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i never used to care about breasts before. but it seems lately i've found myself being attracted to tits, especially d - f cup. even if i see larger breasts in a magazine i get worked up.

are sexual tastes fixed or do they change over time?

World's King

How old are you?

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vanblah

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levite

Yeah, I think it's normal for sexual tastes to change a bit over time. Lots of people go through different phases, where they're more into one thing than another. If you haven't been a tit man, and you find that suddenly mondo snoobies put the cream in your twinkie, I think that's probably within the normal range.

On the other hand, radical changes in one's tastes overnight can be worrisome. If you've been plain vanilla man your whole life, and you wake up one morning with an overwhelming yen to get spanked while you're nailing a sheep, it could be helpful to consider a little personal re-evaluation....

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Willravel

Then again, you could have just discovered the secret of happiness.

Yes, it's normal. Follow it within reason and see where it leads.

Halx

I've been through this. Growing up, I had no interest in breasts or ass, but rather found the vagina to be incredibly erotic. Over time, that shifted and I began to view breasts as the one thing that got me going, while vaginas always needed a little... help. Then the sexual tastes broaden from liking to see naked girls, to preferring lesbians, to preferring hardcore sex, to bondage, to hentai... yes, sexual tastes change over time. Its actually kinda sad to know that the porn you're saving on your hard drive right now will probably do nothing for you a year or two down the road.

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Druidess

I find it very normal for your tastes to change as you age. Mine sure have. I don't think you have any need to worry... just enjoy it.

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PlanG

I imagine it's due to a need for variety.

A parallel could be drawn with music, where many people will love a band for a few years, but after listening to their stuff so much, they get bored and want to move on (despite still liking the older band.. just less so).

Punk.of.Ages

I'd go as far as to say it's abnormal for your tastes to stay the same your whole life. That means you're not evolving, I'd think.

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Dano069

Yeah, it's normal. Different things catch your eye over the years. I've gone from being a "the bigger the better" to "I like 'em all" kind of guy. I used to not likes butts so much but I find as I get older, I appreciate a nice, round butt. It's normal, don't sweat it. Besides, breasts are wonderful!

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Around 5-6 years ago, XXX porn didn't even appeal to me. Now, I'd consider trying anything that doesn't involve bodily fluids/excrement, fucking other guys, or fully alternative lifestyles, and most porn involving solo women and no props barely gets me aroused. My tastes have definitely evolved and developed over time as I've gotten older and seen/done more.

Atreides88

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I've noticed that my tastes have changed over time. Usually it been from the influence of sexual partners. I used to be very vanilla, and then a paramour opened me up to rough, kinky sex and I have never been the same.

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sound chaser

thanks everyone. at least now i know it's normal!

neflyte

I'm actually kind of curious to find out what my sexual tastes will evolve into down the road. I'm a spandex fetishist right now (I'll do almost /anyone/ if they wear it), but I've found that a little light bondage works for me as well. Perhaps that part will blossom. Should be interesting...

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Ayashe

I can think of a multitude of things that I would not have found attractive or arousing years before that really gets me going now.

toxic515

I find 40 year old women immensely more attractive than I did at 17, does that count?? OOH, and 17 year old girls, not so attractive to me now. ( and to be clear, I'm certain that they're not nearly as attracted to me as they were way back when.)

I find, somewhat to my amusement, that the women that I find most attractive resemble, in some way, my wife. I mean other than they have breasts, 2 feet, that sort of obvious thing. I think as I've grown with her, I've also grown more and more attracted to her. and yes, that's a change. It doesn't mean that I do not see other women and find them attracted, just that my ideal has evolved over time.

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mixedmedia

I know mine have changed and are still changing.

I started out pretty 'normal,' have considered myself submissive for much of my adult life and have recently started fantasizing about light domination. I've also been seriously reflecting on sex with women, which was something I considered a total turn-off just a few years ago.

So, yes, things change.

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grumpyolddude

Not only do tastes change, if you last long enough they rotate back around on a regular, non-sequential basis, sorta like women's fashions.

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sound chaser

28. Why do you ask?

Scotian.

Sure, I use to like skinny women, then that changed to chubby women. Now I just don't care all that much about size.