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The_Jazz · 12-18-2007, 02:21 PM

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Originally Posted by abaya

That is fricking hilarious.

I mean, personally, I am talking about sleepovers from age 7 to 12 or so, were the guys really that excited about pre-pubescent spying?

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Originally Posted by The_Jazz

If by crazy shit, you mean try to figure out where the girls were having their sleepover so that we could go observe, then yes, we did

Asked and answered.

Jenna · 12-18-2007, 04:50 PM

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Originally Posted by abaya

What, didn't every girl do that, growing up? (Sleepover experiments.)

I sure did.

I did... I thought it was pretty standard too...

Ustwo · 12-19-2007, 07:37 AM

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Originally Posted by abaya

Come on, guys didn't do crazy shit during sleepovers?

Funny, if it weren't for a conversation I had with a friend I'd have said 'hell no', as all of my sleep overs growing up were crazy shit free. This friend talked about sleep overs where someone would jack off into a sock or some such and they would throw it at each other. This friend also was gay so I think there is a connection there.

Edit:I'll add that he thought tossing around a cumsoaked sock was perfectly normal behavior for a sleep over and had some name for it. I think he was somewhat surprised I never heard of it and thought it was a bit odd. I'll also add he didn't know/accept/think he was gay at the time.

Chumley · 12-19-2007, 10:18 PM

Gosh, jerking off came pretty natural from the beginning.... and is an almost-daily activity to this day.

During teen years, my male friends and I progressed into some mutual stimulation that I remember fondly. We weren't too hung up about it -- it was still always all about girls.

Nowadays, my wife is not as comfy with it as I'd like. Initial shock at how much I do it, then gradual acceptance.

BearNaked · 12-19-2007, 10:51 PM

I was late teens before ever masturbating. I kinda knew about it, but was so busy having sex I never really figured it for an option. I gave up having full time girlfriends somewhere around 19, and sex became irregular thus having the need for release. Since that point, and for the next 30+ years, I have masturbated fairly regular, basically daily between the days when intercourse is involved.

And while never hiding the fact I did it, it was never anything I talked about.

cheetahtank2 · 12-22-2007, 01:22 AM

All guys do it as teens(and probably girls as well havent asked any of my gf's seems like an akward question) and if they say they didnt they're lying and probably did it more than anyone else. Anyway I shared this with really only my closest friends but, understood most did it.

One thing im curious about (i agree with it but dont know why) is why its gay for boys to experiment but common for girls?

Delirious · 12-22-2007, 05:26 AM

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Originally Posted by abaya

Teen? I wish. I didn't really think about masturbation until I was 22... but as soon as someone actually suggested it to me, I gave it a try. Haven't looked back since.

Am actually quite bummed at the moment because my vibrator is broken.

(When my husband isn't home.)

How is it that women are always breaking their vibrators? How do you even break a penis shaped object that vibrates?????

eileenbunny · 12-22-2007, 08:44 AM

I don't believe I ever didn't masturbate. I guess my first conscious effort was when I was 5. That's the first time I remember knowing what I was doing. I didn't discuss it with anyone until high school, but I already knew that people did it. When I was 12 I injured myself while doing it and then I had to discuss it with a doctor, which was horribly embarassing at the time, but I suppose that it's just funny now. I still do it as often as possible.

Aladdin Sane · 12-23-2007, 10:57 AM

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Originally Posted by jennaboo4u

I did... I thought it was pretty standard too...

I'm still waiting to hear your stories. Details, please.

naota172 · 01-06-2008, 10:02 PM

a very smart guy once said: "there are two types of people in this world, those who maturbate and those who lie about it" i think that pretty much sums it up.

ametc · 01-06-2008, 11:21 PM

Wow. Some of you guys started pretty late, imo. I was probably the first in my elementary school to discover what my clitoris and vagina were and what kind of fun they could show me.

The first couple times I was pretty loud... I got quieter as I got more and more used to doing it.

As a teen, I spoke pretty openly about it. Someone can come up to me on the street and ask me if I masturbate and I'll tell them, "Sure, when I feel like it."

I used to do it everyday, as often as I could.. over the years the urge has gotten weaker and weaker to now where I only do it when I feel like it.

Deltona Couple · 01-15-2008, 11:56 AM

This is funny as hell. I am laughing my ass off reading some of these. As far as me personally, I can still remember the first time I was about 6 or 7. A friend had found some of his dads old stag films and we watched some of them. It wasn't hard to figure out what to do with the hand after seeing the films, and I haven't stopped since! lol.

ItWasMe · 01-15-2008, 03:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Crompsin

... So your name here isn't just an anonymous handle... but a hint to other things.

OMG I haven't laughed so hard at something in a long time. Thanks, Crompsin.

Well, my attitude then was the same as it is now: "I'm not telling."

Martian · 01-15-2008, 09:27 PM

My attitude then was pretty similar to my attitude now. I figured that everybody did it and nobody talked about it.

I get cranky if I don't get off at least once a week.

Grasshopper Green · 01-16-2008, 07:43 PM

I really didn't know about masturbation until I was about 18. Growing up in Utah can do that to you.

MSD · 01-16-2008, 08:21 PM

I did it all the time but either didn't talk about it or outright denied it up until a year or two ago. My strict Catholic upbringing had me believing that everything between the knees and the hips was dirty, and it's one of many religious neuroses I worked hard to discard and flush from my subconscious once I lost my faith.

snowy · 01-16-2008, 08:26 PM

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Originally Posted by abaya

What, didn't every girl do that, growing up? (Sleepover experiments.)

I sure did.

Oh, yeah...definitely been there, done that. Totally clueless, looking back.

fatmanforprez · 01-16-2008, 09:58 PM

I am going to have to point out again that the voice saying that all the guys did was wonder what the girls did is completely accurate.

Lets see age of 12 I had sleepovers involving video games, DnD and soda, "experimentation" never came up. We all beat off like crazy (at least I did) but it never required discussion, and never company.

The closest we ever came to discussing masturbation or sex really was the "Unlawful Book of Carnal Knowledge" DnD ebook that got occasionally mentioned. Even then we were discussion the dangers of the curse orgasmic monster summoning, or the cursed item belt of gender bending, or the percentage chance a dwarf could mate with an elf successfully.

No wonder i lost my virginity at the age I did. We were really dorks come to think of it.

We need more information on this "experimentation" as recompense for never having a proper sleepover.

Ambiguity · 01-17-2008, 03:53 PM

I was 13 or 14...

I remember the first time too, I was like... that's it? lol...

Still don't have huge orgasm's.

shesus · 01-17-2008, 06:14 PM

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Originally Posted by abaya

That is fricking hilarious.

I mean, personally, I am talking about sleepovers from age 7 to 12 or so, were the guys really that excited about pre-pubescent spying?

I remember having a sleep over when I was in 5th grade. The boys were spying on us then...hmm. Anyway, yes, boys do think that way.

I think they saw us dancing around and then playing Twister. I'm sure it fueled many a masturbation in the young boys life.

As for me, I started before I knew what I was doing. Second grade is when I remember getting in trouble in class for 'wiggling' too much. Then when I knew what I was doing, early teens, I was a bit guilty, being from a religious family. Then I got over it. I enjoy it from time to time like everyone else.

fro2020 · 01-25-2008, 11:53 PM

Damn.

What a topic.

My $.02:

First time was when I was 13. Had no idea what I was doing, but I found that humping the mattress felt pretty damn good.

Did it the next night again to see if I could replicate it, or if it was just a one time deal.

After that it was pretty much an everyday type thing.

Funny part (or sad, depending on your perspective) - I didn't know what it was that I was doing.

My attitude was pretty much ambivalence - until I found out from a church leader that what I was doing was a sin.

I can honestly say that I have never felt as much guilt in my life as I did after that moment. Was a pretty heavy load for a 15 year old to take. I felt as though I had done something akin to murder in the eyes of God.

That guilt stayed with me for years. Don't really know if I have still completely shaken it.

Did it stop me? No.

Is that a testament to the sex drive of the adolescent male of the human species? I'd have to say yes.

But the more I did it, the more guilty I felt.

Basically - it sucked.

surferlove007 · 01-26-2008, 12:48 AM

I used to rub my area because it would feel really good..and then suddenly REALLY REALLY good. I probably started doing that when I was pretty young. I remember "wiggling" a lot during nap time trying to be quiet and unnoticable. I do remember another girl doing it too..and the teacher told her to stop lol. I didn't realize why it felt good until my teens. I also remember being embarrassed about it at an early age.

SSJTWIZTA · 01-26-2008, 02:06 AM

I remember the first time for me was around age 9. I found it tons of fun and started pounding it constantly. then, came that one day where i shot my first load. i remember it pretty well. I was pretty f'in shocked because 24 hours prior to this i was shooting blanks. It took about 30 seconds for me to stop marveling at the fact that i could now splooge like an adult, and confidence slowly set in.

That confidence faded when i realized that i could now impregnate someone.

Kaimi · 01-26-2008, 11:45 AM

This is odd, but my first masturbation experiment was a curious moment with the neighbor boy. We were around 9 years old if I recall, and we shared one of those "you show me yours, I will show you mine" moments. In any case we explored eachother further, somewhat innocently. It ended up being an occasional repeated episode. Sort of a "friends with bennies" type relationship.

frankx · 01-28-2008, 08:14 PM

Ah, yes, my favorite after school activity. I did not discuss the activities of my right hand with my friends. They gave me enough crap about everything else.

If I would not have been able to, chances are I would be in prison right now for murder.

levite · 02-02-2008, 09:13 AM

I think I always masturbated, I just only did it occasionally until I was 10 or 11, and started ejaculating. Then I did it all the time. I was going 2-3 times a day minimum in high school-- almost pulled the damn thing off before I graduated. Still love to do it, although over the past fifteen years, I've managed to get it down to once every other day or so when I'm not in a relationship, maybe once a week when I am in a relationship.

I was shy about talking about it (never shy about doing it) until I was around 13 or so, and a friend of my dad (kind of an adopted uncle) bought me some porn mags, and told me not to feel guilty or worry, and said words that I continue to live by, to this day:

"If God really didn't want you to touch yourself, your hands would grow right out of your shoulders."

Yes, indeed....

12-22-2007, 01:22 AM	#46 (permalink)
cheetahtank2 Upright Location: Everett, WA	All guys do it as teens(and probably girls as well havent asked any of my gf's seems like an akward question) and if they say they didnt they're lying and probably did it more than anyone else. Anyway I shared this with really only my closest friends but, understood most did it. One thing im curious about (i agree with it but dont know why) is why its gay for boys to experiment but common for girls? Last edited by cheetahtank2; 12-22-2007 at 01:25 AM.. Reason: Automerged Doublepost

01-15-2008, 11:56 AM	#52 (permalink)
Deltona Couple Addict Location: Spring, Texas	This is funny as hell. I am laughing my ass off reading some of these. As far as me personally, I can still remember the first time I was about 6 or 7. A friend had found some of his dads old stag films and we watched some of them. It wasn't hard to figure out what to do with the hand after seeing the films, and I haven't stopped since! lol. __________________ "It is not that I have failed, but that I have found 10,000 ways that it DOESN'T work!" --Thomas Edison

01-15-2008, 09:27 PM	#54 (permalink)
Martian Young Crumudgeon Location: Canada	My attitude then was pretty similar to my attitude now. I figured that everybody did it and nobody talked about it. I get cranky if I don't get off at least once a week. __________________ I wake up in the morning more tired than before I slept I get through cryin' and I'm sadder than before I wept I get through thinkin' now, and the thoughts have left my head I get through speakin' and I can't remember, not a word that I said - Ben Harper, Show Me A Little Shame

01-16-2008, 07:43 PM	#55 (permalink)
Grasshopper Green ...is a comical chap Location: Where morons reign supreme	I really didn't know about masturbation until I was about 18. Growing up in Utah can do that to you. __________________ "They say that patriotism is the last refuge to which a scoundrel clings; steal a little and they throw you in jail, steal a lot and they make you king" Formerly Medusa

01-25-2008, 11:53 PM	#61 (permalink)
fro2020 Still crazy after all these years Location: Norther Cal	Damn. What a topic. My $.02: First time was when I was 13. Had no idea what I was doing, but I found that humping the mattress felt pretty damn good. Did it the next night again to see if I could replicate it, or if it was just a one time deal. After that it was pretty much an everyday type thing. Funny part (or sad, depending on your perspective) - I didn't know what it was that I was doing. My attitude was pretty much ambivalence - until I found out from a church leader that what I was doing was a sin. I can honestly say that I have never felt as much guilt in my life as I did after that moment. Was a pretty heavy load for a 15 year old to take. I felt as though I had done something akin to murder in the eyes of God. That guilt stayed with me for years. Don't really know if I have still completely shaken it. Did it stop me? No. Is that a testament to the sex drive of the adolescent male of the human species? I'd have to say yes. But the more I did it, the more guilty I felt. Basically - it sucked. __________________ I'm not prejudiced...I hate everyone equally.

12-19-2007, 10:18 PM	#44 (permalink)
Chumley Upright	Gosh, jerking off came pretty natural from the beginning.... and is an almost-daily activity to this day. During teen years, my male friends and I progressed into some mutual stimulation that I remember fondly. We weren't too hung up about it -- it was still always all about girls. Nowadays, my wife is not as comfy with it as I'd like. Initial shock at how much I do it, then gradual acceptance.

12-19-2007, 10:51 PM	#45 (permalink)
BearNaked Upright	I was late teens before ever masturbating. I kinda knew about it, but was so busy having sex I never really figured it for an option. I gave up having full time girlfriends somewhere around 19, and sex became irregular thus having the need for release. Since that point, and for the next 30+ years, I have masturbated fairly regular, basically daily between the days when intercourse is involved. And while never hiding the fact I did it, it was never anything I talked about.

12-22-2007, 08:44 AM	#48 (permalink)
eileenbunny Upright Location: Columbia, MD	I don't believe I ever didn't masturbate. I guess my first conscious effort was when I was 5. That's the first time I remember knowing what I was doing. I didn't discuss it with anyone until high school, but I already knew that people did it. When I was 12 I injured myself while doing it and then I had to discuss it with a doctor, which was horribly embarassing at the time, but I suppose that it's just funny now. I still do it as often as possible.

01-06-2008, 10:02 PM	#50 (permalink)
naota172 Upright	a very smart guy once said: "there are two types of people in this world, those who maturbate and those who lie about it" i think that pretty much sums it up.

01-06-2008, 11:21 PM	#51 (permalink)
ametc Psycho	Wow. Some of you guys started pretty late, imo. I was probably the first in my elementary school to discover what my clitoris and vagina were and what kind of fun they could show me. The first couple times I was pretty loud... I got quieter as I got more and more used to doing it. As a teen, I spoke pretty openly about it. Someone can come up to me on the street and ask me if I masturbate and I'll tell them, "Sure, when I feel like it." I used to do it everyday, as often as I could.. over the years the urge has gotten weaker and weaker to now where I only do it when I feel like it.

01-16-2008, 08:21 PM	#56 (permalink)
MSD The sky calls to us ... Super Moderator Location: CT	I did it all the time but either didn't talk about it or outright denied it up until a year or two ago. My strict Catholic upbringing had me believing that everything between the knees and the hips was dirty, and it's one of many religious neuroses I worked hard to discard and flush from my subconscious once I lost my faith.

01-16-2008, 09:58 PM	#58 (permalink)
fatmanforprez Tilted	I am going to have to point out again that the voice saying that all the guys did was wonder what the girls did is completely accurate. Lets see age of 12 I had sleepovers involving video games, DnD and soda, "experimentation" never came up. We all beat off like crazy (at least I did) but it never required discussion, and never company. The closest we ever came to discussing masturbation or sex really was the "Unlawful Book of Carnal Knowledge" DnD ebook that got occasionally mentioned. Even then we were discussion the dangers of the curse orgasmic monster summoning, or the cursed item belt of gender bending, or the percentage chance a dwarf could mate with an elf successfully. No wonder i lost my virginity at the age I did. We were really dorks come to think of it. We need more information on this "experimentation" as recompense for never having a proper sleepover.

01-17-2008, 03:53 PM	#59 (permalink)
Ambiguity Tilted	I was 13 or 14... I remember the first time too, I was like... that's it? lol... Still don't have huge orgasm's.

01-26-2008, 12:48 AM	#62 (permalink)
surferlove007 Junkie	I used to rub my area because it would feel really good..and then suddenly REALLY REALLY good. I probably started doing that when I was pretty young. I remember "wiggling" a lot during nap time trying to be quiet and unnoticable. I do remember another girl doing it too..and the teacher told her to stop lol. I didn't realize why it felt good until my teens. I also remember being embarrassed about it at an early age. Last edited by surferlove007; 01-26-2008 at 12:52 AM..

01-26-2008, 02:06 AM	#63 (permalink)
SSJTWIZTA Master Thief. Master Criminal. Masturbator. Location: Windiwana	I remember the first time for me was around age 9. I found it tons of fun and started pounding it constantly. then, came that one day where i shot my first load. i remember it pretty well. I was pretty f'in shocked because 24 hours prior to this i was shooting blanks. It took about 30 seconds for me to stop marveling at the fact that i could now splooge like an adult, and confidence slowly set in. That confidence faded when i realized that i could now impregnate someone. __________________ First they came for the Jews and I did not speak out because I was not a Jew. Then they came for the communists and I did not speak out because I was not a communist. Then they came for the trade unionists and I did not speak out because I was not a trade unionist Then they came for me And there was no one left to speak out for me. -Pastor Martin Niemoller

01-26-2008, 11:45 AM	#64 (permalink)
Kaimi Crazy	This is odd, but my first masturbation experiment was a curious moment with the neighbor boy. We were around 9 years old if I recall, and we shared one of those "you show me yours, I will show you mine" moments. In any case we explored eachother further, somewhat innocently. It ended up being an occasional repeated episode. Sort of a "friends with bennies" type relationship.

01-28-2008, 08:14 PM	#65 (permalink)
frankx Psycho Location: The Tip of the Boot	Ah, yes, my favorite after school activity. I did not discuss the activities of my right hand with my friends. They gave me enough crap about everything else. If I would not have been able to, chances are I would be in prison right now for murder. __________________ Louisiana: We're Not ALL Drunken Cajun Wackos, But That's Our Tourism Campaign

02-02-2008, 09:13 AM	#66 (permalink)
levite Minion of Joss Location: The Windy City	I think I always masturbated, I just only did it occasionally until I was 10 or 11, and started ejaculating. Then I did it all the time. I was going 2-3 times a day minimum in high school-- almost pulled the damn thing off before I graduated. Still love to do it, although over the past fifteen years, I've managed to get it down to once every other day or so when I'm not in a relationship, maybe once a week when I am in a relationship. I was shy about talking about it (never shy about doing it) until I was around 13 or so, and a friend of my dad (kind of an adopted uncle) bought me some porn mags, and told me not to feel guilty or worry, and said words that I continue to live by, to this day: "If God really didn't want you to touch yourself, your hands would grow right out of your shoulders." Yes, indeed.... __________________ Dull sublunary lovers love, Whose soul is sense, cannot admit Absence, because it doth remove That thing which elemented it. (From "A Valediction: Forbidding Mourning" by John Donne)