Miss Mango

Yes, unfortunately. He was really nice and easy to talk to. Give me a couple of drinks and well...it didnt last long. I realized he was just a nice guy, i.e. loser. I knew I was better than that.

genuinegirly

Nope. Can't say that I have. I can't imagine even trying.

__________________
"Sometimes I have to remember that things are brought to me for a reason, either for my own lessons or for the benefit of others." Cynthetiq

"violence is no more or less real than non-violence." roachboy

ratbastid

Nope.

uncle phil

yup...

__________________
"We were wrong, terribly wrong. (We) should not have tried to fight a guerrilla war with conventional military tactics against a foe willing to absorb enormous casualties...in a country lacking the fundamental political stability necessary to conduct effective military and pacification operations. It could not be done and it was not done."
- Robert S. McNamara
-----------------------------------------
"We will take our napalm and flame throwers out of the land that scarcely knows the use of matches...
We will leave you your small joys and smaller troubles."
- Eugene McCarthy in "Vietnam Message"
-----------------------------------------
never wrestle with a pig.
you both get dirty;
the pig likes it.

mixedmedia

yup...

__________________
Most people go through life dreading they'll have a traumatic experience. Freaks were born with their trauma. They've already passed their test in life. They're aristocrats. - Diane Arbus
PESSIMISM, n. A philosophy forced upon the convictions of the observer by the disheartening prevalence of the optimist with his scarecrow hope and his unsightly smile. - Ambrose Bierce

PonyPotato

No. Though personality, words, and behavior can indeed turn me on, finding the person physically attractive is usually what gets it all started.

__________________
"Without passion man is a mere latent force and possibility, like the flint which awaits the shock of the iron before it can give forth its spark."
— Henri-Frédéric Amiel

jewels

Yes. I've had a couple of men in my life that I didn't find attractive (as aquaintances or friends) but once I saw who they were inside, I saw them very differently and they became attractive and sexy to me.

__________________
We are always more anxious to be distinguished for a talent which we do not possess, than to be praised for the fifteen which we do possess.
Mark Twain

Sugarmouse

Yes I have. Most of my sex has been with folks I dont find 'physically' attractive however usually when I find someone attractive because of who they are, I begin to find them physically attractive also.

Other times,I have failed to find someone attractive at all, usually in a tired relationship and I have still slept with them. It happens.

I have to tune into someones mind to find them attractive physically.

__________________
Sugarmouse=Festered

ngdawg

Yes. They might not have been physically attractive standing around, but lying down, they were gods...
Used to be a "saying": "Ugly people make better lovers because they have to try harder." Compensation can be a wonderful thing.

Bill O'Rights

Slept with? No.

Woke up next to? Numerous times.


I kid. I kid.

__________________
"I distrust those people who know so well what God wants them to do because I notice it always coincides with their own desires." - Susan B. Anthony

"Hedonism with rules isn't hedonism at all, it's the Republican party." - JumpinJesus

It is indisputable that true beauty lies within...but a nice rack sure doesn't hurt.

Cynthetiq

never. my drunkologue didn't even have room for it since I was a staunch celibate at the time.

__________________
I don't care if you are black, white, purple, green, Chinese, Japanese, Korean, hippie, cop, bum, admin, user, English, Irish, French, Catholic, Protestant, Jewish, Buddhist, Muslim, indian, cowboy, tall, short, fat, skinny, emo, punk, mod, rocker, straight, gay, lesbian, jock, nerd, geek, Democrat, Republican, Libertarian, Independent, driver, pedestrian, or bicyclist, either you're an asshole or you're not.

ametc

Loads of times. There have been a few guys who I thought would be average, at best, but turned out to be Gods in the bedroom. Those guys weren't attractive, imo, but boy am I glad I didn't let their looks get in the way. :>

The hottest guy I've been with was alright. He was a bit too vanilla for me, though.

dirtyrascal7

Wait... I don't think you're communicating your thoughts clearly. It sounds like you're calling nice guys losers unless they're physically attractive.

Anyway, yeah... one of the girls I slept with I found very attractive mentally and emotionally, but physically she didn't really do it for me. We had a good time together though, so I don't regret it one bit.

__________________
"Tie yourself to your limitless potential, rather than your limiting past."

"Every man I meet is my superior in some way. In that, I learn of him."

Charlatan

yep.

__________________
"My hands are on fire. Hands are on fire. Ain't got no more time for all you charlatans and liars."
- Old Man Luedecke

Ustwo

Kinda...

If there is a scale with a yes and a no cut off, I've been with a couple that were JUST over the no point on the attraction scale.

__________________
Agents of the enemies who hold office in our own government, who attempt to eliminate our "freedoms" and our "right to know" are posting among us, I fear.....on this very forum. - host

Obama - Know a Man by the friends he keeps.

Push-Pull

Yup.

But she deep-throated and swallowed. Oh, and I was a teenager too. Not gonna let a little thing like physical attraction get in the way of getting some back then.....

__________________
"No laws, no matter how rigidly enforced, can protect a person from their own stupidity." -Me-

"Some people are like Slinkies..... They are not really good for anything, but they still bring a smile to your face when you push them down a flight of stairs." -Unknown-

DAMMIT! -Jack Bauer-

Plan9

This thread brought to you by ALCOHOL, the cause and cure for all of life's problems.

Alcohol, also known as One Night Stand Fuel, has been bringing random people together for hundreds and hundreds of years.

...

OP: Oh, it has happened. The thing that scares me the most though is how easy it was for me to file it under "PTSD therapy" to make self-excuses.

__________________
Whatever you can carry.

"You should not drink... and bake."

sapiens

Does sleeping alone count?

Plan9

Ooooo, modern emo existential melt-down! Nice.

__________________
Whatever you can carry.

"You should not drink... and bake."

sapiens

Ha!

Back to the OP: Does sharing a double bed in hotels with my sister when we were kids count?


Seriously: No, I have never slept with someone I didn't find physically attractive.

Plan9

See, the problem with this is that it doesn't take into account how many men will sheath their Jedi meatsaber in whatever piece of TonTon comes by on a Friday night. In the army we had a phrase for this type of activity... the kind of phrase that I don't really feel like ever repeating again. *shiver*

If the OP says: "Ever slept with someone you didn't find physically attractive?" it would be a little silly to assume that you'd take your pants off for someone that initially repulses you. I think the idea is, "ever woke up to a bad one-nighter?"

Somebody's banging the ugly people of the world and, by-God, it includes some of us.

__________________
Whatever you can carry.

"You should not drink... and bake."

World's King

I'm an alcoholic.




'nuff said...

__________________
heavy is the head that wears the crown

Plan9

Got a higher body count than Contra III, huh?

__________________
Whatever you can carry.

"You should not drink... and bake."

blahblah454

I have not had sex with an ugly woman before. But I did let a pretty ugly girl when I was just out of high school suck me off when she wanted to. And she wanted to a lot! And she was amazing at it, best head I have ever had, best head I will probably ever have.

*Nikki*

Yes.

Once.

Ugh.

Dolores Haze

....said my boyfriend about his ex from high school. Then again, he was a pretty big dork in that day too.

tecoyah

Was a time....when I truly cared about a girl most would consider quite unattractive. Thing is, she knew it, and became nearly depressed about her physical appearance, but I became her friend, and in a way I loved her. Over a couple month period I gave her "attention" in many ways to build her self esteem and it worked wonders.
She lost 40 lbs, and made abrupt changes to her appearance that pushed her into the attractive arena. When the inevitable came...I just smiled inside and told her she rocks. Haven't talked to her in years, but I bet shes happy and confident...woo hoo.

__________________
Holding onto anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned. - Buddha

snowy

I did once sleep with a guy who was attractive, just not to me. I was a little...unstable at the time, having just gotten out of a 1.5 year totally fucked up relationship. The dude in question was known for being a bit of a player...yeah, well, I played him good.

I guess he was mopey for a couple weeks afterwards because he'd never had a girl use him like that before...serves him right.

__________________
If I am not better, at least I am different. --Jean-Jacques Rousseau

hunnychile

Nope, Never. Oddly attractive in a dark, Jewish genius sorta way....yeah.

And that's like the counter/opposite of my being. Probably why I was so attracted!

Now regrets hmmm- of course. Was it worth it? Oh YeAHHhhhhhh

( I loved the pre-AIDS time of sexuality!!!!)

__________________
"I need compassion, understanding and chocolate." - NJB

canuckguy

unfortunately yes i did...

a girl i knew in university, my good friend had picked her up earlier in the year and had a fling with her, he said she was the best lay he ever had.

i ended up at her house 4th year, well I had to see what the hype was about. she was attractive, just not my type.

and damn he was right, she was amazing.

now that i think about it i should chance that first line from "did" to "have" as now i can remember others....

(hangs head)

ItWasMe

Yes, but it wasn't until after we broke up a couple of years later that I found him unattractive physically as well as mentally. That seems to be the way it goes. When I like someone, I find them physically appealing, no matter how others perceive them. When I can't stand them, I find them ugly through and through.

__________________
. . . . . . . . . . . . . .


"Ok, no more truth-or-dare until somebody returns my underwear" ~ George Lopez

I bake cookies just so I can lick the bowl. ~ ItWasMe

little_tippler

No and I hope I never let it get that far...

In short, I have never been so alcoholically stupified that I could do that.

And I know I couldn't do it sober.

__________________
Whether we write or speak or do but look
We are ever unapparent. What we are
Cannot be transfused into word or book.
Our soul from us is infinitely far.
However much we give our thoughts the will
To be our soul and gesture it abroad,
Our hearts are incommunicable still.
In what we show ourselves we are ignored.
The abyss from soul to soul cannot be bridged
By any skill of thought or trick of seeming.
Unto our very selves we are abridged
When we would utter to our thought our being.
We are our dreams of ourselves, souls by gleams,
And each to each other dreams of others' dreams.

Fernando Pessoa, 1918

inBOIL

Yes. Alcohol was not involved. She offered, I didn't want her to feel bad, so I said yes. The worst part was she kissed me on the mouth. Her teeth looked like a game of pick-up sticks.

__________________
And you believe Bush and the liberals and divorced parents and gays and blacks and the Christian right and fossil fuels and Xbox are all to blame, meanwhile you yourselves create an ad where your kid hits you in the head with a baseball and you don't understand the message that the problem is you.

Jenna

I've never slept with someone that I felt was VERY unattractive, although, I lost my virginity to a sixteen year old who wasn't the best looking guy I've seen.

I've also slept with a girl who has the exact opposite body type that I enjoy... but I take what I can get.

drillsgtdude

maybe, but hard to remember, lol, alcohol kinda erases memories, thank goodness

ticket

Not really, I don't like to pretend... But what I have learned since my divorce and returning to the dating scene, is that I after have had sex/slept with women that I find very attractive, the more I get to know about them on the inside, the less attractive they are, so far anyway. I think I am just more picky now than when I was younger.

james t kirk

LOL

Best one yet

To the question at hand - yes, an alcohol was NOT involved either, so there.

I have no regrets about any woman that I have ever slept with to tell you the truth.

Shaindra

Crompsin, you are my hero.

Sleep with him? Heck, I married him. And you know what? When feelings get involved, you get get past almost anything. Even that 150lbs he put on during the marriage.

Single now. And I wouldn't sleep with someone that I didn't feel at least a spark with. Of course after years of sleeping with someone I didn't desire, that spark is amazingly easy to find.

Plan9

Wow, that's like growing a fully-developed 16 year old Crompsin in your torso.

...

The investment we have in another person allows us to overlook what we initial see as temporary setbacks or minor issues even though they're dealbreakers.

Our brains rationalize it with simple mechanics. The cost of going vs. the cost of staying.

__________________
Whatever you can carry.

"You should not drink... and bake."

World's King

Yes. I've slept with more people then anyone I know.

__________________
heavy is the head that wears the crown