Nisses

I think I I think I can see a KPAX-shaped hole in the door where he ran through to get as far away as possible from this thread.

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Yeah, I didn't wanna be the one to say it.

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Starshine

I was sooooo confused when someone left me "Cupcake!!!" as a comment/link here on my art thread....

But now i get it!

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Kpax

I’ve only been with this one girl. I just lost my virginity at 25, and was always conscious about being a virgin at such a “late” (late to pop culture) age.

That’s why I take it so seriously.

I am trying to break free, though, even if this is the only girl I know. She won’t tell you the truth, even when she has no reason to lie. She is plain untrustworthy, but lust always makes me forget that.

I wondered about it because between the two of us, she was always the one insisting on my using a condom. So, these past two times when she didn't have any, I assumed that she felt that the "ensuing act" wasn't sex, which made me think one thing that has happened before: another man in her life.

Like I said, she never tells you anything. Given the responses here I've been alerted to a very sobering thought, and I will now be the one that insists on the condom. Better yet, maybe mind will prevail over heart and I can break free.

World's King

I think you need to stay away from girls.



At least till you figure a few things out.

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allaboutmusic

She was right.

With all due respect, you need another brain in your head. Where do you get this stuff?! Maybe she was just sick of you pestering her to have condomless sex, and decided that a baby's whining couldn't possibly be any annoying or unreasonable than yours.

pig

Is this real? I can't type anything in response to this.

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Martian

There was a popular theory for a while that Kpax is actually someone's idea of performance art. I don't know if anyone still believes it.

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mixedmedia

Actually, I'm still a believer. Or a skeptic. Depending on how you look at it.

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Halx

I see we've abandoned all attempts to respond to this in a reasonable manner.

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Push-Pull

I'll try to add something reasonable to help KPax....

Dude, some things in life are NOT worth it. I mean it's simple math really...

Some chick you don't really like

+

Unprotected sex

=

Soooooooooo not worth it.


Go out, get an education/job/psychiatrist/money in the bank, and just forget about girls for a while. The problem with beating your head against the wall is that the wall REALLY doesn't care.......

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pig

And thus we come full circle, as I believe I was one of the people who originated that theory in chat many moons ago, after the infamous Ring story.

I don't mean to be a cad or any of that or necessarily belittle this K-pax persona - but I have trouble relating to this. If I don't think of my post as constituting a post....is it a post?

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Cynthetiq

especially if a kid pops out and you have to be tied to her for 18+ years minimum... you may as well commit a crime since jail time is finite and has a definite end date.

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World's King

It's just hard to believe that someone could be this naive.

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ItWasMe

KPAX, don't feel bad. I'm in my...um...30's again, and I had to ask one of the TFP guys what a MILF is. I told him that Google searches just pointed to porn sites, but nothing actually said what one was. He probably laughed his ass off before answering me.

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Ustwo

You need better google skills

Try 'origin of the word milf' and its the first hit.

Likewise 'What is a rim job' gives the definition as the first hit.

Be specific

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Baraka_Guru

Or just go to Urban Dictionary. It's sometimes hit and miss, but at least it's a porn site workaround.

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ItWasMe

[QUOTE=Ustwo]You need better google skills
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Yea, looks like I do But I swear it wasn't that easy when I tried it a year ago. I could find examples but not the definition. And I didn't think to use an online dictionary. Silly me. Thanks, guys.

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MSD

Everyone read this. There will be a test.

http://www.thesexdictionary.com/

Kpax

I'm surprised how many here are completely unfamiliar with the mindset of a guy who loses his virginity so late, like I did. A bit of naivety and a promiscuous attitude are inevitable.

Look at all the movies out there, "Juno," "Knocked Up," "40 Year Old Virgin," etc. They can make a guy like me develop a complex, which is why "real" took priority over "safe" for me, when it comes to the matter.

I've either always did things that I thought would mean a permanent experience, or else would choose the opposite, which might not be as certain.

I lost all of my friends last summer and have been afraid of returning to the sedentary, solitary, long-hours-spent-online life that I had, but there's this girl, and then one I like at church.

I don't like this girl I got with, but she is the only girl and person I know now. I felt so guilty about it, but I've been too shy to approach this other girl at church. I was torn between deleting this "weekend" girl's number, and concentrate on my crush, but she could easily go for some other guy at church, more handsome and rich, and that would plunge me back to where I was... AND I wouldn't have the other girl's number. So, I got with her, felt really guilty, but also thought that I had done something in the best interest of my "social life," which is why I was so curious if it counted as "all the way." As guilty as I felt about it, I wondered if it even counted.

Does this make more sense now?

SecretMethod70

In short, no.

There are plenty of people who lose their virginity later in life who do not have the issues you do. And regardless of whether or not your issues are understandable, it doesn't change the fact that they are issues, and they need to be addressed. Preferably with a professional.

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allaboutmusic

Kpax, read my earlier post. I am a 27-year-old virgin, and counting. I fully expect to hit 30 a virgin.

Your "complexes" are due to your own insecurities. Having sex won't change them.