right. It's kind of a self-selecting bias, unfortunately (even though this is the TFP, which means we all should be talking about sex more often!!!). :)

Is that on Hal's list? :lol:

No, but it should be!!! :lol:

Anal play. Taken.

I added group sex and cuckolding

Foot fetish... but you all knew that.

Yeah, WK, we need something NEW from you.

and Shani, try not to make the newbies uncomfortable. Be encouraging.

I like having my asshole licked while I jerk off.



Does that count?

lol you said "you people", you didnt specify!!

Im always encouraging and I will be MORE than happy to help and encourage on the first 23 things on that list (specially the ones that pertain to bdsm)

Shani, you were a big help to us, back in the day... :thumbsup:

But we knew that about you. Try harder.

Yeah... I got nothing.

You left out switching sexes (straight play gay or vice versa), swapping partners, and threesomes, which are not quite the same as group sex. ;)

This is about where I'm at, give or take a couple kinks. The ones that remain are ones I haven't participated in because they're not my bag, nor are they likely to be.

Sorry, Hal...I'm already kinky enough.

I pledge fisting.

It was the next goal on my agenda anyway....

Besides, I've done everything else on the list.

Well, I've already done many of these, and consider myself fairly kinky. The only one I really never had the opportunity to experience is group sex. So, I pledge to try this one out.

I'm clearly a lightweight - I've only done 11 of them, but there's a few others that don't leave me cold so I may try.

You left out talking dirty whilst NOT on the phone or net...

I think you're all bluffing.

Don't worry Daniel_, I'm lighter than that... I count 8, and that's a POSSIBLE 8. TM is down with the public sex, so maybe that'll happen next. Hmmm...

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Wait, is glory holing a kink? I mean, it seems like a pretty kinky way to get off from both sides. It's not one that I recommend, per se... but perhaps it should be on the list.

Or snowballing?

Um, nope.

Why is "bisexuality" a kink, btw? Does that mean that being gay is "kinky," too? :orly:

You also forgot strap-ons, btw.

Most of the recent threads have been about things like snowballing. I've done plenty of things on the list, but nothing that comes out down there, goes in up top. Ick.

well.. I've tried many of those already..

maybe I can get the wife to try some that she hasn't.

however, I will not do the foot-fetish, peeing or enema. not even remotely sexy to me. feet are just gross.

I think that one might have been my doing. It's not bisexuality, per se. It's just flirting with or trying what's not the norm for you. If you're gay, then trying someone of the opposite sex would be the kink. If you're straight and not bi, then the same sex would be it.

Wouldn't strap-ons be related as well?

I think bi-sexuality can be a kink, but not necessarily, I suppose.

anal play xx
anal sex xx
exhibitionism x
voyeurism
web cam sex x
cyber sex x
phone sex x
food play x (ended badly with im2smrt4u having a star shaped wound near his eye, reddi whip can)
costume play
spanking xx
whipping
paddling
bondage x do handcuffs count?
blind-folding x
peeing x
public sex
public flashing
nipple clamps
butt-plugs x
anal beads
day-wear vibrators
foot fetish
dominant/submissive x
saddles
fisting (tried did not go well)
enemas
chastity harnesses
group sex
cuckolding
talking dirty x
glory holes
strap-ons xx

We have been wanting to try pony play...I think it looks fun. Does saddles fall into pony play? Problem is to get really into it I wanna buy the pony gear but its expensive.

Yes...saddles, carriage whips, horsetail butt plugs...yes. :)

I've never done it, either, but it's definitely interesting. Especially aesthetically...

meh. can't even get to number two with my SO, as number one there is completely out of the question.

How about for yourself?

Ah, so kind of bi-curious, rather than actually bisexual? I could kind of see that. Related to what?... bisexuality? I don't see it as related at all, really... I can see it being maybe related to domination and power, a kind of role-switching (and it also stimulates a very pleasurable area), but not related to sexuality/gender.
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Someone still needs to tell me about the saddle thing... I have never heard of it.

does analingus fall into the anal play area, or is that just fingers?

I believe analingus is anal play, along with fingers and toys. That's just a guess, though.
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Ponyplay is a subgroup of the BDSM scene that roleplays horses and their masters. Both males and females play both roles, but I am partial to the 'ponygirls.' The scene was popularized by Anne Rice's 'Beauty' books.

Ponies will carry riders and pull carts and carriages (in groups) and generally act very much like ponies.

People who play this way usually take it very, very seriously...as you can imagine. :)

anal play X
anal sex X
exhibitionism X
voyeurism X
web cam sex X
cyber sex X
phone sex X
food play X
costume play X
spanking X
whipping X
bondage X
blind-folding X
peeing (GROSS)
public sex X
public flashing X
nipple clamps
butt-plugs X
anal beads
day-wear vibrators
foot fetish
dominant/submissive X
saddles
fisting
enemas
chastity harnesses
group sex
cuckolding
talking dirty X
glory holes
strap-ons

Does a Sex Swing count? If so put me down for that, if not it's back to the drawing board.

It's playing with the anus, so yes.
Really? You're one of the last people I would expect to not own one of those.

I find it odd on this thread when some feel the need to say something is "ick" or "gross"--I mean, it's a kink thread. I'm sure a lot of things on this list could be considered "gross" by just about everyone, but that's not what the thread is about. Can we all accept that kink is going to be "out there" and possibly "icky" for the average person, and refrain on the judgments when discussing it here?

There was a Bones episode about pony play.

I am around real horses far too much to find pony play even remotely sexy. Yeeeeck.