Pleasing a Mormon... Or: What the fuck have I (not) gotten myself into? - Page 2 - Tilted Forum Project Discussion Community

MSD · 06-06-2008, 11:41 AM

I was devoutly religious for most of my life. I had an unhealthy attitude toward sex during that time, and only recently can I say that the residual subconscious inhibitions are really gone. It took me 6 years from the time I left the church to get to this point. If she starts then stops when she feels guilty, she wants to, she just needs time to get used to it. If you really want to stay with her and she's starting to open up, I think you'll find a common ground.

You're being a big man about it and the fact that you're being so reasonable and accommodating of her beliefs is admirable.

Spoiler: and once you break a Mormon girl out of her shell, you're in for a hell of a ride, and will understand what sexual exhaustion is

Lasereth · 06-06-2008, 03:15 PM

Why don't you tell her that God and Jesus aren't real, that you only live once, and that you should get busy?

I guess that wouldn't work. But logically it's what you should do.

DaveOrion · 06-06-2008, 03:33 PM

You can please some of the Mormons all of the time & All of the Mormons some of the time, but you cant please all of the Mormons all of the time. Better get a cat.

Redjake · 06-10-2008, 04:34 PM

Some times you just need to take initiative. Put the fear of GOD in her, son, and don't look back. Doggy style would be best.

hmaxwell · 06-25-2008, 01:29 AM

RetroGunslinger,

Obvious as this sounds, one thing you can do in this situation is listen to her. One thing I have found is that women love guys who listen, and the more you listen, the more they open up to you. Talk to her about everything you can think of. Without being pushy or suggestive, talk about how Mormons treat sex and intimacy. Make her laugh. Maybe even be a little perverted, sometimes. You'll find that conversation in and of itself can be very intimate and sexually satisfying, when done right.

My fianceé, while not Mormon, was much the same as your girl for the first year or so of our relationship. It's been about three years since then, and she's mentioned several times that "the factor" that led her to chose me as her SO was that I took the time to really get to know her. She's mentioned that it's very common for more conservatively raised girls to wait for that "very special someone who understands me" before offering treats.

But yes, as several people have mentioned, once a very repressed, conservative girl opens up to you, you will suddenly have a very wild, sexually demanding girl on your hands, who is willing to try and like almost anything you want. But as long as you let her know that you care for her, she's yours. Don't abuse that trust.

Good luck!

06-06-2008, 03:33 PM	#43 (permalink)
DaveOrion Playing With Fire Location: Disaster Area	You can please some of the Mormons all of the time & All of the Mormons some of the time, but you cant please all of the Mormons all of the time. Better get a cat. __________________ *Syriana*...have you ever tried liquid MDMA?....Liquid MDMA? No....Arash, when you wanna do this?.....After prayer...

06-10-2008, 04:34 PM	#44 (permalink)
Redjake I'm a family man - I run a family business. Location: Wilson, NC	Some times you just need to take initiative. Put the fear of GOD in her, son, and don't look back. Doggy style would be best. __________________ Off the record, on the q.t., and very hush-hush.

06-06-2008, 11:41 AM	#41 (permalink)
MSD The sky calls to us ... Super Moderator Location: CT	I was devoutly religious for most of my life. I had an unhealthy attitude toward sex during that time, and only recently can I say that the residual subconscious inhibitions are really gone. It took me 6 years from the time I left the church to get to this point. If she starts then stops when she feels guilty, she wants to, she just needs time to get used to it. If you really want to stay with her and she's starting to open up, I think you'll find a common ground. You're being a big man about it and the fact that you're being so reasonable and accommodating of her beliefs is admirable. Spoiler: and once you break a Mormon girl out of her shell, you're in for a hell of a ride, and will understand what sexual exhaustion is

06-06-2008, 03:15 PM	#42 (permalink)
Lasereth Knight of the Old Republic Location: Winston-Salem, NC	Why don't you tell her that God and Jesus aren't real, that you only live once, and that you should get busy? I guess that wouldn't work. But logically it's what you should do.

06-25-2008, 01:29 AM	#45 (permalink)
hmaxwell Upright	RetroGunslinger, Obvious as this sounds, one thing you can do in this situation is listen to her. One thing I have found is that women love guys who listen, and the more you listen, the more they open up to you. Talk to her about everything you can think of. Without being pushy or suggestive, talk about how Mormons treat sex and intimacy. Make her laugh. Maybe even be a little perverted, sometimes. You'll find that conversation in and of itself can be very intimate and sexually satisfying, when done right. My fianceé, while not Mormon, was much the same as your girl for the first year or so of our relationship. It's been about three years since then, and she's mentioned several times that "the factor" that led her to chose me as her SO was that I took the time to really get to know her. She's mentioned that it's very common for more conservatively raised girls to wait for that "very special someone who understands me" before offering treats. But yes, as several people have mentioned, once a very repressed, conservative girl opens up to you, you will suddenly have a very wild, sexually demanding girl on your hands, who is willing to try and like almost anything you want. But as long as you let her know that you care for her, she's yours. Don't abuse that trust. Good luck!