Yep! Good times, bad times and sprinting home times.

Lots of times. I have a sort of fetish sometimes about having sex with someone I find unattractive or even repulsive... I can't really explain it. It's a regular fantasy of mine as well.

One of my best friends is like that. She can have anyone she pleases(and does, the little tramp) because she is drop dead gorgeous. But she gets a kick once in a while sleeping with guys who would normally think they never would have a snowballs chance in hell with her.

Yanno, not that I would admit to this as a fetish, but there is a definite sense of power when you are clearly the more attractive person in the bed. If you go with a guy who thought he never had a chance with you...he'll make damn sure you consider it again. :thumbsup:

That's sort of fucked up.

This is absolutely true, but it's something that you have to put out of your mind. Being stuck up is not a good thing to be, trust me.

I am dating a guy who, physically, did not appeal to me initially, though he is an attractive man. But his personality is dynamite and I am hooked. He is actually growing on me in a big way.

Counter this with a guy I am fucking on the side who I find physically hot but his personality is meh.

Eventually, when I have to cut one loose the choice will be very easy.

Every time I jerk off...

I don't think it's stuck up to recognize your own attractiveness. Stuck up is thinking that attractiveness makes you a superior person. All attractiveness does is...attract other people.

Exactly what I was thinking.

That's fucked up as well.

Nope.

Though a terrble personality can turn a physically attractive woman repulsive.

Well for me it's not so much a case of giving an unattractive man a chance he wouldn't otherwise have had (pity sex?)... the sex with an unattractive man is a part of the fantasy for ME. All those twisted tales of an ugly creature ravaging the pretty young princess sexually turn me on like CRAZY.

I really appreciate this response, Jinn. I think it's a good point to be made in threads like this one.

The problem with this thread is that generally there's no way of telling who was really the "prize pig" in the equation, unless there is photographic evidence (like Shauk provided), so I don't think it's necessary to call anyone an uggo or a fatty or otherwise insult them. Besides, sexual attraction is a more complicated thing than simple physical attraction, as many in this thread have pointed out.

Hell yeah, I have. Many times. In the swinger lifestyle it was not uncommon to "take one for the team." Since I was the only fit one in my previous relationship it was difficult to find couples who were both relatively fit and inevitably there would be one who was quite overweight. I'll never forget the one time I "took one for the team" and the guy had to LIFT his belly off his cock so that I could get to it. Good thing I wasn't a guy cause my Johnson would NOT have been rising to that challenge even with 10 viagra to back me up.

Life is so much better when you are more selective about who you bang.

LOL! Damn, that's rough. I hope he rubbed your feet and made breakfast in bead.

I wish! Not even once.

That's just wrong. I hope you fired him.

Yeah, and we repeated it 3-6 times a day for about a week, until I had to go to work. We both knew it wasn't going to last, but it was absolutely the best sex ever...

Been there done that. In my case the guy also had copious amounts of body hair and extremely poor hygiene, I remember wondering if he knew how to wash himself or trim. It was quite unpleasant, and a huge turnon for me especially as the fat bastard was so excited at the prospect of me sucking him off. I've relived that one many times on a quiet night at home on my own.

Yeah...for about 5 minutes and then I stopped myself. She gave great head though.

nope

Lots of alcohol was involved..

Put it that way.

I just wanted to come provide an update and say...

the answer is still no.

:p

Yes, Ive had sex with someone who I didnt find physically attractive. Although she wasnt a very cool or person who was known for the right reasons she was the most kind and pleasant girl i've ever known. Girl would litterally give the clothes off her back to you if u asked.

(*sigh* Did I just describe a pity fuck?)

Only if you slept with her because you felt sorry for her.